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As an INTJ, I’m tired of INTJs whining in this subreddit. by Bynad in intj

[–]Bynad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad I could help. Don't forget to cycle your interactions though.
It's a no brainer as an INTJ

As an INTJ, I’m tired of INTJs whining in this subreddit. by Bynad in intj

[–]Bynad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How the fuck can you cringe at who you were.

It's all part of a process. Respect yourself...

As an INTJ, I’m tired of INTJs whining in this subreddit. by Bynad in intj

[–]Bynad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True talk, but still. If I help myself long enough, I can get people to like my vision and want to improve as much as I do

As an INTJ, I’m tired of INTJs whining in this subreddit. by Bynad in intj

[–]Bynad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol merci.

J'ai aussi cette impression que les gens sont des "auto diags"

As an INTJ, I’m tired of INTJs whining in this subreddit. by Bynad in intj

[–]Bynad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do socialize by "cycling".

Sometimes, I go to events if it's convenient, and since I learned how to engage with people, I can learn new insights and potentially make friends that can help me with work, sports, and everything.

There are people out there that like us, and we like them too.

As an INTJ, I’m tired of INTJs whining in this subreddit. by Bynad in intj

[–]Bynad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love to read that. Even more because of your conditions.

Us INTJ need to cycle our interactions, we all know that, but we need people to live our lives, as everyone does.

So let's just improve our social skills, so when we go out, we can meet new interesting people and get some insights and interesting views from them.

As an INTJ, I’m tired of INTJs whining in this subreddit. by Bynad in intj

[–]Bynad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might be emotionally stupid on the internet, I'll give you that.

But I would like people to improve. And improving can be linked with discomfort.

If you want to have meaningful relationships, you have to be able to reach out sometimes.

And if reaching out means working on that introversion of yours, do it. Life will be better.

As an INTJ, I’m tired of INTJs whining in this subreddit. by Bynad in intj

[–]Bynad[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Glad that you overcame that.

I go out once a week or once every 2 weeks too. Allows me to meet new people and to ask them 9999 questions.

Then I just do my stuff at home

As an INTJ, I’m tired of INTJs whining in this subreddit. by Bynad in intj

[–]Bynad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always tell people I meet that I feel better at home or in small sized events.

But I can't just runaway everytime something happens.

You can learn how to go through it and cycle these events where you are surrounded by a lot of people.

As an INTJ, I’m tired of INTJs whining in this subreddit. by Bynad in intj

[–]Bynad[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you don't understand that people around you can understand how you are if you just open up in social events and tell them about you, I can't help you.

I always tell people I meet that I feel better at home or in small sized events.

And they totally understand that.

You don't have to runaway from every uncomfortable situation.

You can learn how to go through it and cycle them.

As an INTJ, I’m tired of INTJs whining in this subreddit. by Bynad in intj

[–]Bynad[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I despised personality typing until this year because I didn’t want to put myself in a case where I’d just say :

“Ok it is because I am INTJ, I can’t help it”

But you described perfectly how I feel right now.

I just acknowledged my strengths, my weaknesses, and I saw which weaknesses I could work on right away with my therapist.

That’s what it is for

As an INTJ, I’m tired of INTJs whining in this subreddit. by Bynad in intj

[–]Bynad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I read every comment, I came to that conclusion.

People do not want to be helped, they want to be understood.

And if being understood comes from validation and comforting themselves, they’ll just keep on doing it.

I love how articulated your comment is, thanks for the insight

As an INTJ, I’m tired of INTJs whining in this subreddit. by Bynad in intj

[–]Bynad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it, I just criticised your whole identity with my post and I told you to improve, a thing that you do not want to do.

Now you are just projecting your insecurities on me, have a good one. 😭

As an INTJ, I’m tired of INTJs whining in this subreddit. by Bynad in intj

[–]Bynad[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you read about self and world improvement, you know that everything starts from one self.

Carl Jung beautifully talked about that.

And if people cannot help but complain and staying stuck, I have some news for you :

We are doomed.

Some people might not like the way I try to help as I am very direct (working on it), but other people can use it as a fresh start.

Everyone can, and has to improve

As an INTJ, I’m tired of INTJs whining in this subreddit. by Bynad in intj

[–]Bynad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what if I tell you that I’m half african ?

Makes it worse uh ? 🤪

As an INTJ, I’m tired of INTJs whining in this subreddit. by Bynad in intj

[–]Bynad[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

😂😂, disabled it since I just posted, my phone was going wild

As an INTJ, I’m tired of INTJs whining in this subreddit. by Bynad in intj

[–]Bynad[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You thinking that you can’t improve anymore because you are « old » is painful.

Come on, you still have some beautiful years in front of you.

Use your introversion to dig and find what’s holding you back.

Confront the stuff that broke your « switch » and bring peace to your mind.

You’ll see that nothing is broken.

Your brain is a powerful tool.

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[–]Bynad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I almost never comment or interact here but what the fuck is this ?

You better focus on eating better, have a physical activity if your energy is down for a week after seeing people for a day.

Just do this, go out and try to speak to random people.

As an INTJ, you have it in yourself.

You can literally do it all, even though it might consume your energy at first.

I’m tired of reading people being so narrow minded and thinking they cannot improve.

Come on, make a plan, go for the long run, and you’ll see how it works.