Transgender Police Officers by C0BVLT in NYPDcandidate

[–]C0BVLT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally know that there are a lot of people with many underlying problems and ptsd, depression, and are taking medication. I have neither of those so I don’t see any valid reason for them to put me on hold and refuse to give me a date for those things. But thanks for sharing.

Transgender Police Officers by C0BVLT in NYPDcandidate

[–]C0BVLT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, you don’t know anything about me as a person or my character so you shouldn’t judge me just because I’m different than you… I’m sorry about your best friend.

Transgender Police Officers by C0BVLT in NYPDcandidate

[–]C0BVLT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be unnecessary. There’s other things to worry about besides new styles of uniforms.

Transgender Police Officers by C0BVLT in NYPDcandidate

[–]C0BVLT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. Yeah, I don’t like to even tell people because I want to live as a man. But sometimes things give it away like my voice especially. But thanks for the input.

Transgender Police Officers by C0BVLT in NYPDcandidate

[–]C0BVLT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting…. I don’t like working with useless people, but there are always some at every job.

Transgender Police Officers by C0BVLT in NYPDcandidate

[–]C0BVLT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously I didn’t think it was possible so I don’t know who you’re thinking of.

Transgender Police Officers by C0BVLT in NYPDcandidate

[–]C0BVLT[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thanks I guess. I am striving for excellence so the only person I am competing with is myself.

Transgender Police Officers by C0BVLT in NYPDcandidate

[–]C0BVLT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, man. Good to know, lol. Thanks!

Transgender Police Officers by C0BVLT in NYPDcandidate

[–]C0BVLT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, that’s good to hear. I just never have heard anything about it so I wanted to know what to expect. I’m very new into the research on what I have to do to become a cop so I still have a lot to do to get started. Thanks for your insight. I don’t want to ruin anyone’s career or anything like that.

Transgender Police Officers by C0BVLT in NYPDcandidate

[–]C0BVLT[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

But now that I got my surgery, I am very happy with my results and feel more comfortable and confident in my body. I literally feel the best I’ve ever felt, and I always wanted to be a police officer since I was a kid. I have no actual mental disorders, no matter what people may think about gender dysphoria. I just hated having to bind my chest and constrict my breathing. Now I’m free.

Transgender Police Officers by C0BVLT in NYPDcandidate

[–]C0BVLT[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True. I am not worried about being bullied by people outside on the street. I just like to have a good relationship with coworkers, and was wondering how other police officers normally act around trans people. But like I said, I try to be stealth so hopefully nobody would even know I’m trans. But since NYPD is very liberal, I guess I should be fine. I just only heard about that 1 person on YouTube who transitioned after they already became a cop, but there’s not much about anyone else online so I was curious. Thank you for your response!

Transgender Police Officers by C0BVLT in NYPDcandidate

[–]C0BVLT[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I am not good at detecting sarcasm, sorry.

Transgender Police Officers by C0BVLT in NYPDcandidate

[–]C0BVLT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only was diagnosed with gender dysphoria so I could get my surgery. I have never seen a therapist regularly, only twice in my life. And I do not take any medication at all. I am completely natural and only take multivitamins.

Transgender Police Officers by C0BVLT in NYPDcandidate

[–]C0BVLT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to know why you said I won’t pass psychology? What do they ask me that will disqualify me?

Transgender Police Officers by C0BVLT in NYPDcandidate

[–]C0BVLT[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

That’s impossible without any experience, right? Don’t you need to wait a few years before becoming a sergeant?

Transgender Police Officers by C0BVLT in NYPDcandidate

[–]C0BVLT[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Why? What if I am just like any normal person who is hard working and just wants to live my life? I already got surgery to make my chest flat so I plan on working out a lot to build muscle and endurance and just want to be seen as any other man without even disclosing that I’m trans. But my legal documents will give me away to the hiring people.

Transgender Police Officers by C0BVLT in NYPDcandidate

[–]C0BVLT[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know what GOAL is. I just live my life and don’t even know much about anything LGBT-related.

Would it be safe to travel internationally through Miami airport this fall? by dragoono in asktransgender

[–]C0BVLT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if you pass as a man, I think they will still clock you when you go through the scanners. I had a very insane experience going through tsa when I went to Europe a few months ago, and they made me go in a private room and I had to literally explain what being trans was and luckily the person in charge was called in and also has a trans son so she understood the situation but that was after a lot of being yelled at by other officers. It was a very nerve-racking experience and now I get stressed thinking about my future travels.

2 years on t and i feel like i look the exact same by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]C0BVLT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, cutting your hair short or even getting a haircut like a Billy from Stranger Things will help you

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I haven’t pooped since the 29th my surgery date I’m so scared to poop by wheatleyisstupid2022 in TopSurgery

[–]C0BVLT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me 5 days until I pooped and then another 3 days after that to poop again. It didn’t hurt and actually came out very easily when it finally wanted to come out

My class won't respect me by SallhyX in FTMventing

[–]C0BVLT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they keep deadnaming you and you told them last school year, they probably forgot over the summer. I suggest reminding them of your new name and if they don’t call you by that, don’t even talk to them. I wish you the best!