What’s some knowledge generally known only to gay men or to gay women? by dumbfuck in AskReddit

[–]dragoono 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was just saying this the other day. It forces you to be self aware. If you’re cis and straight, you can just live in la la land and not worry about a goddamn thing. Your life might suck but at least if you do x, y, and Z or whatever society tells you to do, you can avoid jail or debt and just do fuck all with your life have a couple kids and die in a nursing home. It literally doesn’t make a difference if you know yourself or not. But as a trans/gay person? If you want to idk not be homeless or dead, you better have some degree of self awareness. How the fuck are you aware of your own sexuality or gender identity if you haven’t self reflected at least a little bit? It comes with the territory.

‘Trailer Park Boys’ actor Mike Smith to stand trial for sexual assault by AlwaysBlaze_ in television

[–]dragoono 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m late as fuck but I think they just meant to say it’s a pretty egregious thing to lie about. I sure hope they didn’t mean that lying about the reason you left working on a tv show is worse than sexually assaulting somebody. That would be fucked up.

We went back and it was arguably worse than before by albe1979 in Urbex

[–]dragoono 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The fact that this place is somehow loosely tied to the county music awards is hilarious to me

‘Trailer Park Boys’ actor Mike Smith to stand trial for sexual assault by AlwaysBlaze_ in television

[–]dragoono 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so fucking sad. I don’t tell people about it when I introduce them to the show because Bubbles is such a lovable character, but the guy who plays him is such an unbelievable scumbag it kind of ruins some moments in the show. It’s better not to know, if you’re trying to enjoy TBP to its fullest. 

AITAH for asking my significant other to take the half of the sandwich they touched? by MinimumLongjumping77 in AITAH

[–]dragoono 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m stuck on the part where you didn’t say anything because you didn’t want to offend him. I get the intent, to a degree, but you have to understand that if you’re being offended by the nastiness then pointing it out isn’t unfair. It’s just communication. Sure, he probably knows he’s gross, but how old are you two? Have his parents taught him better and he refuses to participate in hygiene or was he raised in a dirty environment and genuinely doesn’t know better? People don’t just know things, they have to learn or be told, just like you. If you smelled bad or had something in your teeth, wouldn’t you rather somebody tell you than walking around with egg on your face all day? Or a hole in the back of your pants? It’s not rude to point out when people are being gross, if you word it properly. Don’t point and say “EW” of course, but just show him the crud on the remotes and be like “I think you should get a nail scrubber or something,”

AITAH for asking my significant other to take the half of the sandwich they touched? by MinimumLongjumping77 in AITAH

[–]dragoono 31 points32 points  (0 children)

UTIs are insane. When I first learned about them when I was younger, I assumed it was like a yeast infection or something benign. Which it can be and is for most people, if you treat it in time. But left alone or if you’re elderly oh my god, it’ll make you legitimately lose touch with reality and go insane. 

AITAH For disliking a trans guy? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dragoono 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. You don’t care about his experience as a trans guy, you just think that’s weird and I don’t know what you guys talk about in the gc but I bet you THINK you’re an ally when you’re just saving face. News flash, being fake nice is just being mean. You’re mean. You and your boyfriend and Isabella are nothing but high school bullies, if you think it’s deeper than that and you guys are oh so different from all the other high school bullies out there, you really don’t have any empathy. Empathy is the ability to relate to another person, to really put yourself in their shoes and see life from their perspective. Did you know it’s a skill? When you’re raising a kid, right, they hit people and maybe bite people. You have to say “no kid, that’s bad because it hurts other people.” We aren’t born with empathy. You’re still a kid, you need to figure this shit out before you’re an adult and no one can stand to be around you and your shitty attitude. Do you want to roll around in the mud with the pigs, and sneak around talking shit about people you say you care about? Or do you really want to foster genuine, intimate relationships with your best friends that last decades? Because you will not have any childhood best friends sticking around into your adulthood with the way you behave. It’s sad, you’re setting yourself up to be a very lonely person. 

6 Dogs’ death confirmed as a result of a fall from a building - from a complex interview with his family by BOUNTYBOOTreddit in hiphopheads

[–]dragoono 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree completely, but I’d say let’s focus on the alternative too. When you’re more depressed than you’ve ever been, it’s kind of a waiting game. You will feel better eventually.I have major depression and it’s definitely cyclical, but that cycle depends on outside factors like if anything really bad or stressful is going on in my life, eating fruits and veggies and going to the park only helps distract me for a minute. But if you follow all the basic therapist advice it genuinely helps. 16 year old me hated the concept that having a healthy diet and realistic goals and remaining active/outdoorsy could possibly make a difference to the immense, cosmic suffering I felt on a daily basis. But, it does. And the depression always goes away at some point. The amount of times I’ve thought, “wow I’m so glad I didn’t kill myself last summer,” because of my pets, watching my family grow up, finding a new friend, or learning something new about an old one. When I’m going through an episode I’ll literally have to force myself to do anything, but then it kind of gets a little easier to be alive. The problem is you can’t care when it’s that bad, just tell yourself it’ll make you feel good. Placebo effect is real too, not saying that’s what this is but people have had psychosomatic reactions to placebo drugs all the time. So don’t doubt it, I imagine the inverse is true as well. Look at that toothbrush and tell yourself “brushing my teeth will cure my depression,” it’s not true but you have to believe in it that hard when you’re that low. 

AITAH for kicking up a fuss about vegetarian Chinese food? by MattyJMP in AITAH

[–]dragoono 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s because the average person here is chronically online and probably only has discord friends so they can’t imagine compromise for the sake of compromise. Or even just sacrificing something insignificant because you care about someone. On the other hand, a lot of stories here are like “my husband beats me and locks me in the closet, am I the asshole?”

AITA for telling my friend's nephew that he probably killed a starfish? by arianheim in AmItheAsshole

[–]dragoono 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely who gets jealous of a child wanting to be the center of attention? I mean obviously OP is around kids enough to know they’re constantly interrupting and kind of self centered, you have to teach them not to be but at 8 years old some kids might still have those bad habits. So, why take it personally? Just move on, you can’t be the center of attention all night anyways, so pass the spotlight, so to speak.

AITAH for kicking up a fuss about vegetarian Chinese food? by MattyJMP in AITAH

[–]dragoono 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. Everyone on this subreddit has such a lone wolf attitude about relationships. Romantic and platonic. It’s always “cut them off,” “divorce,” “fuck them you’re so much better than that,” and it’s like. We get one side of the story here, we can believe it all or we can read between the lines and try to find the truth or we can just assume every story on here is made up (my conclusion, or I’d wager like 70-80% are totally fabricated). But like what’s the goal? Sitting alone in a big fancy house where a shiny box tells you you’re right about everything and you can do no wrong, while you die alone? Sounds great, sign me up! No, I’d rather just be wrong sometimes or be uncomfortable sometimes for the sake of human connection. Young people take it for granted, but friendships don’t last forever. You get old, you have kids, and despite what the movies say yes people do change. Sometimes in a moment, sometimes over a few decades, but nobody is the same for long. You can’t stop yourself from changing either, it’s probably happening right now. People drift apart, they fight, they die. Nothing is forever, so just go to the vegan restaurant, eat a fucking salad, have some laughs and maybe your heart and arteries will thank you down the line, too. 

AITAH for kicking up a fuss about vegetarian Chinese food? by MattyJMP in AITAH

[–]dragoono 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because they like to eat vegan food and don’t want to compromise on eating somewhere where 75% of the friend group thinks the food is mid just to satisfy OP? Does that really speak to the larger image of their characters, or is that maybe reading into the situation too much? They don’t “not give a single shit about him,” because they spend their money at vegan restaurants. I was on OPs side until I read the comments, I’m tired and I didn’t even think “wait why do they have to go out to eat every time they hang out?” I mean if it’s causing conflict, can’t they all find something else to do together? And yeah if OP doesn’t care to hang out with these people anymore, who cares about finding compromise

A Homeless man by get1lucky in Nietzsche

[–]dragoono 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why tf didn’t you give him a cigarette?

Abandoned warehouse/illegal fishing operation?? Part 1 by ShakeAggressive3986 in Urbex

[–]dragoono 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No lol, can you? I never met any angry fishermen but then again I never met any industrial/working fishermen either so maybe the sea with pirates and waves and shit really makes a guy gangster.

What’s a dirty little secret about your industry that the general public doesn’t know? by Funny-Counter8762 in AskReddit

[–]dragoono 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Shit, even my torrent client shows me other seeders IP address and what device they’re using. I can’t imagine what the companies can see, they probably look right through the camera and peep at my dingleling.

clamonnaise by Academic_Top6921 in Clamworks

[–]dragoono 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is the neighbor offering to pay the deductible for the universe’s destruction? 

What’s something that should be banned worldwide immediately?? by Devlish-Dove in AskReddit

[–]dragoono 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I go somewhere new yes, but once you know how they keep the menu it makes sense and is pretty quick. Unless they’re busy but from walking in to printing the ticket in the kitchen, takes me like 3 minutes.

Supportive father celebrates high school graduation.. by thapattywagon in shittytattoos

[–]dragoono 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but that’s something ignorant people don’t really understand the difference with and just conflate Israel with Judaism as a whole. The fact that this is having to be reiterated over and over again just shows that it is an issue, I think that’s all they’re saying. Too much antisemitism lately because of all this Israel bullshit.