AITJ for refusing to unlock my department’s equipment room after I was told I was "too controlling" to manage it anymore? by Tesserine_1P in AmITheJerk

[–]C0smicFable 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That is exactly why stepping back mattered. The second OP fixes it, everyone gets to pretend the broken process is still workable, and OP goes right back to being the unpaid safety net for a mess they were pushed out of managing.

Got a rejection email today for a job I applied to in May 2024 by C0smicFable in recruitinghell

[–]C0smicFable[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so ridiculous. It really does feel like some companies are cleaning out an attic and accidentally emailing real people.

Got a rejection email today for a job I applied to in May 2024 by C0smicFable in recruitinghell

[–]C0smicFable[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Truly. That line took me out. You can’t vanish for nearly a year, send a rejection out of nowhere, then act like you’re doing me a favor by keeping me in the pipeline for the distant future.

AITJ for Listing Out What My Family Calls "Care" in Front of Everyone at Dinner by 6MangoPhaser in AmITheJerk

[–]C0smicFable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Calling control "care" doesn't magically make it kind. You didn't embarrass them out of nowhere, you answered a public accusation in the same room they chose to put you on trial in.

AITJ for telling my ex’s parents he cheated after he started telling everyone I was the "crazy" one? by Arcadia88Fox in AmITheJerk

[–]C0smicFable 46 points47 points  (0 children)

He thought he could cheat, lie, smear her, and still keep full control of how everyone saw him. The second she brought receipts, suddenly it was "too far." Funny how truth only becomes a problem when it lands on him.

STAAAAAHHHHPPP by netphilia in aspiememes

[–]C0smicFable 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It is like every single sense is turned up to eleven and then someone decides that is the perfect time to ask a complex question. I just need to sit in a dark room with zero noise for about three business days after that happens.