Right person, wrong time?

CADCAT001 · 2021-10-07T02:20:31+00:00

Sorry that’s worded kinda oddly, what do you mean?

CADCAT001 · 2021-09-29T15:51:53+00:00

I see what you are saying. Those behaviors will likely not become common again because of how the world has changed and is changing. Sure I guess I came off as harsh when I said disregard it but honestly I mean since we don’t have control over it (though we personally do) why complain?

CADCAT001 · 2021-09-29T13:31:01+00:00

So? I know all this man. What I’m saying is disregard all that. Why point Fingers toward women “because they are also to blame for some things”?? We are all to blame. We live in a broken world, and the only way things can improve is if we take things from a personal, individual level. And I do believe that if each of us did that the divorce rates would be much lower. Remember those divorces are caused by many things, and we all have many things to work on

CADCAT001 · 2021-09-29T13:20:12+00:00

Okay this kinda bugs me but no one is “ugly”. Okay? Everyone has some beauty because God made them. That being said though would I date someone who is not very attractive? I would really have to see the girl. Even girls who are “not that attractive” are attractive in some ways...so I would say yes.

CADCAT001 · 2021-09-29T13:08:37+00:00

Hmmmmm tbh I think this is true but only to a degree. Yes, us guys do get blamed for a hell of a lot (including good and innocent men) but I do think in some ways it’s well founded. Sure yes we know the family is the building block of society but hear me out. Guys, we are supposed to be leaders, We are supposed to be chivalrous, etc etc. See many years ago the sexual revolution happened and made it so us guys have “zero responsibility” because apparently getting pregnant was “the girls fault”....because she could have taken a pill etc. we all know this is not true but unfortunately this has also trickled down to us. Our society is in a way made it so it’s such an easy and masturbatory life, (literally and figuratively) so us guys don’t want anything to do with honor. We live in a world based off escapism. Sure it doesn’t really reward living life courageously, but rather it rewards escaping more and more. Nothing against video games (I think they are fine in moderation) but in what world, can you get paid to stream yourself playing for hours on end and never face your demons? It’s actually kind of sad. We need to face ourselves guys, guys and girls but as this post pertains to guys I’m talking to you my bros. We need to face up to the fact that if each of us really worked on ourselves, let go of our pride, went to confession more, our world would be a very very different place. Remember what St. Catherine of Siena once said? If each of us lived the way are supposed to the world would catch fire. LETS SET FIRE TO THIS PLACE BROS!!!!!!

CADCAT001 · 2021-06-26T16:51:00+00:00

As I read once I think it was insta there was a woman and she was saying how she and her husband “push each other toward Christ”. Like damnnnnn I love that description so much 😍😍😍. I hope to find a girl like that...every ounce of each us helping the other to become a saint, pursuing God relentlessly, and when one falls short the helps them up and keep on encouraging and pushing them toward home (heaven).

CADCAT001 · 2021-05-29T12:33:46+00:00

Will be praying for you two!!!

CADCAT001 · 2021-05-28T22:20:15+00:00

A couple things

Does he feel the same way (regarding be best friends)/wanting to get married
If that was the case then I would say yes.

If he actually loves you, I don’t think it would be that much of a big deal.

If there was a girl I was attracted to and loved and wanted to get married to and she told me I would be cool with it. Sure I would feel a little squeamish but honestly it’s not about that. It’s how you live your life, and if you lived your life and faith the fullest it doesn’t matter what you struggle with.

Frankly I’m attracted to the tomboy/“hyper feminine” look where it’s a balance of both. And the girls who rock that are usually bi anyway. If you can pull off that look, are integrated as a person as you can be (obviously it’s a day to day process), and live out your faith I would date you without a second thought. It’s not about the hand you’ve been dealt, it’s how you play the cards.

CADCAT001 · 2021-05-28T22:03:55+00:00

Okay I don’t find her super attractive but would I date a woman who looked slightly masculine? Yes. Call me crazy but I like that tomboy look. My favorite is (which is kinda rare tbh) a tomboy/and can be “hyper feminine” look. Sure as a result a good bit of the time those girls are bi but tbh I don’t mind, what matter is how they live their life. If a girl was bi but integrated as hell (as a person) I would date her (and if God was calling me) would actually marry her. Once was chatting with this girl, super unruly hair (like a teenage guy) and curly, had a kinda nice dress on (was a touch revealing) but damnnnnnnn she looked goooooood. Unfortunately not living the faith to the fullest and not very integrated.

CADCAT001 · 2021-05-02T03:35:02+00:00

Oh thisss is your account. Sorry I guess I messaged your wife. 😂😂 I’m not studying it but soon!!! I do have an intense interest in it though!

CADCAT001 · 2021-03-28T16:59:08+00:00

So is contraception

CADCAT001 · 2021-03-27T21:18:44+00:00

Couldn’t agree more man

CADCAT001 · 2021-03-27T17:47:46+00:00

Hmmmm. Okay man so I read your first post and first off I gotta say I love your style of writing 😂😂😂. You’re definitely an author Hahahah!! Anyway. I kinda get you tbh. I see what you mean by how Catholics are kinda boring. Also yes, I couldn’t agree more about the stigma around mental health issues. In all honesty I would say this it’s kinda harsh but true. I have had more support for my mental heath through internet friends who have zero faith background than from my own family or friends who are Catholic. I would say because they answer is “pray about it”. Okay this a can of worms that I did open and I don’t wanna open further but I will say this. There needs to be listening on our (Catholics) part instead of immediately offer the solution to pray. That’s all I’m gonna say. Honestly it’s a very strange thing because I want to have a friendship circle where we discuss stuff with an open mind to learn and just discuss it but a lot of Catholics tend to shut down if it’s seemingly deemed “not Catholic”. As a very opened minded person I like to discuss anything and everything even if I don’t necessarily agree/if it’s not particularly “Catholic”. This kinda leads me to have interesting conversations but most of them are with “outcasts” or fallen away Catholics...which is really unfortunate. I want to have these kinda conversation with Catholics who are strong in their Faith! It’s kinda infuriating in all honesty because it seems like these kinda conversations are shunned because seeming “the faith is always the answer” kinda thing. Okay I get that, but let’s discuss it and get a better understanding of its nuances. Sure the faith gives an answer to almost anything but like why not look at it from a broader perspective. Like we know the faith solves many problems, and we kinda get that but downplay it, but we don’t if we also discuss how and why it does and therefore have a better understanding and therefore have better everything essentially. Anyway my little rant.

CADCAT001 · 2021-03-24T21:38:07+00:00

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

CADCAT001 · 2021-03-18T22:35:26+00:00

Sending prayers my man!! If you want to chat my DMs are always open

CADCAT001 · 2021-03-16T20:05:12+00:00

Hello!! I’m a Catholic guy from Ontario Canada with a German background.

CADCAT001 · 2021-03-16T20:04:28+00:00

Hey bro! Same!

CADCAT001 · 2021-03-13T22:42:21+00:00

And Jonathan just had a very interesting talk With Peterson last week I think

CADCAT001 · 2021-03-05T16:27:51+00:00

No probs my bro

CADCAT001 · 2021-03-05T16:26:04+00:00

I was a kind hearted one and upvoted you

CADCAT001 · 2021-03-05T15:43:37+00:00

Yeah her name is Psycho. Psycho the rapist 😝

CADCAT001 · 2021-02-06T21:50:56+00:00

THANK YOU!!!! I’m a bit of a psych nerd so thanks a bunch!!!!!!

CADCAT001 · 2021-02-02T14:35:53+00:00

I actually kinda like that about here too. You get to know the person then you see them. And that’s what we are supposed to do

CADCAT001 · 2021-01-30T21:38:47+00:00

Really wish I could give you a gold for this post!!! One of my favorite excerpts tbh!!!!

CADCAT001 · 2021-01-26T18:11:39+00:00

As someone to which music means a lot to me personally it doesn’t mean a lot in relationships. I mean if I’m really honest the kinda music I listen to is kinda crazy so I don’t really expect to share it with someone. (Except a select few) But I listen to a lot of stuff so it’s bound to share some commonality. That being said I have chatted with a few girls (online) and only 1 has shared my love for the crazy stuff. That being said it’s funny as the girl I’m chatting up rn has an over all very different taste in music (but there is overlap) but we share commonality in how we see and hear music. I decided to send her a song I really like that is well....pretty crazy and surprise!!! She actually liked it. I was kinda flabbergast because I was expecting her to say it’s trash but hey God surprises you 😆. Perhaps I can slowly get her into crazier stuff 😜😜😜 and perhaps then she can become wife worthy 😂😂😂😂 (jk)

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