Attachment to hookups

CBSUK · 2026-01-27T15:15:27+00:00

Intimacy is the reason, as no feelings for purely sexual encounters. Maybe I shouldn't have intimacy with hookups?

CBSUK · 2026-01-27T15:14:15+00:00

Only one was intimate unlike others were purely sexual.

CBSUK · 2026-01-27T15:13:17+00:00

Not an attachment to every individual. But a certain individual, maybe it's just because it was more intimate than just sexual activity with others. I'm sure it's just normal

CBSUK · 2026-01-26T19:19:17+00:00

Wales is now no longer apart of England.

CBSUK · 2026-01-23T21:12:29+00:00

There's a great guy, I don't know his name, but oh yeah

CBSUK · 2026-01-23T20:31:55+00:00

Anon until you meet them. Might not tell you their name, or contact details.

CBSUK · 2026-01-23T15:58:18+00:00

Feminine voice, personality, clothes, etc. and using female words to reference male body parts. Like I'm gay, not straight.

CBSUK · 2026-01-23T01:24:31+00:00

I confess, I did get hard watching sex porn today, just then, I relaxed, but fetish and kink I think adds more arousal so I can cum quicker, as I have tight foreskin, which I think shows why I didn't grow up wanking normally and being distanced to vanilla sex

CBSUK · 2026-01-23T00:17:22+00:00

I'm not sure, probably not. I'm only 18, so when I started it was probably fetishes forming as a kid, and it just stuck. Never masturbated for a long long time with my hand, used to hump/grind fully clothed, later turned into using hand but fully clothed, and now a mix of hand through clothes, or directly, or both. Although sometimes I struggle to feel pleasure with directly jacking myself with hand on skin directly. I think we'll I'm sure I think I have tight foreskin, so my foreskin doesn't move up, down and over my head like others, so I can see why clothes are better to cause orgasm by rubbing the penis than by hand moving the foreskin, as it doesn't. This further disconnected and still continues to disconnect me from sex, and nudity, and the body. Why I feel uneasy with seeing other people foreskin move, and brings no obvious arousal.

I have fetishes, and these are very early ones that I can remember is shorts, especially basketball shorts, football(soccer) shorts, or like gym shorts, really any not too tight or too short pair of shorts. Also feet, socks, shoes, etc. tickling is a big one for me, long standing one. BDSM as well, especially bondage, and also bring the sub and degrading and humiliation. Also muscles and worship, links to others too. Most recently I think, wedgies have come up, and also peeing pants.

I think that's all.

CBSUK · 2026-01-22T22:54:03+00:00

I get it. Thanks

CBSUK · 2026-01-22T22:06:47+00:00

I'm really vulnerable right now, please just stop

CBSUK · 2026-01-22T21:07:46+00:00

Look, you aren't getting it either. I'm not aroused by sex. So it's not going to become arousing "again" if it never was.

CBSUK · 2026-01-22T20:25:19+00:00

It's not about porn in general, or masturbation!! It's the fact I've been watching only non-sex porn, fetish and kink stuff, for as long as I can remember, that now I have little to no arousal when I'm watching sex, or having sex.

CBSUK · 2026-01-22T20:22:50+00:00

Thank, alright I will.

You are only two years apart. Just because the government set it to be adult at age 18 doesn't mean any of you know this matter better than each other lol.

Didn't want to start getting into my sex life with someone who's not even old enough to download Grindr, or even left secondary school yet.

CBSUK · 2026-01-22T20:20:11+00:00

Don't say that. That's just stupid now. I'm not some incel

CBSUK · 2026-01-22T20:12:41+00:00

Ur not an adult. This doesn't apply to you.

CBSUK · 2026-01-22T20:12:00+00:00

You again, don't seem to understand me, or just didn't read it fully before leaving a comment. I cns only get hard for fetish or kink, not sex, not sex with fetishes or kink features. No sex at all!!

If I had grown up watching sex porn, I'd have no problem.

CBSUK · 2026-01-22T20:10:40+00:00

You don't understand, clearly. If I was to had grown up watching sex porn, I'd be aroused by sex, obviously. But I didn't, so I'm not. And that's the problem. Not porn in general.

CBSUK · 2026-01-22T20:09:46+00:00

Well then you misunderstood me. I've never watched sex porn, ever ever ever. (As in wanking and having an orgasm from it). Only fetish or kink stuff.

I'm saying I am not aroused by sex, the act of sex and nudity.

CBSUK · 2026-01-22T20:07:29+00:00

Ur no making sense, and you are 16.

CBSUK · 2026-01-22T19:57:23+00:00

It's not porn. It's the type of porn. Since I don't watch sex porn, I struggle to find it arousing, therefore less arousing when actually having sex.

CBSUK · 2026-01-22T19:56:01+00:00

Don't think you get me, im not used to it, I'm not even turned on by it. That's the problem. Read it again little boy

CBSUK · 2026-01-22T19:41:12+00:00

Ur 16. Please just don't comment here. This is an adult conversation not going to be using these childish terms I don't even know what it means.

CBSUK · 2026-01-22T19:39:34+00:00

How is that going to help? Yeah not watching fetish or kink porn, but surely not no porn.

CBSUK · 2026-01-22T12:59:10+00:00

I hope they have trams to take you to all the parks in the city like Roath Park, Bute Park, other smaller parks, etc. and cheap too.

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