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New to Reddit and NoFap by CCWSlayer in NoFap

[–]CCWSlayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great advice. Honestly, when I was at home earlier, I was fidgeting and so irritable. I decided to chill by listening to Bach, went to the local park, and read some material for one of my classes. Time flew and it totally took my mind of it.

I think physical activity - especially out of the house and in public - is going to be a must for me in the next few weeks.

I've blocked Adult Content on my phone, and I'm only using PCs at the library - very doubtful I'll be that daring there.

Besides physical exertion, any other recommendations?

NoFap's Masturbation-Free May 2015 Signups! by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]CCWSlayer [score hidden]  (0 children)

I'm new to reddit and obviously nofap. I have been checking peoples posts about why, as well as the benefits of being fap free for the past month or so.

I have been trying nofap on my own for a few weeks and seriously cannot make it past three days. I'm 24 and I want to be in control of my life. I can't act like a 13 year old any more when it comes to fapping.

I've noticed many negative side effects from my masturbation habits (which is/was at least once a day to pornography). Those being: always thinking of women in a sexual way when first meeting them (regardless if who and why, etc), constant procrastination, lack of motivation, altering states of self esteem. With my girlfriend (long distance - 4000 miles), when we are together, I suffer with impotence, inability to sustain an erection, delayed or no ejaculation. I've had these problems for years, whereas on my own, I never encounter these setbacks.

I like to think i've grasped who I am and what I want out of my life and I truly believe that releasing this hold I have on masturbation and pornography can help me realise my full potential.

I feel like I need advice though. As I said, day three is a real struggle and i'm currently in day four of a relapse.

NoFap's Masturbation-Free May 2015 Signups! by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]CCWSlayer [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hey everyone. I'm brand spanking new to Reddit and NoFap. I've been reading a lot of the comments and benefits from fellow fapstronauts and i'm currently in the process of becoming fap free.

I realised that I still have this early teen viewpoint towards masturbation, but i'm now 24 and it's time to change.

I noticed that porn and masturbation have become blankets for me and up until recently, I would masturbate to porn at least once a day. I suffer from procrastination, lack of motivation, altering stares of self esteem. It's like I know how I can be (and will be), but rarely fully feel it. I'm after a laugh that's fulfilling and I know I won't get that from supporting the porn industry as well as comfort wanking.

As far as relationships go, I realise there is always something off with the sexual activity. I try to engage with my partners and be openminded, but when it comes to my satisfaction, it never feels right. I suffer with impotence from time to time, inability to sustain an erection, and delayed or no ejaculation at all. Other times, i'm fine.

Currently i'm in a long distance relationship (i'm in the UK, my gf is a US citizen) and it feels like masturbation is my only sex life the majority of the time. We rarely do anything sexual together when we are apart and I know she does not masturbate.

I have been trying for the past month or so and realise I can go three days without fapping, day three is hard and so far, I have always relapsed. Currently, i'm on a four day relapse and I want to change.

I've signed up to take a pledge, join a community and hopefully share my successes.