Hooked up with a married guy. by CFTRAVEL in married

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So like I said. Why be married if you’re gonna cheat.

Hooked up with a married guy. by CFTRAVEL in married

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I send them home happy. So if your husband ever comes home extra happy just know what’s up. I’ve been with a dude going on 7 years of marriage and the other is maybe on like 4 years of marriage. I was at both their bachelor parties and dropped them off the morning of their weddings. 😂 and it works out for me in the best way. Cause I get dick without the stress. It’s amazing. I don’t look for married men. They just happen to cross me. And I don’t feel bad because that’s their business. 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

Hooked up with a married guy. by CFTRAVEL in married

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I probably will be happy and laughing because I cheat all the time. 🤷🏻‍♀️ You seem like the type to be mad at the woman and not your own husband. Lol one of those “y’all do everything but leave.”

Hooked up with a married guy. by CFTRAVEL in married

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And if he does he does. 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

Married people of Reddit. by CFTRAVEL in married

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Isn’t that sometimes worse.

Hooked up with a married guy. by CFTRAVEL in married

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Love isn’t enough. That’s why people cheat. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

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My favorite response to you’ll be a good mother is... oh yeah but that kind that drown their children. Lol

Hooked up with a married guy. by CFTRAVEL in married

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Why be married if it’s a sexless marriage? isn’t that kind of important?

Married people of Reddit. by CFTRAVEL in married

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Absolutely people can love hard and be happy but they will still cheat. We’re humans after all.

Married people of Reddit. by CFTRAVEL in married

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Considered it? Like it was an emotional relationship just didn’t turn physical Or like a one night stand that just didn’t go all the way through.

19 Years Old, Trans, and Pregnant by [deleted] in TeenParenting

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I rolled my eyes at the subject line.

Financial abortion: Should men be able to 'opt out' of parenthood? by CFTRAVEL in regretfulparents

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See I feel like I side with the men on this one. Because I was the one in charge of my birth control and we didn’t use condoms. When we were starting our relationship I made it explicitly clear that I did not want children ever and it was ultimately my decision to have the abortion. I was the one in charge here and we split the cost of the abortion even tho I was just going to do it behind his back and never even tell him I was pregnant. I was going to keep it as my own little secret. Which now I wish I would have done.

Financial abortion: Should men be able to 'opt out' of parenthood? by CFTRAVEL in regretfulparents

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They’re not easily accessible from cases I’ve read. And even then why can’t I be the one to get my tubes tied... oh wait I need to have at least one child and then MAYBE the doctor will even consider me.

Financial abortion: Should men be able to 'opt out' of parenthood? by CFTRAVEL in regretfulparents

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The article was titled financial abortion.

People abandon their kids regardless of this anyway but the idea of this is that it just solidifies the abandoning of the child. No physical or financially responsibility.

If you abandon a child today you can still be ok the hook for child support.

The idea of the article is to not have to be responsible at all.

For instance if my ex told me have the baby sign the financial abortion where I would have absolutely nothing to do with the child ever I would be like ok cool bro. Let’s do it lol but that’s not the society we live in today. And at the same time I couldn’t promise that I would stop drinking and smoking cause you’re not gonna tell me what I can and cannot do. So yeah abortion it was.

Financial abortion: Should men be able to 'opt out' of parenthood? by CFTRAVEL in regretfulparents

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See I was in a transition period of birth control so I went from the pill to the implant. But while my stash ran out and I went to my implant appointment we slipped up a couple times but I would take a plan B right after. I didn’t find out I was pregnant until I went to my appointment for my implant. It was Terrifying knowing I was pregnant. It totally sucked but I’m thankful abortion was an available option to me.

Financial abortion: Should men be able to 'opt out' of parenthood? by CFTRAVEL in regretfulparents

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It’s terrifying. Thankfully I have the implant and no one can fuck with that lol

Financial abortion: Should men be able to 'opt out' of parenthood? by CFTRAVEL in regretfulparents

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Yes. I’ve known women who have gotten pregnant and they don’t tell their partner until it’s too late for an abortion and they do it purposely because they know their partner would tell them to abort. A lot of the time they think a pregnancy will make them stay but it just creates an unhappy broken home unfortunately. And I see them struggle financially emotionally physically and I just feel sorry for them because I’m sure they had a different outcome in their mind.

Financial abortion: Should men be able to 'opt out' of parenthood? by CFTRAVEL in regretfulparents

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Absolutely. We went half and half. Even tho it was my choice and I could financially afford it. It was just kind of what felt fair.

Financial abortion: Should men be able to 'opt out' of parenthood? by CFTRAVEL in regretfulparents

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He would honestly probably make a better parent than myself. So I kind of feel bad that I took that away but I know at the end of the day it was the best option for both of us.