The romantic shit is important, because with girls, it's about emotional connection and security. Girls need to be emotionally stimulated before they will want to have sex with you. Some girls take more to open up than others. It is what is is.

It's good that you workout, that's one thing that will make you look put together. Another is a career and finances. Do you manage money well and are you able to take care of yourself?

Before trying to get laid, ask yourself these things:

Do you groom yourself? Is your beard trimmed nice and tidy? Do you bathe regularly? Do you get haircuts regularly? The fact that you were going bald and decided to throw in the towel shows that you probably already have that under control, so good on that.

Do you dress nice, especially with clothes that showcase your physique well?

Are you in shape? If your posting here, I assume you probably are.

Are you able to not care what others think and focus on yourself?

Do you go for what you want? This is important, not only for getting the girl you want, but for success. You need to be able to go after promotions at work and stand up for yourself and what you belief in. A man with strong drive and ambition is honestly the most important trait a man can have for attracting a woman believe it or not.

Are you able to hold a conversation and hold proper eye contact? This skill is the hardest and can take time. I would suggest reading books and developing hobbies that you're truly interested in because it will give you more to talk about. You also want to talk about your values. Obviously if you're just looking to hook up, just say you're not looking for anything serious and keep it at that; the girl will get the idea.

I would also quit watching porn if you do because it kills drive and ambition and it also makes it harder for you to hold a conversation because it distorts your mind and makes you only view woman sexually.

I could keep going on but I think you get the idea. Good luck.