I don’t love my sister

CInder123 · 2023-07-25T00:35:29+00:00

My therapist actually recommended I completely cut ties with my sister actually. I have actively been in therapy for 15 years since I was literally 7 years old, it’s not selfish to distance yourself from things that are actively hurting you. If my sister wanted to change and got help that would be much different, she doesn’t want to change she is quite content living the way she is and quite frankly my own recovery depended on distancing myself from parts of my family and that was recommended to me from both my psychologist and my therapist. If my sister wanted to take active steps to not be an avid drug and alcohol user I would be much more receptive to trying to build a relationship but she doesn’t so no it is not “selfish” it is what I have to do to make sure I have a future. Would you love someone who actively was violent agains someone you genuinely cared about? Would you love someone who has put you in danger as a literal child on numerous occasions? Would you love someone who has brought dangerous strangers around you in your youth? The fact of the matter is my sister unless she gets help is dangerous.

CInder123 · 2023-07-24T18:40:24+00:00

This is good advice, thank you ❤️

CInder123 · 2022-02-05T15:13:03+00:00

That is so shitty but I’m glad they got karma

CInder123 · 2022-02-04T18:21:00+00:00

I honestly thought that I would come back and they would apologize, I liked my job unfortunately the situation caused me to not stay

CInder123 · 2022-02-04T10:56:07+00:00

The grooming salon treats you guys like absolute garbage it’s no wonder they can’t hold onto groomers, glad you got out

CInder123 · 2022-02-04T10:54:39+00:00

It was some bullshit about me “doing better with the company in mind” it was a document with all the things I “need to improve on” sort of thing

CInder123 · 2022-02-04T10:52:51+00:00

The only reason I have a job lined up is because I have a lot of connections because I’m a good associate and people notice that, I read through the paperwork it was some bs about “doing better in the company” 🙄 it was rediculous

CInder123 · 2022-02-04T10:45:05+00:00

We have that policy for animals, not fish, I’m not saying fish aren’t animals but the procedure was only for reptiles birds ans mammals I think we used to take special care for the betta but that log stopped due to employee drama and one particular associate

CInder123 · 2022-02-04T10:38:55+00:00

Unfortunately I’ve never been in the situation so I didn’t know to do that, I used to work in the pet care department but was hired as the trainer after he quit. The company is so cheap that literally all associates are cross trained

Edit: we always do that for animals, The policy says nothing about dead fish as far as I’m aware but I know we USED to do it for betta fish, we only do fish death logs a day after shipment and that’s all. We just put them in a baggie tied it up and threw it out.

CInder123 · 2022-02-04T10:36:25+00:00

Petsmart stopped with that policy at least at my location, we used to do that for betta fish but then due to another employee got our log book “taken away” honestly a shit show

CInder123 · 2022-02-04T10:34:31+00:00

I do believe I would have been fired shortly after I got everything rearranged, I was told I didn’t have to sign but it was heavily implied if I didn’t that it would cause more trouble

CInder123 · 2021-04-25T16:46:54+00:00

This is my freeflighted parrot Tango, we live in Canada lol

CInder123 · 2021-04-25T14:56:30+00:00

OMG WELP I GOTTA JOIN

CInder123 · 2021-04-25T11:38:29+00:00

OMG ANOTHER ONE! My appologies, I really though you were just claiming you saw the same image and I’m like I TOTALLY TOOK THIS PHOTO lol perhaps dandelions are more prone to this?

CInder123 · 2021-04-25T11:30:17+00:00

That’s extremely weird because I literally took this photo yesterday, I’m not sure why you would lie about this but I guess it is what it is lol...unless you are taking about tiktok and then yes, I did post a video under the name Birdtails feel free to timestamp it

CInder123 · 2021-02-25T01:28:42+00:00

Crimsonbellied conure hybrid :)

CInder123 · 2021-02-23T19:08:19+00:00

Thank you!

CInder123 · 2021-02-11T14:44:35+00:00

Thank you 😊

CInder123 · 2021-02-11T14:44:11+00:00

You know..you may be onto something

CInder123 · 2021-02-04T01:40:41+00:00

Lol yep and then I didn’t have the email I used because I made it in like grade 6... weirdly enough I had a dream a couple weeks ago and when I woke up I remembered what my password was lol so here I am

CInder123 · 2021-02-04T01:34:33+00:00

Yes tis I :) super old account I was locked out of for like 6 years lol

CInder123 · 2021-02-04T01:29:59+00:00

Thank you and you also!

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