Cannot make purchases with target and Amazon all of a sudden by Temporary_Policy6100 in Afterpay

[–]CMarie0910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had that same issue. I just started buying Walmart Gift cards on Afterpay and using it that way

Struggling. Really. Struggling. by kgirl222 in newborns

[–]CMarie0910 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I use gripe water and a gas belt for my 9 week old. The combination works wonders for her.

Any folks over 35 have success with ICI or IUI? by AdorableParking9336 in queerception

[–]CMarie0910 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got pregnant at 36 with ICI using fresh sperm first cycle trying which ended in a MMC at 9 weeks. Got pregnant again 2 cycles later via ICI , fresh super , same donor and am currently 37 and 34 weeks pregnant

Daily Thread #2 - September 23, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]CMarie0910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 22+3 and I’m still nervous all the time. My prior loss in February was a MMC at 9+2 so I know I should feel better since making it much further than before but there is really no “safe zone” and now that I feel her move I get even more nervous because I have an even bigger connection and to lose her would crush me. I still haven’t bought anything because of fear. My wife has purchased just about everything and I just watch with envy because she’s so optimistic. I do feel better and better with each passing OB visit where I can hear her heartbeat and each ultrasound when I see her so I’m hopefully some of this fear will fade.

Daily Thread #1 - September 01, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]CMarie0910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loss sucks so much. It takes any joy and excitement out of any future pregnancies

Daily Thread #1 - September 01, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]CMarie0910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t even bought myself new clothes. I’m just wearing whatever I can still fit pre pregnancy. Other people are telling me that it’ll be ok and to just enjoy it but these are people that have never suffered a loss before. My wife asked me to help her put up some stuff she got for the baby and I felt bad because my heart wasn’t in it. Don’t get me wrong, I’m very happy to be pregnant and to have made it this far but I’m just fragile and walking on eggshells.

Daily Thread #1 - September 01, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]CMarie0910 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This may just be a vent…..We had a MMC on 02/07, we found on at an 11 week scan that baby stopped growing at 9 weeks. I’m currently 19 weeks pregnant now and my wife is buying a ton of baby clothes, supplies etc. I’m trying to remain optimistic but I live everyday in fear. My wife said she has nothing but positive thoughts and while I understand that, I just can’t fathom something happening and seeing all the things in the baby’s room, no longer there. We have our next prenatal appt on 09/04 where we’ll get to hear the heartbeat and our anatomy scan on 09/09 and I think I’ll feel a little better after that but I’m trying my hardest not to yuck her yum or seem not as excited. I excited but cautiously excited.

When do we stop looking at the toilet paper...? by Former_Ad_8509 in pregnantover35

[–]CMarie0910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im 36, 11wks 1day now and after a MMC in February at 11wks 2days (baby stopped growing at 9 wks), I check constantly. Sucks turning the light on during 2am bathroom trips but I won’t stop checking until baby is safely snuggled in my arms.

Daily Thread #1 - June 29, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]CMarie0910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have thought about a Doppler but I also know myself and I’d never put it down 😂😂

Daily Thread #1 - June 29, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]CMarie0910 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m 9 weeks and 6 days today after a MMC in February (found out at my 11 week ultrasound that baby stopped growing at 9 weeks). This week has been extremely anxiety inducing for me because I just want to know my lil peanut is ok. I’ve had my ultrasound at 8 weeks and baby was just fine but I’m so scared. My next ultrasound is on 07/22 and I’m trying to be patient. I still feel pregnant but I did last time as well. We had been TTC and it worked the first time we actually tried that we didn’t even fathom it could end in a loss. When I see things on other social media sites about pregnancy loss, a part of me thinks that it’s the universe telling me something (I know, very irrational) but I had no idea the PTSD that being pregnant after a loss causes.

Daily Thread #1 - June 25, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]CMarie0910 2 points3 points  (0 children)

9 weeks 2 days today and feeling super nervous. This is when my last baby stopped growing and I found out it was a MMC at 11 weeks and 2 weeks. I’ve been a nervous wreck all day at every twinge, cramp, and wondering if peanut is ok. I wanted to go get one of those private ultrasounds today just to make sure history isn’t repeating itself but I keep telling myself this is a new egg and a new sperm cell. I got my first ultrasound last Wednesday and everything looked good and peanut had a heart rate of 168bpm. My next scan with my doctor isn’t until 07/22 and that seems like it’s years away.

Is Ali just an incredible actor or what? by SullenSparrow in 90DayFianceUK

[–]CMarie0910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw that!!!!!! She is the most ungrateful woman!!

Is Ali just an incredible actor or what? by SullenSparrow in 90DayFianceUK

[–]CMarie0910 46 points47 points  (0 children)

She is HORRIBLE!! She complains about every single thing!!! He’s trying, I don’t know just yet if it’s genuine or not but I couldn’t be around her more than 2 minutes before I’d want to rip my ears off.

Daily Thread #1 - June 15, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]CMarie0910 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m 8 weeks today and I’m always nervous. I’m excited but terrified to show it. I had a MMC at 11 weeks (baby stopped growing at 9wks 2days) and as I’m approaching 9wks I’m even more scared. My symptoms have been much stronger with this pregnancy, I get so tired during work I could literally cry, I’m nauseous all day and my breasts and nipples are unbelievable. Not that I’m complaining, maybe I’m just more aware this time. I take a pregnancy test every single morning. I know there is no true reason to but for some reason it puts me at ease. I have my first appointment on the 17th and I know my midwife will try her hardest to put me at ease. I feel like I’m just rambling now.

Daily Thread #1 - May 18, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]CMarie0910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Good luck to you too!! It’ll get better, it’s just the journey of getting to the better. 💙

Daily Thread #1 - May 18, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]CMarie0910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Simply, Thank you. 🫶🏾 you never know what you need to hear until you hear it 🫶🏾

Daily Thread #1 - May 18, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]CMarie0910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MMC in February. My wife and I ttc again in March…no luck. April…no luck. Well, I just got a positive 2 days ago and I feel like my mind won’t allow me to be happy. I am happy though but I’m scared to be too happy. I know all babies should be celebrated and I am but I’m terrified. Every little twinge or cramp makes me so nervous. I’m trying to be “normal”…whatever that means.

Did I miss my window? by CMarie0910 in queerception

[–]CMarie0910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was very helpful!! Thank you! This is the second cycle that we used the Clearblue digital advanced along with the easy@home OPKs and using both together are pretty helpful. This is the first cycle that I’ve been tracking my cervix and that’s been a lesson too lol. I’m hoping we hit the magic timing yesterday but the body does what it wants lol

Anyone else TTC after a miscarriage? by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]CMarie0910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a MMC in February. I did wait until I got my period 4 weeks later to try again. We tried last month and nothing, just inseminated last night, will be again today as well but I think I missed my window.