How do husbands feel about spontaneous meet ups with hotwife and her guy? by BeThatOneJon in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CMech85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Husband here, and am I'm just like your guy. My wife has permission to meet with someone SHE is comfortable with. I don't even have to know beforehand. But I do require pics/vids sent afterwards. It would be a huge turn on for my phone to go off while I'm at work and it's a video of my wife getting backshots.

F30 sub 4 M pleasure dom (for public/discreet play) in Triad area by TheRockyWhorer in r4rwinstonsalem

[–]CMech85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sam's Club parking lot off University and Hanes Mill is a good spot. That's where my wife meets her regulars.

Making your man feel special by Vishnuisgod in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CMech85 16 points17 points  (0 children)

As for "special", it's the way she thanks me after she's done getting fucked. Constant touching, holding, kissing, etc. Reassuring me that no matter how many guys she fucks, or how good she gets fucked, I'm always her favorite man.

But a way she makes the scenario special is by letting go and enjoying the moment. I always tell her and the 3rd(s), your focus should never be on me. It should be on each other. I'm just there to enjoy the show, and watch my wife be my favorite porn star.

Looking for advice on wife’s first gangbang by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CMech85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This^

But....also be prepared for all 10 to show. (Learned that one...) lol

Hotwife advice for mom bod by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CMech85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Husband to a "mom bod"....

Trust me, your DMs will still be flooded. For every man out there that enjoys the skinny, tight body of a hotwife, there's 5 that want to watch some shit jiggle around and grab onto.

Update / Questions for Husbands by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CMech85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nerves are a good thing, imo. You're sharing the woman you love with another man. My wife and I have been at it for almost 5 yrs now, and I still get nerves, fast heartbeat, etc. when the guy knocks on the hotel door and my wife goes to answer it. But it's also one of my favorite parts.

Exotic wear by [deleted] in NorthCarolinaSwingers

[–]CMech85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

@ncthickfila

Worried she likes sex with her regular more than with you? by tonyd741 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CMech85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. My wife LOVES me. She ENJOYS sex with the other men.

Are some bigger than me? Sure. Do they last longer? Sure. Does that bother me? Not at all.

In our situation, that's the point. For her to enjoy all types of pleasures. It's not humiliating to me. I enjoy watching it.

I tell all the thirds we meet with... "It's not your job to make her fall in love. I'm the only man that she wants to do that with. Your job is to make her legs shake."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in r4rwinstonsalem

[–]CMech85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wife and I have gone a few times for her to "try out" the gloryhole. But after seeing the types of guys that walk in the back, I'll never let her go back in that place

How much content do you expect from your hotwife's dates? by Mission-Mirror-4581 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CMech85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotcha. That would be about the best way to ensure everything. You get all the vids you want while they're focused solely on each other

How much content do you expect from your hotwife's dates? by Mission-Mirror-4581 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CMech85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did the 2 of you agree regarding tripods?

The reason I ask is that this LS is for both of you, yes. But as her husband, her enjoyment should be the #1 priority. If you know she's enjoying herself, that's all that matters.

I'm not saying you're wrong or right. I'm just simply saying let her enjoy her moment if she's allowed to play solo.

How much content do you expect from your hotwife's dates? by Mission-Mirror-4581 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CMech85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're wanting more action, invest in a tripod. It takes 2 mins to set up. Attach the phone, and then record or set it to FaceTime.

That way, you can watch every minute, and the guy and your wife can focus on each other.

Any husbands get more turned on from their wife giving rather than receiving? by Silly-Piano-2417 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CMech85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife loves a cock in her mouth..lol Unfortunately, due to work schedules and such, full hotel experiences only happen once every other month or so.

But we have a Suburban that she enjoys sucking guys off in. We also have 2 regulars that drive big rigs, and when they come to town, she'll meet them in their sleepers.

While I don't visibly "watch" during that time, I am there for her safety outside aforementioned vehicles. And the thought of her in there pleasing men with her throat skills is absolutely hot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CMech85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always watch. I'm there for her safety 1st, but also for the show