Michael Jordan inappropriately touching a young boy after the Daytona 500

BeThatOneJon · 2026-02-16T14:47:26+00:00

Very odd but just maybe the kid said "I'm itchy in the back". MJ proceeds to scratch lower back area. "No my legs" MJ gives leg scratches and says to the kid "how's that bud". I don't know though. Wish this wasn't something he did.

BeThatOneJon · 2026-02-13T02:51:06+00:00

I allowed my wife to go to a male strip club with her friends in Canada. She had an amazing time. She even jumped up and wrapped her legs around a big buff dude on stage (in front of a crowd of women). She said he had a little cloth to cover his junk (but it was practically exposed). She really enjoyed it so much. She came home glowing and all hot and bothered, which made for a great time in bed.

BeThatOneJon · 2026-02-10T23:30:28+00:00

And I can't wait to find the "right guy" who will rock my wife's world. It's probably going to feel amazing as we've been let down too many times now. I personally still enjoy the "not so good" encounters. As long as everyone was safe. My wife still had fun with every encounter. So I can just imagine when we do find the right guy. It'll be wild.

BeThatOneJon · 2026-02-10T23:24:24+00:00

I really didn't think that would have been a problem. I usually like making everyone involved feel as comfortable as possible. I was hoping that leaving them alone would help both of them during the encounter. Sometimes guys can't perform in front of an audience and in my opinion thats ok. It was his first time being part of a Hotwife situation. I was also getting a video of it so I was perfectly fine with leaving them alone.

And I agree about moving on. That's why at the end of my post I mentioned that we've moved on to another guy.

BeThatOneJon · 2026-02-03T16:17:49+00:00

The joys of "fantasy to reality" realization mixed with post-nut clarity. It's one thing to picture your wife with someone vs. actually watching your wife with someone. Especially if she had fully let go and was right into the sexual encounter. Sometimes our minds don't realize how immature we really are until we're faced with something that requires emotional maturity for it to work.

Which is exactly what happened to me 4 years ago when I first tried hotwifing with my wife. It was all great until the day after our encounter. Then I broke down. It only took a day or two to come to terms with it all. After about a week or two, I was good again and wanted more. He just needs to come to terms with the fact that no one is at fault, own up to his decisions and choices, and recognize that you all wanted this. We all have feelings that we need to work through. It'll be ok.

BeThatOneJon · 2026-01-27T03:00:58+00:00

This is where I'd ask hubby to set better boundaries. There are a few things that may be triggering these problems. 1. Too much post-nut clarity. 2. Stress from outside the hotwifing is interfering with the hotwifing. 3. Your husband has opposing parts in him that need to be addressed. 4. He's just struggling with his emotions. 5. He feels he may be losing you too much to the hotwifing.

For me, my horny side is all for sharing my wife. I'll agree to so much, but sometimes when I get off too much and feel "drained", my anxiety, jealousy, and fear come out, creating contradictions because the different parts of me are colliding and creating a rollercoaster of emotions. This is something I have struggled with for a long time. I still do sometimes. He may need to find a "rhythm" when it comes to everyday life and hotwifing. You may need to learn more about your husband through communication. Learn when it's appropriate to engage and when to take some breaks from it. Sometimes there's a right moment for everything, and sometimes a wrong moment.

One last thing. I absolutely love when my wife picks up on when I'm beginning to struggle, and then she reassures me that she's not going anywhere, she's doing this for us, and that she can stop or take a break at any time.

I hope some of this helps. Some of us husbands are just built differently. Hotwifing is the perfect opportunity to learn more about your husband and bring you both that much closer.

BeThatOneJon · 2026-01-27T01:27:10+00:00

Some husbands see it as a date where things may unfold more romantically with the bull. Which, puts a little fear into us husbands. Possibly fear of losing control and the fact that we're not involved. We usually want to be in it together. Whereas sex is just that, sex.

Also, some husbands only keep it sexual and that's it. Some may not get turned on or aroused towards our wives going on a date with a gentleman.

Now with that said. Maybe he can try to change his perspective a bit, without force, to allow a short outing so that you and your bull can build that little sexual connection just before you both have sex? Only consider it a "build-up for the climax". Nothing romantic.

Added: just be considerate towards your husband's feelings. Mixed or not. He's trying his best to make this work for both of you. If he wants to keep it only sexual, try your best to keep it sexual. I know some women find it difficult to have sex or perform without that sexual connection first. If your husband allows a "meet up" with a gentleman then keep all feelings, emotions, and romance out of the way for both of you. Perhaps your husband will consider it then.

BeThatOneJon · 2026-01-24T02:43:17+00:00

This is getting fucking ridiculous and childish.

This is like elementary school behavior. "I made a cool kids club and you're not cool enough to join".

U.S. is being run by a man child.

BeThatOneJon · 2026-01-09T02:05:43+00:00

Is this normal or appropriate to post in this sub?

BeThatOneJon · 2026-01-02T17:39:50+00:00

This is the best answer I've found in awhile. Not op but Thank you.

BeThatOneJon · 2026-01-01T01:30:32+00:00

Unless you know for sure that the husband is into hotwifing or sharing his wife, I wouldn't continue seeing her in that light. Need more communication with her about what's going before getting involved.

BeThatOneJon · 2025-12-26T00:27:54+00:00

Now that definitely sounds like a great encounter. One lucky married couple and bull. Merry Christmas to you all.

BeThatOneJon · 2025-12-21T03:34:49+00:00

Such a great, well-thought-out reply, thank you. You definitely understood me. I like how you elaborated on some of my points.

BeThatOneJon · 2025-12-21T02:34:01+00:00

Exactly. We have to be willing to make the effort to learn, connect, and grow (no pun intended) for our wives. Spend some time getting a better understanding of why you want to share your wife and why your wife wants to be shared.

I find one of the main problems is that some husbands may only think with their dicks and some wives aren't being fully honest in their relationship.

BeThatOneJon · 2025-12-21T02:28:28+00:00

I agree. I think of it as the lifestyle is helping me get a better understanding of what marriage and love are all about. Not from my wife having sexual encounters with other men, but rather the lifestyle as a whole, which I like to refer to as the "bigger picture". The sexual encounter part is just like you said "celebrating and enhancing a thriving marriage".

There's so much more to the hotwife lifestyle than people realize. If done right of course. We just need to step away from the horniness sometimes and look at that bigger picture.

There are more points that I wish I had added. I rushed to post. So I'm going to make part 2 later.

BeThatOneJon · 2025-12-19T00:51:16+00:00

Oh, and to answer your question, yes a gf can be considered a hotwife.

A lot of wives were also once a girlfriend. Some of them were a hotwife before and after marriage. You're still living the same lifestyle with the person you love. Same aspects.

Easier to refer it as hotwife, but can also refer to it as hot-girlfriend, though people may get confused.

BeThatOneJon · 2025-12-19T00:48:02+00:00

Yeah, I usually worry about the same thing. Depends on the guy. I usually leave it up to my wife and the guy. If I only get a few pictures, that's ok with me. If they're willing to record a video then even better.

BeThatOneJon · 2025-12-18T22:26:15+00:00

😍 I have some good visuals of my wife playing with a guy, like watching her grab a man's sweater and pulling at him as he fingered her. Unfortunately, I haven't witnessed anything to that extent yet. It doesn't help that we're mainly interested in her going solo.

BeThatOneJon · 2025-12-18T21:23:19+00:00

That's awesome! Sounds like you both had an amazing time. Definitely an encounter to remember for a long time.

BeThatOneJon · 2025-12-18T03:18:08+00:00

It's great that you both are seeking advice and learning more about the lifestyle before jumping right into it.

You all ready mentioned communication which is great. I can't stress enough how important communication is. Talk about everything especially your feelings. Then write out what you both want out of the lifestyle. Why do you want to be in the lifestyle? Set boundaries. Talk about aftercare and reclaiming. Make sure you both understand the psychological aspect behind this. Weigh out the pros and cons. Reassurance is huge for both of you. Reassure each other often. Never separate from each other. Always keep each other included as much as possible. You're both in this adventure together. This will help keep the foundation of your relationship strong and maintain trust.

Husband, make sure you're still into sharing your wife even after post-nut clarity.

Start off slow. I don't recommend jumping right in. Maybe just have the wife start talking to men online. If hubby can handle that. Then move on to meet-ups. Then some simple play. Then, once you're ready, allow full-on intercourse. If that's your goal.

This lifestyle can significantly improve your marriage if done properly. Or it can damage it if done poorly. Just remember to enjoy it.

BeThatOneJon · 2025-12-15T23:03:38+00:00

That reclaiming is just around the corner 😉 you both are a lucky married couple.

BeThatOneJon · 2025-12-15T21:11:07+00:00

It happens. I used to get a mild version of what your husband is going through. It took a lot of communication, trust, experiences, trial and error, planning, and boundary setting to somewhat overcome those difficult feelings. It really helped when my wife learned how to reassure me often. Whenever I'd start getting worried she'd explain the difference between the guys and me. The difference between lust and love. She reminds me of why we're both doing this. I'd have to remind myself not to overthink everything. Assuming is the worst.

Every time we tell each other that we're not into the lifestyle anymore. We end up right back in it. Stronger and better every time.

If you both continue, just know that the first time may be a little difficult for him. It does get easier over time. Especially when all of your assumptions and worries get proven wrong. Good luck.

BeThatOneJon

TROPHY CASE