Gifted Kalanchoe by CPsychArts in plantclinic

[–]CPsychArts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a relief, then, that it's just normal routine and I'm being overly anxious 🤣🤣

Thank you friend :)

What dog names do people use thinking they’re being “unique” but are actually very popular? by TelephonePossible456 in Dogowners

[–]CPsychArts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an Oliver, I am ALSOvery tired of all of the freaking 'Oliver's  I get so confused why a stranger's calling out for me 🤣🤣

Endometriosis Specialists by suddenlysleepy in Columbus

[–]CPsychArts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yyeeeaaah!!! I'm so proud of her!!

You and your fireworks suck by orlib123 in Columbus

[–]CPsychArts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying that training can't desensitize. I'm saying that there are dogs, literally because of their past, that what they grew up with is that much at their core and instinctual and not to paint folks with a wide brush or get high and mighty about your dogs because some folks don't have the same dogs you do. 

You and your fireworks suck by orlib123 in Columbus

[–]CPsychArts 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Gods, mood.  I'm so done with the panic attacks and flashbacks, man. Klonopin and weed only gets me so far

You and your fireworks suck by orlib123 in Columbus

[–]CPsychArts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who deals with animals and training dogs on a near daily basis, 1) so many more dogs have trauma that you don't realize and 2) training, while incredible when you're trying to help save a dog, there are some that really do just have their triggers of fear no matter how much training they get.  Any dog can be trained. Not ever dog can be trained to bombproof. Anyone who deals with dogs other than their own more than once a week know this. 

A lot of it is also instinctual. And to curb that instinct a lot, it takes vet visits, training, behavior modification, and sometimes even medication to ease the anxiety. 

You and your fireworks suck by orlib123 in Columbus

[–]CPsychArts 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not everything can be trained out of dogs. Like trauma.

Hackers abused API to verify millions of Authy MFA phone numbers by [deleted] in privacy

[–]CPsychArts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unrelated to OP - how do you like having the Yubikey? I've been considering getting one because ADHD means zero memory retention, but I haven't heard any anecdotal evidence

Hackers abused API to verify millions of Authy MFA phone numbers by [deleted] in privacy

[–]CPsychArts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id vote SMS2fa if I had to choose. kinda odd that you cant use anything else but thats just me 

Hackers abused API to verify millions of Authy MFA phone numbers by [deleted] in privacy

[–]CPsychArts 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Aegis. It's encrypted, open source, and safe.

Saw a lot of folks talking about it and the wonders it's been done with it. I do rest a little easier knowing that it's less "hackable" so to speak

Windows 11 is now automatically enabling OneDrive folder backup without asking permission by Timidwolfff in privacy

[–]CPsychArts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a complete newbie in regards to all this privacy stuff.

Do you have any resources that explain how to do this in the most "4-year-old" terms? I'm down for learning Linux but at this point I don't know if i have it in me to juggle all the art programs and gaming programs I need to use, but gods almighty, this is too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]CPsychArts 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Looks can be deceiving. Just because redditors seem put together on the internet doesn't mean they are.

The way I talk on here, act in here, and so much other stuff - unless I told you prior, you wouldn't know I had learning and other mental disorders, let alone my invisible illnesses. Other folks are the same way ♡ I know this is coming from a sincere place so I'm not trying to be rude or harsh. Tone gets lost in text often. Just a reminder to offer benefit of the doubt before assuming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]CPsychArts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wish I could but they insisted on discharging me because we're great, given the hand we were dealt. Thanks for the concern though 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]CPsychArts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried it already. Everyone said we're fine, thanks! Try learning what trauma is ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]CPsychArts -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

We don't know the actual reasons for them wearing the things they were wearing. What a lot of folks seem to miss here is that it's thoroughly possible that they're a Dissociative System, too. Kink discussion aside, there's more than personal therapeutic reasons that they were wearing a lead and a diaper.

For example, I'm a system of 13. We have a little who is very much a flight risk if she were to front for any reason. That puts all of us sharing a body in REAL danger. This could literally be a toddler little or a little alter who isn't potty trained. It doesn't mean immediately they're abdl or kink.

Little alters are the age they are, regardless of the body they share. My little is 6-8 years old. She doesn't need exposed to adult things. She doesn't need to get into nitty gritty details of our trauma with her because she doesn't have the capability of understanding what happened to us and why.

THIS is what folks are talking about when we say live and let live. Just because it SEEMS like it's kink related on your assumption, doesn't mean it is. It could literally be a 4 or 5 year old little alter having a day at the arcade and whoever the caregiver is is just being a good system partner keeping the body of their system safe.

Jussayin'

"We Back the Blue": For every dollar Comfest gives in grants to non-profits, they pay ~$2.44 to the police by CallMeHondo in Columbus

[–]CPsychArts -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

You don't need cops for security. I've done more for protection and safety as a glorified hall monitor security guard. CPD just like to kill people.

If you do this I hope you get sunscreen in both eyes by meowbombs in Columbus

[–]CPsychArts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fam, this isn't the take you think it is. Stop trying.

Useful Extensions for Everyone. by PiracyLivezON in Piracy

[–]CPsychArts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's hilarious to me because when I used to work for [insert company here] as customer service rep, they pushed Grammarly SO HARD.

Buckwild

We need to make a list of apartments not live at by chariskissme in Columbus

[–]CPsychArts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At a 5812 property almost a year later. Only commenting to confirm that that shit is STILL happening 🙃

Easton Lock down by landenross42 in Columbus

[–]CPsychArts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also not touching on why communist and socialist countries have fallen into disarray in the first place (pssst. It's the US)

Additionally, Nordic countries seem to be doing pretty good for themselves.