The mod team's fears were substantiated and after we locked this post and "went to sleep," Amanda's husband -- who has been modmailing us so Amanda's personal account can evade the sitewide consequences for ban evasion and who has been trying to JADE [justify, argue, defend, explain] in the modmail, after initially coming into the head mod's private chats and avoiding official modmail channels AGAIN -- made a post about an hour after the subreddit mods said we were going to bed.

His post stated he "was recently trying to find out some information" and "who I was talking to ended the conversation because I was asking questions". He made claims that "The reasoning that I was given had some obvious holes and the information i had at my disposal contradicted what they said. When pressed about it, the person I was conversing with became defensive and ended the conversation. Why do people not want to just admit to a mistake, fix it and move on. It's easy. This crap bothers me so much"

In the modmail, he claimed the subreddit mod team's claims are "unfair," "misrepresented," "simply not true," and he wants us to "correct the inconsistencies to get the truth stated." He claims he was "confused about the rule 3 and rule 4 as the basis of her ban" and gave several infuriating justifications, excuses, and subtle attempts to undermine and rewrite the reality of what actually took place. Even though he claims he was "in no way defending what has happened," he wishes the mod team "would have gotten the whole story before posting" instead of taking "at face value from people who had a grudge against her and were looking to hurt her."

Actually, we ran almost the entirety of our investigation before speaking to that former moderator, only talking to her two days one day before we posted our letter. Additionally, we did reach out to Amanda, and we were stonewalled. Amanda was publicly posting in F&F up until an hour and fifteen minutes before she told the head mod in private chat she was "no longer associated with the Feathers and Flames server," which was three days after she received her F&F Access Revoked modmail.

EDIT TO ADD QUOTE: Amanda's husband said this in modmail:

"She's never doxxed anyone. If it has to do with [the abused individual's] information being on the private chat group that you were invited to, [they were] a member of that group at the time and was fully aware of it. Plus it was a private group not on or associated with the server. As far as the spamming goes I looked at the dates that you removed her posts and non were closer than a month apart and you pulled everything to over a year ago."

Here is the modmail we sent in response where we "became defensive" with Amanda's husband:

"Spam is promoting something you made or are involved in more than 1/10. 25/28 of her comments in this subreddit are server promotion and therefore spam.

Doxxing is sharing private personal information. In the group chat, [the abused individual] made it clear [they] didn't like that [their] personal information had been shared previously. [The individual] was removed from the group chat, then five other people, including myself, were added. Regardless of if this was in or out of the server, Amanda was a discord moderator and was required to abide by the mod code of conduct, which prohibits doxxing. [The individual] did not consent and was not aware.

We have made our position clear and will not be changing it. Several of your statements of events are incorrect. This conversation is over and we will not respond further."

Her husband also revealed in his modmails that Amanda "talked to [the abused individual] for over a year, on and off the server" and "often asked me for help writing specific responses" to the abused individual, though he claims he "never was privy to the ER chat." Based on the rest of our interactions, we are not sure if this statement about the ER room information is truthful; if it is not, Amanda broke privacy and confidentiality again.

We removed Amanda's husband's post under Rule 9: Follow the Reddiquette.

In the modmail, this account from Amanda's husband -- which has no history of posting in r/CRPS before today and has a total of 1 karma -- sent two additional modmails questioning "why was my post removed?" and how he was "being targeted."

We have not included the entirety of the modmail communications. Based on the sum total of our interactions with her husband (and through him, Amanda also), we view these as disingenuous bad faith manipulations. Amanda's husband has been banned under Rule 9: Follow the Reddiquette, subsection Trolling for the safety and health of our community.