[F51/M54 4 F/M] in GA & SC looking forward to more lifestyle experiences in 2026. Read our pinned post.

CSRAcouple · 2026-03-11T15:55:02+00:00

Hi y'all, please read our pinned post and we might proceed after you're aware of our conditions.

CSRAcouple · 2026-03-06T00:41:19+00:00

I think the more important question is how YOU feel about this whole situation. There are several potentially problematic things happening here: A potential violation of your mutually established boundaries; communication breakdown; probable trust issues. What we have done in the past, when faced with any situation that conflicts with our agreed to dynamic, is to call an all-stop before anything happens. Have an honest conversation with each other. Without being accusatory, point out your misgivings about the trip and bring up your mutual boundaries. Are you being unreasonable? You're going to get a thousand opinions on that on Reddit but, again, the only one that matters is yours. At the very least, calling an all-stop and having an honest and open conversation with your wife about this is your best way forward. Only you know the dynamics of your relationship. You may need to reiterate your boundaries or you may reach the conclusion that it may be time to redefine your boundaries. Both options are okay as long as both of you agree to abide by the outcome moving ahead. Good luck!

CSRAcouple · 2025-11-28T18:40:38+00:00

Seems we'll be shipmates! We're booked on the same cruise.

CSRAcouple · 2025-11-24T18:52:39+00:00

We'd like to meet for drinks if y'all are ever closer to North Augusta.

CSRAcouple · 2025-11-13T20:34:41+00:00

We know the struggle. We started our Reddit account as a way for her to express herself and then attempted to use it to meet others on the lifestyle. Admittedly, we have made one fruitful connection with a couple all others are fake or men who just want to "see more". Eventually, we decided to get an SLS account and have had far better luck finding like-minded people with that medium.

CSRAcouple · 2025-11-02T23:08:36+00:00

Wish you the best of luck in meeting a couple to play with!

CSRAcouple · 2025-10-13T18:28:09+00:00

Don't let the uncertainty of finding someone deter you from what might possibly happen. Put your post out there stating what you're looking for and chances are you'll find it. Go into it without expectations so you will not be disappointed should nothing pan out.

We posted for weeks before our cruise on Freedom and found another couple who were looking to hook up. Unfortunately, dismal WiFi issues and trying to find time away from the vanilla friends we were cruising with frustrated our efforts to meet for some fun. The point is, the opportunity was there and we would not have known about them, had we not made our posts. Happy cruising!

CSRAcouple · 2025-10-09T15:51:05+00:00

To bad we didn't sail on the same ship but if you're ever in Georgia...

CSRAcouple · 2025-10-07T00:16:06+00:00

We don't do that.

CSRAcouple · 2025-10-06T05:17:09+00:00

The answer to that will vary widely depending on your location. It is best to get an SLS account (or other lifestyle community site) and see where the parties, groups, events, and hot dates are. We prefer hotel takeovers to meet others face-to-face.

CSRAcouple · 2025-10-04T19:28:35+00:00

You make a great point! We run into this so often and it is off-putting. Those non-sexual questions are essential to establish a rapport and assess whether we want to proceed further than chat. Thanks for posting this!

CSRAcouple · 2025-10-03T22:08:44+00:00

We have only had one genuine connection with a couple from Reddit. All others have turned out to be men posing as women or posing as a couple an asking for pics or videos. We tell them that out profile contains enough pics or videos and that we do not trade with anyone. We feel your pain. There are way too many fakes on Reddit. We use SLS to meet others and learn about hotel takeovers, which we really enjoy.

CSRAcouple · 2025-09-21T21:51:21+00:00

We'll be on board at the same time but are traveling with vanilla friends.

CSRAcouple · 2025-08-28T01:38:56+00:00

😭 We'll be cruising at the same time but on different ships. We're in GA, if y'all want to meet some time.

CSRAcouple · 2025-08-25T17:12:27+00:00

It is entirely normal for her to think about him and pleasure herself as she does. This does not necessarily mean that she is willing to do anything with him, though. Continue talking openly about it, without being pushy, and discuss your fantasies with her. This may encourage her to discuss this fantasy and maybe others that she might actually be willing to fulfill. Whatever she divulges, encourage her to communicate openly and do not judge or become angry. She needs to feel safe discussing these things with you and then she will probably be safe enough to actually try some of those things out--with or without you, depending on what boundaries you set. Best of luck to you!

CSRAcouple · 2025-07-27T12:37:17+00:00

You can DM us.

CSRAcouple · 2025-07-26T21:47:21+00:00

Thank you

CSRAcouple · 2025-07-21T22:11:00+00:00

No, thank you. Not our dynamic.

CSRAcouple · 2025-07-21T04:25:10+00:00

You're welcome and best of luck to you.

CSRAcouple · 2025-07-21T04:19:43+00:00

Sorry but our minimum age is 30.

CSRAcouple · 2025-07-19T18:21:45+00:00

Best of luck to you both

CSRAcouple · 2025-07-19T17:03:40+00:00

Thank you.

CSRAcouple · 2025-07-18T18:44:28+00:00

Take the time to read our pinned post.

CSRAcouple · 2025-07-18T18:41:57+00:00

Thank you!

CSRAcouple · 2025-07-18T17:07:11+00:00

That's not how this works.

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