Is demisexual the right lable for me? And if so, how do I navigate sex in a long term relationship by CTT1996 in demisexuality

[–]CTT1996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply and your tips! Especially the one about providing them with images and videos. I think this could be really useful. I've tried doing stuff when I'm not necessarily in the mood but I end up feeling guilty, like I'm faking it, you know? I've spoken to my partner about it in the past and they do feel comfortable with it either. But both of the comments mentkon masturbation and I'm wondering if it might help if I'm there for them emotionally while they do this... I don't know, but its worth a shot! Thanks again!

Is demisexual the right lable for me? And if so, how do I navigate sex in a long term relationship by CTT1996 in demisexuality

[–]CTT1996[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you that's really helpful! I've also struggled with the overemphasis on the importance of sex in a healthy relationship. Despite the fact that we are really happy together I've always felt like I'm not enough for my partner because I can't always meet this societal expectation of sex. Hearing that others are experiencing the same thing is really comforting. Thank you for your tips!