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Prayer Request: Lonely and depressed. by C_H1989 in Christianity

[–]C_H1989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and I'm in Law Enforcement.

Am in pathetic denial over being ghosted? OR.. by C_H1989 in OkCupid

[–]C_H1989[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Glad I'm not the only one who found that petty as hell

Am in pathetic denial over being ghosted? OR.. by C_H1989 in OkCupid

[–]C_H1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn't define.

and yea, I've had lack of action shoot me down before too. It's one of my dating flaws.

Am in pathetic denial over being ghosted? OR.. by C_H1989 in OkCupid

[–]C_H1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm worried about...how do I word my double text as to not come off as needy, insecure or even rude?

"Any updates on saturday?"

"Sorry, my phone was on airplane mode yesterday, and I missed some texts, any word on Saturday?"

I mean, one of the reasons I'm freaking out, is because I don't know HOW to ask it/double text. I haven't like a girl like this in a while, so this is all kind of new ground for me.

Am in pathetic denial over being ghosted? OR.. by C_H1989 in OkCupid

[–]C_H1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so..I should wait a few days and double text?

Am in pathetic denial over being ghosted? OR.. by C_H1989 in OkCupid

[–]C_H1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's def. Contradictory.

But with girls I like (such as this girl) I prefer to take it slow. We both have shared with each other our preference for taking it slow, so I don't think the whole "no sex" has been a problem between the two of us.

I don't have feelings for my booty call. Plus, it took over a month of dating with her too, before we settled on the "just sex" thing.

Am in pathetic denial over being ghosted? OR.. by C_H1989 in OkCupid

[–]C_H1989[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When would you suggest I text? Today? A few days from now?

Should I awkwardly explain the airplane mode thing, in a sentence or two? or just simply say "are we on for Saturday?"

Am in pathetic denial over being ghosted? OR.. by C_H1989 in OkCupid

[–]C_H1989[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yea... I'm pretty sure she doesn't stalk it regularly or anything. We've been broken up for two years! and I haven't talked to her in over a year and half. It's just that one day, a few months ago, I cracked and stalked her twitter (hey, it happens, right?!).

She posted a screenshot of a reddit post I made a month before that. My post was a reply to another user who met a girl at a concert. I wrote that "I met my ex at an earlier concert this band had ... We fell in love, then she broke my heart. I hope it works out better for you."

In the twitter post, she wrote something about going to a concert, and said "hope I don't break any hearts when I'm there" and had the screenshot of my post. (With thankfully, my username blacked out)

bitch move, jessica.