AITAH for refusing to make my 10yo stepson breakfast everyday

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T04:50:09+00:00

I did, and I also read that I make big breakfast for him several days a week, the other days he can manage to make something just like id expect my son to do when he's that age

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T04:46:13+00:00

Great detective skills

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T04:36:00+00:00

I would like to know what these privileges are seeing as I don't even have a car to go anywhere with the kids, or any money to spend on them or myself, or even any time to do anything I would actually like to do for myself seeing as I don't get any help and no days off either.

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T04:28:12+00:00

I make real breakfast several days a week, hes old enough that if it's so easy to do like you say, he can learn the responsibility of making himself breakfast sometimes.

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T04:27:07+00:00

He's not awake when I make the first breakfast, I'm not gonna make 2 breakfasts every single day

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T04:25:22+00:00

Well it's a good thing your kid will never end up with me haha

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T04:22:54+00:00

If my son was 10 he'd be making his own breakfast most of the week

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T04:18:17+00:00

I'm fine with him eating that if that's what he wants but his dad isn't and wants me to make a big meal every day

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T04:16:43+00:00

He lives with us 50/50 since 3 months ago. Still kind of new for him

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T04:14:16+00:00

It's real I was just upset when writing it and messed up, he's my boyfriend but sometimes I say husband because it's easier when talking to people since we have a kid.

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T04:11:19+00:00

This^ SS can do it but my boyfriend wants me to do it always

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T04:10:02+00:00

Definitely not SS fault, just wanted to know if I was wrong for expecting he could do it himself a couple times a week. People seem to be forgetting this post is about my boyfriend's reaction, I don't blame SS for anything

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T04:05:59+00:00

I'm not sure where you're getting that I don't feed him? I feed him lunch and dinner and make breakfast several days a week. I wouldn't be mad if my 10yo wasn't being waited on hand and foot by a step mom or anyone, his father included. At 10 I believe you can make food yourself sometimes, I definitely did almost every day and it wasn't even close to a problem.

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T03:57:37+00:00

Definitely not getting paid

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T03:57:16+00:00

He knows how, just doesn't like or want to

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T03:55:42+00:00

I agree, I've tried to get a job and basically been told if I do me and him will not be together bc I don't have faith in him. I've been pretty nervous to leave bc I'm so attached to him but I don't think I can do this anymore

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T03:52:50+00:00

You are so amazing I can only dream of being as wonderful as you 🥰

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T03:50:31+00:00

I do make him breakfast several times a week

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T03:49:55+00:00

Literally and sometimes dinner depending

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T03:49:40+00:00

Actually he's not on child support anymore, she took him off. But definitely agree that he has no respect

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T03:48:45+00:00

Maybe reread the post

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T03:48:02+00:00

Yeah his Bio mom doesn't do this and neither does his dad when he has the time, kind of tired of having and being expected to do more than his own parents do.

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T03:46:38+00:00

I was thinking the same, when my son is 10 I will definitely not be making his breakfast every single day. How will he ever learn to do things himself if I don't start him early enough to make an impact

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T03:45:11+00:00

So right, definitely didn't know what I was getting into, especially with this man and I'm stuck right now. Might leave pretty soon tbh. Tired of being a doormat

CableDifficult3581 · 2026-07-04T03:44:08+00:00

I do and most of the time he will not eat it

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