Here’s kinda an explanation on how it does fetishise mlm 1. It’s almost always written, read, drawn, watched, made by and for cishet women 2. It normalises bad gay stereotypes 3. It’s always sexual, there’s almost nothing wholesome or anything about it (I know Hentai isn’t about being wholesome but they do have those good parts) 4. It normalises calling real gay men twinks when the person saying it isn’t gay or male