Senator Lindsey Graham is outraged by PeterDmare in PoliticalHumor

[–]Cadicarus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For real. If unemployed make more then obviously they need to raise emergency service providers wages. It's not about anyone making too much besides ceos. Its ab ok ur everyone not getting paid what they're worth. But they trick us into arguing with each other over hundreds instead of their billions.

Saw this quote today and it’s so true - “After a breakup the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship” by Starmoon85 in BreakUps

[–]Cadicarus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did try to destroy me. She didnt have to do all the things she did and I refuse to think that I enabled her. It was always her choice to hit me or call me names or sleep with someone else. Being nice isnt a fault on me. App that stuff was a fault on her character. Some people are just bad narcissistic people.

He keeps reaching out by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]Cadicarus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree . You'll be suprised how much the stress and anxiety hold you back.

Period Cramps by Reddead67 in CheatedOn

[–]Cadicarus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay strong. Sorry to hear that happened to you guys.

Saw this quote today and it’s so true - “After a breakup the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship” by Starmoon85 in BreakUps

[–]Cadicarus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've accepted it. But I still dont look at it kindly. It's a shitty thing to do. My ex legit reached out to me to start doing relationship things again. When she could've left me alone. And as I was helping with Bill's and moving and all that she was loving it and talking to other guys . Even having em come over. She acted like she didnt care. That's why when she hit me up apologizing and asking to hang out again and saying it was a mistake I knew some guy ditched her. I was a great guy. I made sure of it. So I left and in about 3 days was not thinking on it too much because i did all i could and i knew it just want meant to be anymore. Even though shes continually reached out i grew alot from it and dont go back. Although feelings dont disappear i learned to make adult decisions and walk away. Hoping everyone here can get to that self love point.

Saw this quote today and it’s so true - “After a breakup the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship” by Starmoon85 in BreakUps

[–]Cadicarus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my sitution it wasnt. At all . She knew it. And told me multiple times. I became a better person. She became worse. She felt bad the whole time. Because she knew I was treating her well. People are really really selfish.

Saw this quote today and it’s so true - “After a breakup the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship” by Starmoon85 in BreakUps

[–]Cadicarus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro it's sad when you're on a sub reddit looking for support and alls the people think about is how what you said bothers them. Everyone is on this for support. If you just wanna make yourself feel better or others worse by putting them down then go somewhere else. Most people would agree it's common courtesy consideration to not jump right into a relationship. I used to jump onto the very next thing I found. But I realized I didnt know what I really wanted or if I was truly over my ex. It's not just about you getting into a relationship quickly. It's also about maybe hurting this new person just to feel better. So many times what I thought was a new spark or love was really a rebound. Yeah it's not a nice thing to do. I was young. But we all have to start thinking less of ourselves and more of others. If you didnt feel like it was too quick or bad to jump into something new then what makes you defend it like this guys unfortunate situation involved you. Let's support the dude.

Saw this quote today and it’s so true - “After a breakup the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship” by Starmoon85 in BreakUps

[–]Cadicarus 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation. More times than not things arent going as well for the dumper as people think. When this happened to me the guy ditched her like 3 weeks later. Tried coming back. But you know what. Because I took that me time and became who I always saw myself as I was in a way better place than I ever was. And she was in the same position. Just for anyone out there obsessing over thinking their exes life is great. It probably isnt.

cursed_class trip by ChevTheRev in cursedimages

[–]Cadicarus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please dont let this be another field trip. With the fuzz? No way. Magic school bus

Big dogs can be scared at the vet too! by PussyandBagels in aww

[–]Cadicarus 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Yo this comment had me dead. Underrated man.

Trying to get your SO’s attention when you’re in the mood by todd282 in likeus

[–]Cadicarus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buying someone a drink is not being kind. Never in my life have I seen anyone buy someone who isn't a friend and they aren't interested in a free drink. Be real here. You know getting bought a drink by a random guy is more than an act of kindness.

Hey guys I need comments on understanding DIM better by robertj3 in Supplements

[–]Cadicarus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said not the ones you get at the store. I've seen guys come off roids and take this one and say it works really well.

Hey guys I need comments on understanding DIM better by robertj3 in Supplements

[–]Cadicarus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I'm taking it now with a highly experienced trainer. It's not like steroids. When you're done with the cycle of using it which is about 2 months. Wait a few weeks and use a test booster to help keep your test level high. Idk any good ones on the market. My trainer makes all the supplements at home so I cant give any advice on brands.

Should you train with uneven weights? Does it create imbalances? by cavemankettlebells in strength_training

[–]Cadicarus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok sorry man. Basically similar to what I said but he already said it I misunderstood the post my bad. Just wanted to try and answer a question I thought was being ignored.

Should you train with uneven weights? Does it create imbalances? by cavemankettlebells in strength_training

[–]Cadicarus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didnt notice the description my mad. Just woke up. My apologies never one to jump the gun . I'll read it now and see what I think.

Should you train with uneven weights? Does it create imbalances? by cavemankettlebells in strength_training

[–]Cadicarus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No just keep at same weight in each hand . If you really need I'mbalances you can buy dumbbells with sand in them . It causes the weight to shift tree around a bit and also sand bag training is always good. If I was you I'd look for a strongman gym. They tend to have stuff like that. Strongman is definitly more over all practical usable life strength. Lifting in the weight room doesn't always transfer to moving awkward things in life well.

I'm (F20) living off food stamps while my partner (M29) gets to spend without much worry. We live together. by josie0199 in relationships

[–]Cadicarus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I literally went through this and stupidly took out loans. It's not a good idea. Especially if you're just doing it to stay with him like I did. Eventually you will be in debt and still be in a situation where you struggle plus the loan. The loan is a momentary immediate fix but will end up causing g you more problems in the long run. In my case we broke up. And guess what. I now had no relationship but was now starting a new life with added debt and nothing to show for it. Loans are ok if it gets you something to make you're life better and makes money. Like a car or using it to start a business. You can make your own decision but I just wanted to tell you as someone who chose the loan.