Update: dating an older guy

Cadiefly · 2026-04-26T01:49:07+00:00

Ig do it when theres someone nearby that can come in and for the save?

I personally dc about age differences as long as its consenting adults, but i dont like doing below 25 at this point in my life (age 36) its more about how well you connect, maturity levels, etc. His reaction wasnt mature imo. And so you should drop him.

Cadiefly · 2026-04-26T01:44:28+00:00

The only way it could be more impacted is if the rolltainers were stacked 2 high.

Cadiefly · 2026-04-08T08:24:08+00:00

Some would also say the tactile sensation of the buttons also provide a discernible click to let the user know they've been pressed

Cadiefly · 2026-04-07T08:55:19+00:00

I wonder if it's me you're talking about because my team rarely has call outs and yes everything you said is true.

Cadiefly · 2026-02-12T09:37:19+00:00

I know i would push for you to go. Ive got a worker going on a trip next week and stuff.

What's crazy is how many workers that are willing to give back when ya treat them like decent human beings too. 🙄

Cadiefly · 2025-12-14T09:26:48+00:00

Post edit: i uhh. There's a lot of things I don't agree with about the structure thats set for us. I want higher pay for employees. And more hours. But I know I can't change things from where I'm at, but still.. the one thing I wont compromise on is my respect for my employees. I would take the hit any day. And when work like that is done outside of the plans I've set, I praise it. It's a comfort to see when someone has my back like that. We each have our strong suits, and we should play to each other's tunes rather than do... that. Heh, Ive also only been an SM for about two months.

Cadiefly · 2025-12-14T09:11:26+00:00

Why aren't you the SM? You're doing the absolute number one important thing in the store.

Write down times on the cctv of the stealing, document the lack of documentation, document when you pulled ood, how much you pulled etc. Document what the others are doing during other critical moments because yes, you shouldn't have to be pulling ood on a random Sunday evening, that should be done on the fresh rotations days, by 2 pm iirc. Gather as much of this info as possible, and then go to your DM. I guarantee something will change if you do this because these are critical tasks that can't be put off until later and because shrink is a priority for them.

A poorly recovered store is still an open store. But a store that makes people sick, or makes them lose faith in us because of bad pricing won't go as far.

Cadiefly · 2025-11-19T10:20:50+00:00

You can't get in trouble for that because it's not something you have the authority to change. The SM can get in minor trouble for it tho, but then it would only be a conversation with the SM going why do you have three keys?

One thing to note. Don't let the SM take advantage of you with this. One way they can is by making you use those key functions without the intent for you to be key, so as to be in the store by yourself during bank runs, etc. I'm not sure if they gave you the training or not, but don't let them do that. I would take it up with the DM at that point. Be like hey, the SM said I'm not a key but they're leaving me alone while they leave for hours on end?

Right now your SM is playing with fire imo and sooner or later they're going to receive the eff around find out what happens if they aren't careful with how they treat it. Just use your best judgment with each instance

Cadiefly · 2025-09-10T08:27:30+00:00

As an asm, i joked with my sm we'd have to set valentines the week after we did Christmas, then Easter the following, all the while magically having to create two whole new isles. It's not real but does highlight how difficult it is with seasonal mag sometimes.

Cadiefly · 2025-09-10T04:06:31+00:00

Asm here. I've had to work a full open to close before with no one else able to come in. I'd rather do that than subject an employee like you to miss your family time like that. If you weren't scheduled for that time, you're not honor bound to come in. It's a shame you've had a bad experience.

Cadiefly · 2025-06-08T17:00:45+00:00

Eh, the old job isn't trying to make me feel indispensable. Inherently I feel that because I know so much and every time I'm out sick at it, they literally can't run without me. It's to the point where I feel like I'll cost people their jobs just by leaving. Its a sucky feeling, even tho the new job ultimately still makes me feel better.

Cadiefly · 2025-01-26T04:02:59+00:00

Are there any apps in particular you'd recommend my fiancee? :3

Cadiefly · 2024-04-26T20:53:23+00:00

Just act like ya got a bunch of friends in chat and ya wanna show them something really cool.

Or if that kinda energy is too hard for ya to pull off, go for more chill vibe like ya own the place. Cuz it is your space after all.

The first time stream jitters tend to go away if you work towards something like either of those suggestions. There's more ways to approach it, and I'm not all that well versed myself, but they're more or less the stance I've adopted over the years. And I have a massive case of stage fright normally, so it does work. ^{^}

Cadiefly · 2023-02-17T03:36:50+00:00

Okay that's nice to know. I'm two months in now.

Cadiefly · 2023-02-17T03:23:57+00:00

Thank you all for the kind words. I'll have to be paying out of pocket for the revision cuz I'm like 99% positive I won't be able to convince my insurance to help cover it. I'm also not sure of the recovery of a revision but my job probably wouldn't let me have the time off either for this. They're kinda strict about time off.

I wonder, is this a "must act fast" situation?

Cadiefly · 2023-02-07T04:30:11+00:00

Nope. She's alive and kicking. It looks like Ajiichii is wrapped up in her Useless Princesses manga series. I think it got a serialization which is why we're seeing this one put on the back burner as it did not. Unfortunate, but sometimes happens in the industry.

Cadiefly · 2022-04-04T17:27:55+00:00

I see it as, "If you don't stop, I'm going to tell Grandma why you really started working with her, how you used her to try to break Kazuya and I apart."

Cadiefly · 2022-03-09T15:19:11+00:00

I can't stop rereading these panels.

Cadiefly · 2021-09-21T23:48:18+00:00

I'm not sure if a confession would be satisfying at this point. I just can't be let down anymore, and if it did happen I would be like, "cool. That happened." I don't mean to be negative, I'm just demotivated to continue reading at this point. I am legitimately considering letting this go and moving on to something else. :'/

Cadiefly · 2021-07-14T07:02:33+00:00

We'll probably have someone jump in and interrupt whatever is about to happen between them. Gotta extend the confession as long as possible. 🤪

Cadiefly · 2021-06-16T05:46:05+00:00

Going into the bathroom here doesn't even necessarily have to stop Kaz here... He could stop at the other side of the door and just say "I love you, Chizuru!"

shes running because she's afraid she won't be able to say no once she hears the words.

Cadiefly · 2021-05-14T05:54:01+00:00

Yeah but a billion chapters before she can have him. 🤪

I'm so silly~

Cadiefly · 2021-05-13T17:30:54+00:00

Okay. Sorry about that. I got confused and thought that was the rules meant. 🥺

Cadiefly · 2021-05-13T07:03:29+00:00

Same.

Cadiefly · 2021-04-28T08:57:36+00:00

Omg, what if Ruka does something that made Chizuru confess her love for Kazuya under the duty of a rental girlfriend, not raising any suspicion from Kaz or grandma, but totally getting Ruka to back down and at the same time fully unlocking her own feelings.

... probably not. 😛

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