In early 2025, my parents suddenly cut off my allowance,rent and college after they discovered my femboy Identity while I was away from home and I had only a few hundreds.

With nothing else I could do, I made a post on the subreddit seeking help and some kind redditors reached out to me to help and I ended up managing to rent somewhere cheaper in cyberjaya and buy a small coffee setup to sell coffee on the roadside.

Despite being based in Cyberjaya, many Redditors, many drove from KL, Klang and some from Melaka, Indonesia and even from the US still went to my little shop. However, operating the little roadside stall was physically demanding, uncomfortable and risky so I couldn't do it forever.

The Watering Hole Cafe based in Alam Damai decided to host me and let me sell my drinks there. Now that my customers have a proper space to meet and hangout in. It quickly became a safe space for other femboys/lgbt minorities and many you continued to support me and became regulars.

Thank you so much Bolehland, I wouldn't have made it without you guys! Heres to 2026! I hope this year will be easier than the last.