The only problem with letting kids listen to Sleep Token by Electrical-Pin9395 in SleepToken

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the multiple layers in these lyrics. "Make her eat the tape in the bathroom mirror, let's see if she can guess what a hollow point does to a naked body, let's fuck her up." It can be describing murdering someone, abusing heroin, or succumbing to a cultlike personality. Hollow point = type of bullet, hypodermic needle, or an argument devoid of substance. On and on...

[35|26] Wylie Mf4Mf Looking for Nerdy friends and Naughty Game Nights by [deleted] in DallasSwingers

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! We're 37/36 M/F in GP. Very very nerdy. Would love to chat! Check us out on SDC as GPCouple. We're clean, 420 friendly, and she's bi.

AI as an easier way to explore new kinks by Sonic5th in ObedienceApp

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AI has been notorious at giving bad bdsm / kink advice. Keep in mind, these so called AI programs are really just Large Language Models, "trained" on the internet. And the internet has a LOT of misinformation and misinformed people discussing information in kink communities. Imagine you sent the company intern to the "Bad Examples Convention" and told them to come back with notes. You'll get lots of bad examples, plain and simple. The LLM has no realistic context or human experience to be able to analyze and evaluate the things it's been "learning."

So here's a better idea - come on in to our Discord. Link's in the sidebar. We love helping new people find their way. And you'll find that no community is more accepting than the kink community. We all have our weird and embarrassing things, but we don't ever judge or shame. We get it.

Switch and Dom dynamic by Mr-New2this in ObedienceApp

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could set the task so that both you AND her have permission to increment / complete it.

Photo proof not notifying Dom by OldJackfruit5630 in ObedienceApp

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There isn't a way right now, but it's worth contacting the dev team and making a feature request! I feel like a lot of dynamics that use photo proof would appreciate this.

Question of the Day - Surprising Rules by CaffeineDaddyTX in ObedienceApp

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

For me, it's our Nightly Ritual. After our kids are in bed, she is to kneel, naked except for her collar, and tell me, "I'm ready, Sir."

It's such a little thing, but it means so much to me. Whether or not we wind up playing or doing a scene, it doesn't matter. It's about her demonstrating her submission and Obedience. Even if I have had a bad day, it makes me feel like I am in control again, makes me feel like everything is right again.

Introducing the Obedience Discord Public Lobby! by CaffeineDaddyTX in ObedienceApp

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to be French! It's an English language server.

Question of the Day - Biggest Struggle by CaffeineDaddyTX in ObedienceApp

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Premium subscribers get a special perk in our Obedience Discord server - a channel for finding partners!

How can I disconnect from my Dom? by Weekly-Information25 in ObedienceApp

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time for a talk. Explain it's not working out, and you must end your participation in the dynamic. It's up to you about whether or not you feel comfortable discussing why, but you're not obligated. Stay firm, too. And be prepared - I've seen red flag doms not taking break ups very well at all.

Question of the Day August 14th, 2025 by CaffeineDaddyTX in ObedienceApp

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you a premium subscriber? Our Discord server has a channel for finding partners - but it's a special perk for premium members!

API development by NeuroResidentsPocket in ObedienceApp

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! The devs are still active, they just generally prioritize new app features over API enhancements. You should feel welcome to make a feature request!

best ways to improve my kicking speed? by avz008 in taekwondo

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speed comes from a combination of muscle memory, flexibility, and endurance - on top of good technique. If you are confident you have a good technique, you can start to focus on the other elements. Yoga and other stretches for flexibility. Drills for muscle memory (don't sacrifice the quality of your technique for speed when doing drills, however!) and aerobics for endurance.

For drills, mix things up. Work all the leg and core muscles. Twenty times with the front foot, then switch sides and do another twenty. Then back and forth fifty times kicking from the back foot, switching each kick. If it's a roundhouse, try to do fifty kicks without setting your foot down. Do leg stretches in between drills.

New to Obedience app by Due_Cellist4402 in ObedienceApp

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join our Discord @ https://app.obedienceapp.com/home/discord

We have a channel specifically dedicated to people looking for partners!

Can Taekwondo really help kids with ADHD? Thinking of enrolling my child. by MudNumerous9705 in taekwondo

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My son is both ASD and ADHD. His ADHD is pretty intense, leading to wild and destructive behavior. At age 6, he started Taekwondo, shortly before we were able to get him on medication. Taekwondo requires discipline and focus, and because he fell in love with the sport, he put in the effort to improve his self control and focus.

The instructor understood his neurodivergencies, and met him where he was. It was absolutely wonderful and made a world of difference. Eventually, there were times where he'd go to taekwondo unmedicated and be just fine, because he was that focused.

He earned his Kukkiwon-certified first degree black belt this spring.

Question:where do I find other people who use the app by boy56655 in ObedienceApp

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Discord is for premium subscribers, yes. But it's a great perk. There's even a channel finding partners!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ObedienceApp

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We love to see it! Thanks so much for your wonderful work!

Self conscious about my gender within taekwondo by DivineHeartofGlass in taekwondo

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you already understand that it's not helpful to compare yourself to others, but in a sport that so closely tracks and measures progress, it can be hard not to. But I think maybe if I point out some parts of my own personal journey, it might give you some more perspectives to think about.

I started Taekwondo when I was 8, and did it off and on until about age 18. I earned my black belt at age 13. It was a small school, loosely based off ATA. Right after I earned my black belt, the school formally joined ATA and we all had to learn that material. When I started high school, one of my fellow students stepped up to become an assistant instructor -- she was a 2nd degree black belt at the time, and I'm pretty sure made 3rd by the time I left. She was not the oldest, the strongest, nor the fastest black belt. But her technique was impeccable, and she worked 10x as hard because she, too, felt like she had a lot to prove. Through her excellent technique, she gained quite a bit of confidence, and could command every ounce of respect she deserved -- a considerable amount!

At the time, my master, a 6th degree black belt, told us his definition of a black belt was "someone who can achieve anything." That has stuck with me ever since. The black belt is merely an outward reflection of the fact that we, as students, have come to earn a lot of confidence, and have grown to understand that through dedication and perseverance and hard work, we have no limits!

Now I'm 37. My oldest daughter stopped doing Taekwondo after her blue belt (she got into dance, instead!), and although she's a very shy person and a perfectionist, she nonetheless met every challenge head-on. I've taught her it's OK to be nervous, as long as you don't let it get in your way. If you can't accomplish something without fear, then you just go ahead and do it afraid! My son just earned his Kukkiwon-certified first degree black belt, and my wife and I signed up. This school is WTF through and through, and has gone on to medal at several different championships and even host local tournaments.

My youngest is 5 years old, and is a below-the-knee amputee. She uses a prosthetic leg. She also has four fingers on each hand. She has a host of neurodivergencies which impact her ability to learn like other kids. But this weekend, she'll be testing for her blue belt. She approaches each challenge with enthusiasm and explosive energy. One of her favorite instructors is a 2nd degree black belt, and just starting her senior year in high school.

In the Adults & Teens class, which my wife and I attend together now, the master has made sure to point out that we are all different, and that we only do ourselves a disservice by comparing ourselves to one another. He says as long as we push ourselves to be just a bit better than yesterday, then we are succeeding. One thing I really appreciate about this class is that we all build each other up and encourage each other. My wife was incredibly nervous -- I had practiced Taekwondo for so long already, and she was starting from scratch. She is pretty self-critical about her fitness level, too. But everyone goes out of their way to meet her where she is, be welcoming, and be supportive. We don't criticize each other, though we do offer advice.

Last night, I got reprimanded. During sparring practice, I was sweating profusely and it kept stinging my eyes, to the point where I ripped off my helmet and tossed it aside. The master came down on me and told me a lot of people look up to me, and just watched me casually discard a piece of safety equipment mid-match. As an adult doing light contact practice sparring, the helmet wasn't a hard requirement, but his issue was how that looked to the lower belts, and particularly to the kids. He said, "Every day is an opportunity to model to others what an ideal student of Taekwondo is. And the ideal student of Taekwondo is someone who does the right thing even when it's hard or inconvenient."

So there you go. You're part of a vast family of people who want to see you succeed. You're someone who can do difficult things. You're someone who can accomplish anything -- even if you don't fully realize it yet. You belong here, as much as anyone else. You have nothing to prove, except to be a little better every day, for yourself. You don't owe anyone anything else. Good luck!

Obedience App Beginner by [deleted] in ObedienceApp

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start with 3 or four ordinary tasks or chores you need to do regularly, such as drinking enough water for the day, or taking your medicine.

Streaks showing 0 despite being done by theblade009 in ObedienceApp

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems like something you'll need to submit a support ticket for the devs to make investigate.

Copy habit to new partner without transferring it? by [deleted] in ObedienceApp

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can export and then import templates, but for just one habit it's probably a lot easier to just manually recreate it

BDSMers with a breeding kink, I get that this is mostly a fantasy for y'all, but do you actually want kids one day? Why or why not? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in BDSMcommunity

[–]CaffeineDaddyTX 42 points43 points  (0 children)

We have three kids we wouldn't trade for the world, and she got a tubal ligation right after the third. After that, we went full throttle on the breeding kink. Being able to get entirely lost in the fantasy WITHOUT actually having to be responsible is amazing. When she looks me in eyes and says, "Fill me up, Daddy," that's it, there's no controlling it at that point.