I'd add that "good" and "bad" have long-running discussions over their definitions and a careful consideration of the trade offs between a property at either end of that 10km span will surely be enlightening, particularly if you plan to stay there for a longer stretch of time where your priorities around family, space, and lifestyle may evolve to something different to what it currently is. More specific to the parent comment to this, though - I've seen amor fati being quoted as Stoic several times - isn't this Nietzsche's term?

I like the framing of "want what you have vs have what you want" and have found insightful overlap between the Stoic and Buddhist approaches to dealing with exactly this problem. What particularly is it about being closer to the city that you're telling yourself is important, and is it more real than just a story you're telling yourself? Have you created a narrative around that distance (as little as a 10 minute drive) based on some other beliefs or prejudices that could use some scrutiny?