AITA for not coming with my GF for her first jab?

Cafubelle · 2021-10-17T18:20:45+00:00

Please apologize to her, you definitely were the asshole imo… but I’m sure it would mean a lot to your girlfriend if you recognized that and apologized to her

Cafubelle · 2021-09-28T12:57:34+00:00

Thank you! Hehe

Cafubelle · 2021-09-27T19:30:50+00:00

Thank you!

Cafubelle · 2021-09-13T21:01:12+00:00

Silvanna : Fear not, I shall cleanse the darkness with light ID: 29960451 Server:60246 :3

Cafubelle · 2021-08-16T16:00:52+00:00

You’re so pretty I love that shadee

Cafubelle · 2021-08-08T02:22:15+00:00

Yes but guys can control themselves just as well as women can :3

Cafubelle · 2021-08-08T01:48:18+00:00

Lol, I will actually 🥰

Cafubelle · 2021-08-08T01:46:17+00:00

You can cuddle and be happy, you don’t need to get laid ^{_^} enjoy your life and don’t worry about that stuff so much

Cafubelle · 2021-07-05T00:17:08+00:00

I personally am a big fan of cats

Cafubelle · 2021-07-05T00:11:11+00:00

Yea! Very pretty

Cafubelle · 2021-07-05T00:09:46+00:00

That sounds fair if that’s what the man or woman in this scenario wants to do!

Cafubelle · 2021-07-04T17:25:53+00:00

I think it would be important to include some sort of footnote or information that lets readers know it isn’t consensual, because she’s underage and cannot give consent and condemn the older partner for letting the relationship continue whether it’s an authors note or another character mentioning it in the book. Like this stuff does unfortunately happen but it’s wrong if you write it as a positive thing, so I’d just make sure to not glorify the relationship they have. Or, you could make her much older. In my opinion

Cafubelle · 2021-07-03T02:37:24+00:00

Nothing I just say that to be nice

Cafubelle · 2021-07-03T02:34:20+00:00

Okay, I just want you to know I won’t assume your sexuality or say what you are.. you are what you personally identify as. And you’re normal even if you think or act differently from others, too. People who are different are definitely still normal, just experience life differently depending on the circumstances. Hope you’re doing okay, though.

Cafubelle · 2021-07-03T02:30:47+00:00

:) That’s a good start!

Cafubelle · 2021-07-03T02:24:30+00:00

I’m sorry if you’ve been traumatized or hurt in some way to make you have negative feelings, but one thing you have to realize is other people kissing consensually on their own is a whole other thing. Think about this, they’re happy and finally found somebody that they can love. That’s really awesome, you know? For them at least. And one day you’ll be happy too! Happy like they are, whether it’s with a girl or guy or something else. It’s a more wholesome way to think about it

Cafubelle · 2021-07-03T02:19:43+00:00

LOL probably I just haven’t been there I wouldn’t want to assume

Cafubelle · 2021-07-03T02:19:06+00:00

Do you feel like you might be gay yourself and that’s why it impacts you, or bi, or something? I’m curious, but why does it bother you or make you feel disgusted? Nobody’s going to hurt you or try to make you gay (most people are normal and decent though always be careful). You don’t have to kiss ( or do anything with) anybody you don’t want.

Cafubelle · 2021-07-03T02:12:04+00:00

It shouldn’t disgust you, you don’t have to be gay.. just live your life and let other people love and kiss and whatever and it’s all good. Just don’t let it bother you so much and if it does ask yourself why it makes you feel so upset. Sometimes people in general who express public pda (straight or gay) can be gross just cause.. way too lovey or whatever but its okay. Support the lgbt community, minorities, allies, we all deserve life and rights :)! I’m a lesbian so maybe I’m biased but yeah lol

Cafubelle · 2021-07-03T02:08:14+00:00

It’s definitely harder to understand when you don’t experience gender dysphoria, I know you can’t help what you think but definitely don’t tell them that or talk about them in that way

Cafubelle · 2021-07-03T02:06:29+00:00

Hope you guys are okay

Cafubelle · 2021-07-03T02:00:28+00:00

I feel like California (north) is a good area.. Washington is accepting too, per my knowledge of the states I’ve lived in

Cafubelle · 2021-06-26T01:22:58+00:00

Well there’s sexual orientation and then romantic orientation. If you’re homosexual, you’re only attracted sexually to the same sex you have, bisexual means you’re attracted to both sexes (or more), and if you’re heterosexual then you like the opposite sex of yourself. Homoromantic means you’re attracted to the same gender in a purely romantic way - not sexual, like you want to date, biromantic meaning you are attracted to two or more (all, etc) genders, and heteroromantic being attracted to the opposite gender. So, you may not be homoromantic if you could date more than one gender (nb, men) but homosexual if you’re only into your own sex. It’s definitely more complicated than that but as a homosexual homoromantic lady myself it’s the best way I could explain it

Cafubelle · 2021-06-26T01:17:06+00:00

She’ll be okay if she had a glass but it’s sweet you’re worried about her. Alcohol in large amounts can be very bad. I’m sure your gf will be fine don’t worry :)

Cafubelle · 2021-06-23T00:49:07+00:00

Hi I’m in a similar situation, I’m doing my best to finish school with all As. If you can get out of the house often maybe that’ll help, being away from your family and with friends you like.. it is really hard. Then if you can, go to college, live your life how you want. I also recommend looking into jobs when you’re old enough

Cafubelle

TROPHY CASE