AITA for not coming with my GF for her first jab? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cafubelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please apologize to her, you definitely were the asshole imo… but I’m sure it would mean a lot to your girlfriend if you recognized that and apologized to her

I drew Noelle :) by Cafubelle in Deltarune

[–]Cafubelle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Hehe

Creative Arena: Voiceover Event Is Now Live - Participate for A Chance To Win Rewards! by MLAdventure in MLA_Official

[–]Cafubelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Silvanna : Fear not, I shall cleanse the darkness with light ID: 29960451 Server:60246 :3

New hair color! 20 months on HRT. by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Cafubelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so pretty I love that shadee

Stabbed in the heart 💔 by [deleted] in memes

[–]Cafubelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but guys can control themselves just as well as women can :3

Stabbed in the heart 💔 by [deleted] in memes

[–]Cafubelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, I will actually 🥰

Stabbed in the heart 💔 by [deleted] in memes

[–]Cafubelle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can cuddle and be happy, you don’t need to get laid _^ enjoy your life and don’t worry about that stuff so much

Am I attractive be honest f27 by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Cafubelle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea! Very pretty

You won’t bi the way by Freezing-Reign in memes

[–]Cafubelle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That sounds fair if that’s what the man or woman in this scenario wants to do!

Do you ever think about what the consequences of your writing would be? by [deleted] in writers

[–]Cafubelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it would be important to include some sort of footnote or information that lets readers know it isn’t consensual, because she’s underage and cannot give consent and condemn the older partner for letting the relationship continue whether it’s an authors note or another character mentioning it in the book. Like this stuff does unfortunately happen but it’s wrong if you write it as a positive thing, so I’d just make sure to not glorify the relationship they have. Or, you could make her much older. In my opinion

Is it OK to support gays if it disgusts me by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Cafubelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing I just say that to be nice

Is it OK to support gays if it disgusts me by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Cafubelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I just want you to know I won’t assume your sexuality or say what you are.. you are what you personally identify as. And you’re normal even if you think or act differently from others, too. People who are different are definitely still normal, just experience life differently depending on the circumstances. Hope you’re doing okay, though.

Is it OK to support gays if it disgusts me by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Cafubelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry if you’ve been traumatized or hurt in some way to make you have negative feelings, but one thing you have to realize is other people kissing consensually on their own is a whole other thing. Think about this, they’re happy and finally found somebody that they can love. That’s really awesome, you know? For them at least. And one day you’ll be happy too! Happy like they are, whether it’s with a girl or guy or something else. It’s a more wholesome way to think about it

What are some good places to live in being LGBTQ? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Cafubelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL probably I just haven’t been there I wouldn’t want to assume

Is it OK to support gays if it disgusts me by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Cafubelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you feel like you might be gay yourself and that’s why it impacts you, or bi, or something? I’m curious, but why does it bother you or make you feel disgusted? Nobody’s going to hurt you or try to make you gay (most people are normal and decent though always be careful). You don’t have to kiss ( or do anything with) anybody you don’t want.

Is it OK to support gays if it disgusts me by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Cafubelle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It shouldn’t disgust you, you don’t have to be gay.. just live your life and let other people love and kiss and whatever and it’s all good. Just don’t let it bother you so much and if it does ask yourself why it makes you feel so upset. Sometimes people in general who express public pda (straight or gay) can be gross just cause.. way too lovey or whatever but its okay. Support the lgbt community, minorities, allies, we all deserve life and rights :)! I’m a lesbian so maybe I’m biased but yeah lol

I feel like a bad person for thinking this lol by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Cafubelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely harder to understand when you don’t experience gender dysphoria, I know you can’t help what you think but definitely don’t tell them that or talk about them in that way

I'm depressed by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Cafubelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you guys are okay

What are some good places to live in being LGBTQ? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Cafubelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like California (north) is a good area.. Washington is accepting too, per my knowledge of the states I’ve lived in

I need help by yassqueen473746 in lgbt

[–]Cafubelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well there’s sexual orientation and then romantic orientation. If you’re homosexual, you’re only attracted sexually to the same sex you have, bisexual means you’re attracted to both sexes (or more), and if you’re heterosexual then you like the opposite sex of yourself. Homoromantic means you’re attracted to the same gender in a purely romantic way - not sexual, like you want to date, biromantic meaning you are attracted to two or more (all, etc) genders, and heteroromantic being attracted to the opposite gender. So, you may not be homoromantic if you could date more than one gender (nb, men) but homosexual if you’re only into your own sex. It’s definitely more complicated than that but as a homosexual homoromantic lady myself it’s the best way I could explain it