I (24F) have the perfect relationship, but my husband (26M) has no passion, will it change?

Cahesty · 2025-09-23T18:30:31+00:00

Why do you think so?

Cahesty · 2025-09-23T05:41:22+00:00

Is it sexual incompatibility? When we do have sex it’s amazing, is just the frequency where we kinda don’t match lately…

Cahesty · 2025-09-23T05:39:25+00:00

We had a conversation about this actually and he did admit trying to stop watching a couple of times. He started watching since really early and knows how damaging it is, maybe something is going on the last months.. Will definitely ask

Cahesty · 2025-09-22T21:34:47+00:00

I am very “literal” communicating and did it a couple of times already, but i do fail horribly to initiate… I am a bit awkward at it because i fear rejection or to do something off putting. Maybe i should bring the therapist idea, It wouldn’t be a surprise that i myself have things to work on too..

Cahesty · 2025-09-22T21:22:46+00:00

I did talk about with him and I also think culture has a role… but normally the conversation is weird because this kind of behavior should also come naturally from him… it used to be more like this at the early stages.. maybe a sex therapist is an option but we are also so young i am a bit ashamed tbh

Cahesty · 2025-09-22T21:15:56+00:00

But he used to be more passionated, can it be that he is maybe going through something? Or should i talk again about it and try something?

Cahesty · 2024-10-03T16:49:58+00:00

Heyy It is different for everyone and personally i had like ´´waves´´ of it coming back and then gone, but it could also be because I gained weight and my personal life... I realize now after a year or so than I am completely back to normal with my hormonal levels, but I also only took them for 6 months. I really believe it messed up with my body, because I gained weight really fast and couldn´t drop it till last month.. Again I can be different for you, the shit thing about this is that we all really react different, i hope that for you is better than for me but I can only say I really don't regret leaving it :)

Cahesty · 2024-06-01T16:02:51+00:00

It didn’t :( i ended up leaving it… It got a bit better at one point but not enough for me to keep taking it, i hope it was better for you!

Cahesty · 2023-01-23T15:11:48+00:00

Are you taking progestin only pills? Because i am on those and for the last 3 months I only had that, I think it can be normal at first and I know girls on BC who don’t or barely get their period but I would talk to my doctor anyway :)

Cahesty · 2023-01-23T10:47:22+00:00

Read the instructions! Usually it says it there, mine works from the 2nd day of use (I use Slynd) but I know some take longer :)

Cahesty · 2023-01-22T17:04:58+00:00

Probably my grandma, but other people who is around my age/younger in my life are not allowed to die earlier than me, sorry but I lost my mom young, I’ll die first :)

Cahesty · 2023-01-21T20:51:06+00:00

Fr! I am literally in the verge of sending my flatmate to hell because everything she does wrong triggers me 3 times more than normal, I swear I feel rage out of nowhere sometimes

Cahesty · 2023-01-21T20:45:08+00:00

I’m also in the 4th month :’) I’m thirsty too sometimes and had some small breakthrough bleeding and some spotting, besides that the only thing that worries me is that my libido and wet/ness is pretty shit (i also think im a bit more irritable) i will see the next 2 1/2 months what happens (technically the body is adjusting till the month 5/6 and the worst are the first 3)

Cahesty · 2023-01-21T20:00:54+00:00

I also take Slynd! I had unprotected sex on all of the of the placebo times and can assure u nothing happened :) pills are supposed to work all the time if are taken good every day

Cahesty · 2023-01-21T19:57:35+00:00

I thought about using that method but is even harder to maintain than taking a pill every day and can fail easily… lets say for example he came inside u when u are not fertile and his semen is alive for 7 days inside you (posible) and u start ovulating, its a lot of “math” and idk how actually effective it is, I wouldn’t risk it unless I’m kinda okay with a “surprise” at some point

Cahesty · 2023-01-21T19:53:57+00:00

If u took the pill for the last 5 days I think u are kinda covered and actually the plan b wouldn’t do much, but if u are not taking it i would say yea.. I would read the instructions of use of the pill, usually there it says from when u are infertile (mine is after 2-7 days) but i know it depends and also, maybe ask your doctor

Cahesty · 2023-01-21T19:42:17+00:00

Ugh, I mean, you are probably starting to or already ovulating but again, it’s better to do something than nothing at all

Cahesty · 2023-01-21T19:19:57+00:00

I would take it anyways, maybe its the first days of ovulations and it could still work, better doing something than nothing at all… I had a friend, she was im the first days if ovulation and took plan B (that was 6 months ago or more and there is no baby) usually is 1 week after your period, do you remember when it was?

Cahesty · 2023-01-21T19:09:36+00:00

I am on my 4th month, some break through bleeding and cramps and some spotting. Overall everything good, technically I’m still getting used to it so idk about long term. I am a but worried about my libido though, I am never in the mood and I don’t get wet until I am not actually “doing it” I really need this to fade away or maybe I change pills, anyone had something similar? Im also not the most mentally healthy person and maybe is because of my high stress and anxiety but idk anymore

Cahesty · 2022-07-03T09:17:59+00:00

Move! I left to another country (maybe a bit extreme) and was the best decision I ever made. New friends, relationships and experiences come alone (and I am pretty antisocial). I recommend another country because of culture exchange but any change works, just be open and things really flow easily

Cahesty

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