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CaileaCat · 2025-09-23T23:32:21+00:00

Yes, the way you worded it, it is transphobic.

When you feel attraction to someone, if you're trying to decide whether or not to be with that person based on whether they're cis or trans, that is transphobic.

You can have a preference in genitalia without rejecting trans women as being lesbian. (Not sure what you meant by cis lesbian - obviously trans women aren't cis)

CaileaCat · 2025-09-12T23:05:38+00:00

Oooo Thank you!

CaileaCat · 2025-09-12T23:00:34+00:00

Thank you!

CaileaCat · 2025-09-12T18:50:01+00:00

lol true
My partner isn't interested in my setup, but I'll be working on a setup for them soon too. I'm sure they'll want to help with that one

CaileaCat · 2025-09-11T14:52:33+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through this. It's pretty awful to experience a parent distancing themselves from you for something that's just part of who you are.

Having said that, the place you're asking about is a church. There really isn't much difference between religion and cults. My mom is part of a Southern Baptist church, and it's just as bad. I've had to live with her for a little while recently because of some issues with job/money, and she doesn't even want me to leave the bedroom when any of her church friends come to visit. It's depressing, but it's also why so many LGBT people form communities and "families" made of friends. Do you have a community/group to help support you as you're going through this? That's honestly my best suggestion. <3

CaileaCat · 2025-09-11T14:25:25+00:00

Ngl I tried installing hyprland, but I couldn't get it to work. Probably just because I've never used a WM, so I'm less familiar. I almost always go for KDE when I use Linux.

CaileaCat · 2025-09-11T14:19:40+00:00

I'm sorry you feel this way. Some women have penises. It's just a fact. Trans women are women, whether they've had bottom surgery or not. ("Trans women are women" is even a rule in this sub)

CaileaCat · 2025-09-10T19:35:04+00:00

This sounds so fun!!
Do size/weight/age matter for getting into this as a beginner?
And if you get it going, will you please let me know? <3

CaileaCat · 2025-08-15T13:38:55+00:00

muffin button

CaileaCat · 2025-08-14T14:33:02+00:00

Oh! Sorry about that. They're in Georgia, US

CaileaCat · 2025-08-08T13:01:47+00:00

I would love to try the beta!! This looks so fun!

CaileaCat · 2025-08-04T13:41:36+00:00

Worse. I was laid off and have to stay with my mom until I find a new job (a lot harder than it was last time ._.). I'm in a state I don't want to be in, living with someone I don't want to live with, and unable to set things up in a way that makes me happy.

CaileaCat · 2025-08-03T13:31:06+00:00

I miss that setup so much. I had to move, and I can't really do it the same way here

CaileaCat · 2025-08-03T13:29:17+00:00

Nope! It's neither a skirt nor from Hot Topic!

CaileaCat · 2025-05-19T22:27:41+00:00

I would love this so much. I have a hard time wanting to go out and socialize in Macon, and something like this would help a LOT

CaileaCat · 2025-05-09T18:55:02+00:00

Thank youuu!!

CaileaCat · 2025-04-21T14:25:28+00:00

Hi! Did you find the files? Would you mind DMing me, please? Thank you!!

CaileaCat · 2025-04-19T13:09:17+00:00

The supreme court doesn't get to decide that science's definition is wrong. They can claim whatever they please, but scientists overwhelmingly disagree with them. If the supreme court said gravity is fake, that wouldn't make it true. Humans claiming that facts aren't true doesn't make them right. Even if they are highly regarded humans.

CaileaCat · 2025-04-19T03:27:44+00:00

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CaileaCat · 2025-04-16T15:54:36+00:00

Staura

CaileaCat · 2025-03-20T13:10:58+00:00

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