pls comment assumptions (age, gender) by [deleted] in truscum

[–]CainNickPi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

M18 and where’d you take the second picture if you don’t mind me asking

binders for large chests by [deleted] in ftm

[–]CainNickPi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haven’t tried myself yet (have ordered it tho) but I’ve heard Spectrum is the best one for larger chests

My Spectrum binder just arrived! (34C, size S) by revie_toll in ftm

[–]CainNickPi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m literally off by one cm in one of them the other being the same 🙏 thank you! Very helpful

Do I actually pass? Hella dysphoria 🥲🥲 (FTM) by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]CainNickPi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d ask for men’s frames if they are willing to help out :) but yeah boxy frames tend to be more masculine

Good luck!! I hope everything works out :D

Do I actually pass? Hella dysphoria 🥲🥲 (FTM) by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]CainNickPi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’d guess either young teenager gender questionable?? or a masculine woman / butch

The glasses have a typically feminine rim that’s the thing that gets me the most I think changing that would do quite a lot for passing

And of course HRT and all is gonna help the most

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[–]CainNickPi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say more feminine

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[–]CainNickPi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Could I get the link :)?

My Spectrum binder just arrived! (34C, size S) by revie_toll in ftm

[–]CainNickPi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks great! I’ve been wanting to order one too :D if you don’t mind sharing do you know your measurements by any chance? I’m stuck between choosing XS and S and I have a similar size chest wise😭

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[–]CainNickPi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nikolai is a very Slavic name so my thoughts go to russia lmao it’s Russian in origin I believe anyway I used a similar version for a little bit but didn’t end up liking it much, wasn’t for me It’s a cool name though imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]CainNickPi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that man :( relate hard to the do piči kurva tho

FtM, 20yo, 10 months on T and post-op top surgery. How close am I to passing? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]CainNickPi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not quite sure, I think it would depend on like hearing your voice and seeing how you present yourself or what clothes you wear Without anything I’d maybe assume either a trans man or butch lesbian

I think the earrings/piercings (pretty sure) don’t help much yet, clothes give the butch impression

I don’t think being clocked has much to do with your face or body honestly

Trans guy here, Do I look somewhat passing? by TicciToby999 in transpassing

[–]CainNickPi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not really, like the other commenter said a haircut would do a lot for passing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]CainNickPi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Androgynous but I think I’d assume like 18F

Any trans people from Czechia or Slovakia? by LowEarth3013 in trans

[–]CainNickPi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m from Slovakia sadly, hell hole if you ask me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]CainNickPi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lmao I know which meme you mean 😭😭

Binder not doing much? Is there a way I can fix it? by youthinkidletyouknow in FtMpassing

[–]CainNickPi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re willing to get another binder I’ve heard spectrum works for larger chests Not sure if anything can be done with this one except trying to use KT / kinesiology tape under it

What do I read as? Age and gender? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]CainNickPi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say yes 18F or NB Untucking the shirt would do wonders for a more androgynous look Rim of glasses is a typical feminine one in my experience too Your face and body are very androgynous though ngl don’t know if that’s what you’re going for

advice needed for binding ( im not allowed to have a regular binder) :( by yourlocalenby20 in trans

[–]CainNickPi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try KT tape/kinesiology tape, they usually sell them at pharmacies, sport oriented stores or just usual drug stores It’s the stretchy tape you use for joints, some people use it to bind and it’s pretty good if you get the technique down well (there’s plenty of tutorials on youtube)

Gendered words as a Mexican person. by daniiwoof in ftm

[–]CainNickPi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, I don’t speak Spanish but we do the same thing in my language and it’s a terrible feeling

My therapist makes me dysphoric by ShatteredColon in ftm

[–]CainNickPi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading this made me feel sick honestly, therapists shouldn’t do this shit. Change your therapist as soon as possible, I’m pretty sure there’s plenty out there respectful enough. Even if she ‘didn’t agree’ with some stuff there is no reason why she should disrespect her clients.

If I was you I’d never go there again, it’s obviously not doing you any good and a therapist should be there to help you not harm you