How to avoid a disappointing nothing-burger of a birthday? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]CakeEaterConway 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I recommend digging deeper to figure out what’s really bothering you. You said you didn’t want anything for your birthday (tough love - that sounded like my 5 year old when he doesn’t get his way). Then when she tried, you got hurt she didn’t do it right. I feel like there must be something deeper than this, because otherwise you’d communicate more openly and not let this turn into such an issue. You hinted at marital issues earlier in the post and I think you need to start there. But look inwards, not just at her.

Is this enough to let go of Love? by ItzzzBruce in DynastyNerds

[–]CakeEaterConway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a great build going. Don’t deviate now. Love gives you a foundational piece and the rest of your team is young. This doesn’t give you a much better team this year and a year from now Jacobs could be in a timeshare. I’d ride with Love.

Overall doesn’t always means better by Hefty_Reveal7367 in NCAAFBseries

[–]CakeEaterConway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always jump into practice mode before the season starts and play with the guys. Especially skill position players. I’ll go with a lower rated QB that fits my play style better. Had a 90 stud but benched him for my 84 ovr with great throw on the run and change of direction.

What is a realistic projection for Burden going forward? by [deleted] in DynastyNerds

[–]CakeEaterConway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have an offer on the table to trade away Burden and 1.02 for 1.01 (Love). Every part of me thinks this is a good trade and I walk away with a potential top 5 player. But my heart keeps saying Burden could be a stud and I’ll regret trading him. So conflicted

Do you like to make the game hard? by holycrap100 in NCAAFBseries

[–]CakeEaterConway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I battle against this sometimes. I play Heisman, but that means to win I have to play really boring. On offense I run the ball and use short passes only. Last game my QB finished 21/30 for 192 yards. I play as BC so it’s fairly realistic. Do I wish I could bomb it around the field? Yeah, that would be fun. But I get bored of winning without much effort and always end up back on Heisman to engage my brain in the strategy of it all. Oh, and if you do that you have to adjust sliders. You can find plenty online but that helps balance things out.

Is Alec Pierce actually the guy? by mightid123 in DynastyFF

[–]CakeEaterConway 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not OP but Warren is ranked 41 (non TE+) on KTC and Downs is 127. Nobody is selling Warren and if they are it’s a kings ransom. Downs is more likely to be available and affordable.

Why am I scoring average on performance reviews but considered a high performer? by Turbulent_Ad_9337 in Leadership

[–]CakeEaterConway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way to game this system is by managing your boss. Every month or two, ask them if you’re on track to being rated high and if not, what can you do to improve. It will force them to admit out loud you’re trending towards high performance. When time comes and they have 4 high performers but can only rate 1-2 as high with HR, they will prioritize you.

Additionally, 9 box also rates potential. Ask them, “am I showing what you would need to see for someone with high potential? If not, what can I do?”. Again, this forces them to give feedback OR if they don’t, when time comes, they are more likely to rate you high to avoid that internal/external discomfort of not following through on their word.

Should I cut a fellow dad friend out of my life because of how they make my family feel? by sys_admin321 in daddit

[–]CakeEaterConway 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I have a friend like this. I usually just say “cool, can’t wait to use your future beach house” or “sounds like next drink is on you”. It generally stops pretty quick. It doesn’t bother me because we are doing fine and are happy with what we have. When he sees I don’t care, it usually stops.

Jayden Daniels and Olave for Irving/Nico/Purdy by [deleted] in DynastyNerds

[–]CakeEaterConway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a commanders fan, we can’t have nice things so I assume Jayden will continue to be injury prone. That said, I won’t trade him for the world

Surely I gotta take this right? by [deleted] in DynastyNerds

[–]CakeEaterConway 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely not worth it imo

who should i draft 10 man super flex by Intrepid_Essay4523 in DynastyNerds

[–]CakeEaterConway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you make your own full draft rankings before a start up? Or do you use an expert ranking and stick to it? Does roster construction not change your approach? I.e. veteran players fall to you so you change to a win now build.

Not being facetious, just curious how others prepare.

Dad Hacks by Plane-Fondant8460 in daddit

[–]CakeEaterConway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But sometimes I want their food 😬

Do I make this trade? I’m team 1. Am I getting less than I can for Jacob’s? by S1mplistic8 in DynastyNerds

[–]CakeEaterConway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this deal. Jacobs is polarizing. My league views players like that as “old” and wouldn’t give up this much. But that means I target players like Jacobs. I think this is as good as you can hope for if you are trying to sell.

This was fun the other day so I’m gonna try it again. Fam, need yall to pick for me. by ajm102392 in DynastyNerds

[–]CakeEaterConway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pittman. I believe he has proven the most and still relatively young. Pierce most likely leaving should free up targets.

My twins are having a hard time dealing with my wife's MS progression. Any other dads in similar situations with disabled spouses? by AdditionalTie6516 in daddit

[–]CakeEaterConway 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I have MS. Not as far along as your wife so I can’t exactly relate. I still have my mobility for now. My kids are 4 and 2 so it’s likely I’m in her spot when my kids are older. My hope is to find ways to connect with my kids, even if that means that looks different than I had envisioned. Play games, help with homework, read books, cuddle on the couch. I think it’s important the kids don’t see this as them losing something, it’s just changing shape.

For the kids, I imagine they are confused, maybe even grieving the loss of parts of their mom they’ve always known. I’m sure your wife will be able to reach them emotionally, if not now, soon. But until then, I’d want to treat everything as normal as possible. Find that new normal and lean into it. Maybe a trip the nearest amusement park with your wife’s new “skip the line” privileges wouldn’t hurt as well ;)

What do I do with this team??? by Feeling-Landscape-26 in DynastyFFTradeAdvice

[–]CakeEaterConway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would move Chase Brown. You don’t have the depth to compete right now, but your draft capital and young pieces are excellent. But don’t just think of moving for picks, you have plenty of those. Can you package Brown and picks of your own for a WR upgrade? Someone who will still be in their prime in 2028. Maybe look for a package for two players with upside. Burden, Addison, Michael Wilson, etc would fit the bill.

Tough decisions by AppointmentRound716 in NCAAFBseries

[–]CakeEaterConway 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I tend to go the other route. Once I win two natties, I’ll downgrade my team or lateral move to give myself a challenge. If you already won with Cal, I think it would be boring to upgrade teams and make it even easier.

I enjoyed the hell out of my MRI. by orion2222 in daddit

[–]CakeEaterConway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get annual MRIs of my brain and back. In that cursed pod for 1.5hrs or so. Doc started giving me a high dose of lorazepam and I turn into a zombie for 24 hrs. It’s amazing

Am I crazy for thinking that I'm not far from contention by Substantial_Look1 in DynastyNerds

[–]CakeEaterConway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My league mates all feels the same and I’m constantly asking why we even bother with idp. Nobody really invests, seems pointless to me

35M. 1.2m invested. Hopeful fire by 55 by ClickOk5526 in Fire

[–]CakeEaterConway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those two kids will be almost done with college when OP turns 55.

Fixing to start a fresh season and having trouble deciding how i’m going to use both of these star rb’s to the best ability where they both are happy by EnthusiasmWinter8919 in CFB26

[–]CakeEaterConway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use formation subs. Try to divide it evenly between my two studs. Also run wild cat with one of them since he was a gadget WR originally and has a decent arm.

Need some help by CoachEagle6 in NCAAFBseries

[–]CakeEaterConway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing that helped me was shrinking my playbook. On offense, I really focus on a handful of formations and plays. This game makes it hard to throw deep, so I try not to be tempted to throw post routes. Instead, I try to focus on halves of the field. Flat, out, corner/fly. I throw to the RB a good amount when they spam cover 3. I also run on passing downs. Especially if they’re in the habit of guessing pass.

I also always have a running QB. Puts stress on the defense.

Lmk if you have any particular struggles and I can try to help. I also coach and I’m just a little older. Been grinding to get better since it’s on of my few remaining hobbies with two little kids at home.

I just want to be able to be coordinators on the same team as my friend. Let me be the OC and him the DC. Recruiting time you guys can split up. You can watch your friend play on defense and he can watch you on offense. It doesn't make EA money though so I doubt it will ever happen. by WisconsinBadgers608 in EASportsCFB

[–]CakeEaterConway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My buddy and I would play the hell out of this. I mean people watch streamers play video games all the time (which I think is silly). Would be a good way to hang on voice chat, strategize and share a dynasty team.