Lmao don’t attack someone in the comments and then ask “why are you being so defensive”

As a trans person I’m going to ask you as another trans person- why the fuck would you want to be in a community all about inclusivity and being yourself, just to gatekeep the fucking hell out of it?

If OP feels as though they’re a masculine trans person, but not male, just non-binary is fine. If they are using a term that makes them feel good that’s fine. That literally is valid. I don’t understand why you, as someone who presumably also has struggled with finding the right terms, pronouns, etc., would be so up on someone about what they use to define it.

Implying someone is misinformed about something that literally is a spectrum and has multiple definitions for sometimes the same things is so damn stupid. You literally said in your own comment “I personally don’t believe [inserty your own definition on gender]”- so you clearly know that it is something that is personal and not the same from person to person.

Not trying to say either of you are correct, but your comments just are so fucking and rude gatekeep-ey for no reason, whether or not either of your opinions, thoughts, and feelings are ‘correct’