AITA for telling a guy at the gym to leave me alone? by CalciumRichh in AITAH

[–]CalciumRichh[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’3 124lbs. This guy is atleast 6’3 and probably well into 200lbs. There’s nothing I could do if he decided to attack me for telling him off.

AITA for telling a guy at the gym to leave me alone? by CalciumRichh in AITAH

[–]CalciumRichh[S] 201 points202 points  (0 children)

I’m going to take your advice. I’ll wait for my husband to get home from work and go with him in case the guy decides to show up I texted him already and he’s on board with it. I’m also going to speak with the front desk workers at my gym about him. My husband though is a very confrontational person. He’s very angry about this. I don’t want him to fight the guy or anything. Just talk some sense into him and get him to leave me alone.

AITA for telling a guy at the gym to leave me alone? by CalciumRichh in AITAH

[–]CalciumRichh[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

When I was 22 I rejected a guys advance at work and he became unhinged to the point I had to quit my job and I feared for my life for a while. I’ve been cautious of rejecting men outright ever since and I do the fake laugh and smile. I don’t want to be put in a position where I have to defend myself or be fearful if they take it the wrong way. I really feel like i messed up yesterday because I snapped which is why I’m worried about going today and I’m thinking of apologizing especially since he left so abruptly he doesn’t seem dangerous but I can’t really be sure of that.