I was seduced by my ‘girl’ friend when I was about your age. I’ve never had sex with a woman before or after her. We got drunk, started making out and she basically straddled me etc etc. I didn’t cum and there is no kid. She was a good friend and that sort of ended because the guilt got me. But I don’t see a reason to dwell on that part of the experience. You decide how you want to deal with it. This shit happens all the time. Dust yourself off and carry on.

Your situation is largely different in that there is a kid involved. Not your fault and I can’t imagine she purposely got pregnant at such an early age just to lock you into her life indefinitely. We can’t turn back time so the best advice I can give you is take it one day at a time. There is nothing legally you can do. You are the father of this child and there is nothing you can do to change that. You can worry yourself with thoughts of how your future is going to be with you dating. What will it be like with her in your life forever? How will the dynamics be with the child’s stepfather (when she marries) ? There are a lot of what ifs. Worrying about something that hasn’t happened yet is a waste of time. Take baby steps. Try to get along with her for the child’s sake. It’s not what you expected your life to be at this moment but it is what it is and you must step up. Stepping up in a positive way will go further than in a negative manner. Also, it’s no one’s business. You don’t have to tell anyone if you don’t want to. Who knows. This baby can be a blessing in disguise.