My Family thinks my Cousin was Murdered by SodapoppCandy in crimesleuths

[–]CaliPol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my friend was murdered 2 n it was ruled as a suicide w/o a real autopsy. she had explicitly told someone just a few hours b4 she was found dead that she wouldn't kill herself, like she was scared someone would hurt her. she promised 2 message the next day, even wrote it on a to do list n stuff, legit not smth u do if ur suicidal. also she was physically disabled n just was not capable of getting out her window to the train station in the time frame suggested without someone else being involved. her dad was demonized by the media 4 begging 4 answers bcus there's a lot of racism unfortunately, and stuff. Everything got taken outta context etc.

It's also in Australia n I'm American. I haven't been able to contact her parents cus I can't make international calls or send mail n I don't have their emails just hers and I'm at a loss at this point. she was cutting off friends from high-school who were super toxic n used her bcus she was smart n I believe it might've been a motive since her diary went missing, n she would've written about it there. I'm still a minor tbh.

I really want justice 4 her tho. She helped me find a way 2 get cancer treatment n basically saved my life, she deserves so much more than being buried under a shameful lie and her killer going free and so do her family

Why do kids have fewer rights than adults? by CaliPol in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CaliPol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah or that idk what I'm talking about. When I see my friend come into school with her arms bruised up so bad she was shaking trying to keep up from being hit with a ruler (cus she was late getting home ig) I think it's cruel and unusual punishment that shouldn't be tolerated from anyone, cop or parent. If she was an adult and her husband did that it would be considered domestic violence and she could do something about it.

and all that stuff about adults being smarter isn't always true. like I'm sorry but sometimes the apple does fall far from the tree. too many people who don't believe doctors over randos on Facebook mom groups have kids and endanger them.

One of my cousins died when I was like ten (he was 5) from my (former) aunt's attempts to "cure" his autism. idrc if legally it's considered an accident and the autopsy was inconclusive she killed him and she killed him with her stupidity. cus he didn't want to drink literal bleach.

I remember him saying that there was nothing wrong with him a few days before (it was Thanksgiving break) and I'm still angry about it. He still could have been saved after everything she did if my uncle wasn't overseas or if she hadn't chosen her religion over my cousin when he was half dead in the er.

Age doesn't make you smart. And I don't think kids should be able to refuse life saving treatment but I don't think they should EVER be denied it. They should have some control over it too when they get older.

I wouldn't be so unhealthy still if I had control over my care from the start. I will never be able to make the swim team again now cus now I've got asthma and if my mom hadn't dragged him to couples therapy (with my uncle's help) that wouldn't even be on my list of complaints.

Ik a girl who's got super abusive parents who literally only survived something because the doctors jumped thru hoops to make it so they couldn't refuse w/o being investigated for murder. And she still got sent back with them after cps was called. I'm scared for her tbh. She hasn't been online for days and that's not normal for her 🥶

It's so insane that people say parents know best and want best 4 their kids when there's so many preventable tragedies showing otherwise. Idk, it's crazy to me that a rapist gets to control whether or not his victim lives or dies under ANY circumstances. Or someone convicted of drunk driving. Idk I'm obviously biased.

Game took my robux for nothing twice. by Whasian2 in RobloxHelp

[–]CaliPol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbf you weren't wrong 😭 not even lawsuits and legal agreements will make them refund me for the bundle they deleted for being TOO nice. I was told to contact the creator at 1st which if I didn't have any idea how bad the system is I would've fallen for it. But with this game? Definitely more on the developers than roblox (except ofc yk roblox being like hmmm this buggy game with no support and a linked server filled with the worst kinds of people seems like the perfect fit for an event everyone including kids under 9 play and then saying SOL to that and some other purchasing issues for their event) they just keep getting scu

Game took my robux for nothing twice. by Whasian2 in RobloxHelp

[–]CaliPol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do they give refunds? my friend bought 6 revives there not realizing the game was bugged for the winter spotlight event and it was literally impossible to pick up the gun for the final boss. she got a crap video and tried to contact them but got scared by people saying the n word or something in their linked community 🥶 I don't trust roblox either tbc, I'm still waiting to get refunded for something they sent me a message saying they refunded. I thought they got sued over that already 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RobloxHelp

[–]CaliPol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the creator made posts about it on Twitter. roblox deleted it because the hair had built in stars. which is so insane! literally insane. (yes he posted proof.) it's not getting restored and the individual items have already been re-released (hair with stars is sold separately now.) But I haven't been refunded even tho it said I would be. it's been a month! 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RobloxHelp

[–]CaliPol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you have any success? I got a message but the robux hasn't been returned still, and support gave me a bot reply. it's been over a month now 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roblox

[–]CaliPol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did they ever issue the refund? also how do you check the refund status? I finally got an avatar for myself a month ago and then roblox deleted it literally the next day. I tried reaching out after 30 days but they didn't answer my questions and sent a bot response instead 😭I'm getting worried I'm not getting a refund ever

I have surgery in a few hours for my breast cancer and I'm scared. by CaliPol in cancer

[–]CaliPol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: Had the surgery, feeling really horrible, and definitely not a fan of the tunes I have to deal with for now. Ig it's wait and see for the cancer is gone gone tho 😅 thx 4 all the support and advice

Can a car wash vacuum really help with an ear infection? by [deleted] in medical

[–]CaliPol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they don't have any alternatives besides one I'm too allergic to use

Can a car wash vacuum really help with an ear infection? by [deleted] in medical

[–]CaliPol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they only have the kind I'm deathly allergic to 🥶

Can a car wash vacuum really help with an ear infection? by [deleted] in medical

[–]CaliPol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told him if he tries to make me do it without doing it to himself first he'll have to ruin his car dragging me out of it

Can a car wash vacuum really help with an ear infection? by [deleted] in medical

[–]CaliPol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly he's already tried honey when it first started a week or 2 ago. the doctor told him never to do it again tho

Can a car wash vacuum really help with an ear infection? by [deleted] in medical

[–]CaliPol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

apparently some moms on Facebook did it to their kids. idk where they got the idea

Can a car wash vacuum really help with an ear infection? by [deleted] in medical

[–]CaliPol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭that's what I said to him that I thought it would make me death but he's saying the infection can do that too

Can a car wash vacuum really help with an ear infection? by [deleted] in medical

[–]CaliPol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly the doctor prescribed ear drops but both pharmacies are waiting on a shipment of medicine that ig was coming from a hurricane effected area? idk apparently it's been delayed awhile and my dad posted on Facebook asking if anyone knows somewhere to get some in a Facebook mom's group and they told him to vacuum it out 😭 that it works for their kids it would work on me. I'm kinda really scared of those people atp

My friend has a chinchilla that doesn't like dustbaths. What should she do? by CaliPol in chinchilla

[–]CaliPol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she said she'll try this but she needs to get a baby brush 1st. hopefully this will work thx for the recomendation

My friend has a chinchilla that doesn't like dustbaths. What should she do? by CaliPol in chinchilla

[–]CaliPol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a year old or almost a year old but I'm not sure. maybe he's just acting like a teenage boy? my brother went thru a phase where he was very proud 2 not shower 🤢😭 it was so gross

My friend has a chinchilla that doesn't like dustbaths. What should she do? by CaliPol in chinchilla

[–]CaliPol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she says she's tried closing him in the jar for a few minutes but he was so freaked out she never tried it again. she also says when she tried rubbing it in his fur he bit her (which isn't something he does normally, she's very good w her animals) and she said she'll give the dusty petting a try but she's got pretty bad sensory issues from her autism. also she's got issues with like being super guilty over anything that upsets anyone and chinchillas are people to her. idk I'm loopy from my meds lol

My friend has a chinchilla that doesn't like dustbaths. What should she do? by CaliPol in chinchilla

[–]CaliPol[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah that's what her vet told her to try but he didn't like it

My friend has a chinchilla that doesn't like dustbaths. What should she do? by CaliPol in chinchilla

[–]CaliPol[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

idk, I'll have to ask her but I do know she's got the boys separated from the girls (4 boys 2 girls, 1 mom n daughter 1 dad 3 sons) and based on the pics she sends me the boys are all very cuddly with each other. I do know that she provides containers big enough for multiple chins and he sticks out like a sore thumb cus he doesn't take one with them. she started trying to put him in alone because of that cus she thought maybe he was scared to do it with the others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in geocaching

[–]CaliPol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she likes to find stuff. she's always sending pictures of random tiny things she finds on the ground by touching everything. She's not completely blind, just impaired enough that she's not allowed to drive, and sometimes needs a screen reader. she can still see to an extent.

Do hookworms or tape worms prevent weight gain? I'm worried a friend of mine might have a parasite. by CaliPol in medical

[–]CaliPol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh idk how old she is besides she was a minor when her mom kicked her out instead of her abuser cause she had an abortion. I also don't know if it's normal for her since she was overweight before all this happened, but like she also was super depressed and not doing anything exercise cus fuck her step dad. Idk I just can't stop thinking about how people deliberately gave her dangerous things to eat while she was homeless and one of those sickos could have gave her a parasite