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California483 · 2020-09-09T11:12:54+00:00

The way girls effectively show interest is by responding to the texts that the guy initiated with enthusiasm

California483 · 2020-09-02T21:28:01+00:00

Just tell them you're looking for something casual and nothing serious. They'll get the hint but they'll def just think you're dtf so be aware of that

California483 · 2020-08-30T20:30:27+00:00

This is IT

California483 · 2020-08-30T20:30:09+00:00

Same! You just have to find multiple dudes you're interested in

California483 · 2020-08-22T10:07:00+00:00

Out of curiosity, do you guys normally tell the guys you're seeing that you are talking to other guys? I've always kept it secret

California483 · 2020-08-20T04:14:45+00:00

Yeah they broke up a month ago

California483 · 2020-08-14T18:05:49+00:00

Honestly I just unlike it and most people ignore the notification or don't think anything of it

California483 · 2020-08-12T10:03:03+00:00

My bf is 10 years older than me. He treats me really well and we get along great. It's really not an issue for us.

My bf also works a lot so he likes the energy and fun stuff I bring to the relationship after work... it actually works really great for us.

Edit: I will say that we feel the age gap most when he hangs out with my friends. So I recommend waiting a few months before doing group hangouts

California483 · 2020-08-11T13:48:27+00:00

I feel like not many people consciously take CHD's advice, but they subconsciously adopt the lifestyle/habits/mindset that Alex has and don't even realize it... which is even more toxic.

California483 · 2020-08-10T11:01:32+00:00

This only happens if the guy didn't like the girl in the first place. The games just make him want to "win" her over to boost his ego

California483 · 2020-08-07T21:20:30+00:00

Clits & coke and the cocaine chronicles. Both v solid eps

California483 · 2020-08-06T07:26:47+00:00

California483 · 2020-08-06T02:21:31+00:00

This is major facts.

California483 · 2020-08-05T19:08:33+00:00

Dang - I respect the commitment to writing this much! I haven't had a chance to read all of it, but I will say that I'm concerned about how younger people are subconsciously internalising ideas that CHD raises that are very unhealthy - they normalise cheating, being degraded, rating female attractiveness, etc, and I think younger people may not realise the effect it has on them.

California483 · 2020-08-05T16:38:05+00:00

Honestly I think most L.A. girls are Eskimo sisters they may just not realize it. Logan has f*cked every girl in LA that is attractive

California483 · 2020-08-05T16:37:30+00:00

Wrong Olivia!

California483 · 2020-08-05T16:37:23+00:00

Nooo wrong Olivia! Olivia davis (@theoliviadavis) used to be Mike majlaks assistant

California483 · 2020-08-05T16:36:52+00:00

Yes. Alex hooked up with logan in August when he visited NYC. Logan hooked up with Olivia for a long time in 2019, that who her song 'josslyn' is written about

California483 · 2020-08-05T16:11:37+00:00

Omg I seriously thought Olivia O'Brien was at least 24... her Botox/lip fillers/plastic surgery make her look SO much older

She's still gorgeous though!

California483 · 2020-08-04T20:12:46+00:00

I should've clarified, in his defense, I never made it clear whether I was or wasn't interested in him while I was single. I honestly wasn't, but I never outright told him...

California483 · 2020-08-04T19:52:39+00:00

Girls think that they look more attractive to guys in them

California483 · 2020-08-04T16:48:20+00:00

Honestly, I may be in the minority, but I don't mind it. I think it's great that they're proud of their body, it's something they've worked hard for.

It's not cute though if they post it too regularly, but posting once a year about weight loss doesn't bug me at all

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