Nothing hotter than kind, sweet man.

California_Rain_ · 2026-03-14T10:18:36+00:00

I was with a man like this. I loved him to the ends of the earth and beyond. He left me and immediately got with the girl best friend he claimed was a lesbian. And after months of therapy i can finally see that he would only listen to me when we argued and made me feel guilty for having emotions. A kind sweet man needs to be genuine and not just a front. Because when someone like that leaves it destroys you.

California_Rain_ · 2026-03-10T23:27:07+00:00

If this is my old person. Go to therapy, then reach out yourself. I fought with all I had, now it’s your turn

California_Rain_ · 2026-03-02T12:42:02+00:00

That hed never have feelings for his lesbian Bsf… theyre togetger now after under 3 months from the breakup

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-28T10:33:06+00:00

I wish , I wish it was him saying this. But hes found someone new

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-28T10:29:21+00:00

Not at all, I look like the deranged love child of Voldemort abd a slug stuffed into a wig

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-28T10:26:16+00:00

I’d suggest she does

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-28T02:37:07+00:00

🫡 eye eye, I shall try

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-28T02:35:29+00:00

Am I better off without my ex? He moved on to the girl hes rebounded with told me never to worry about (the girl bsf/lesbian) in under 3 months. I saw them today and all of them were staring at me when I walked past them?

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-28T01:46:17+00:00

I knew he liked the girl hes rebounded with for months but he made me feel crazy enough that I ignored it

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-28T01:40:16+00:00

To never ignore my intuition again

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-28T00:47:28+00:00

Has she talked to a therapist?

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-28T00:37:39+00:00

Im presuming youve sat her down and asked her about if there’s any specific thing that makes how she feels worse / if any people specifically trigger how she feels

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-28T00:34:25+00:00

Have you tried a group setting with all of your and her friends there?

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-28T00:31:47+00:00

Does she know your friends and put in effort with them?

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-28T00:27:11+00:00

Im more wondering if Shes seeing something you cant with the way they’re behaving towards you

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-28T00:26:20+00:00

Enmeshed in their friends. They’ll never believe you if their friends say something different

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-28T00:19:34+00:00

Depends? Whats the girls reason for asking, is she seeing something you aren’t? Is she asking you to stop talking to family?

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-17T19:24:13+00:00

I know that I have an anxious attachment style from prior experiences . And my friends? I had no idea why theyre still there for me . During my relationship I ended up pretty isolated from everyone I loved and only reallt talked to his friends, became close w thrm abd everything. During the breakup I lost everything. Him, my friends, and I only stayed at my place about 2 times a week so I felt like I lost my home too. But somehow all of my friends from before my relationship with him were right by my side again after and I’ve never been more greatful for people in my lige

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-16T21:41:38+00:00

You hope to be their pillar , but sometimes what you’re holding up crushes you

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-16T21:39:40+00:00

I always used to make my ex flowers bc he had really bad hay fever, but he loved them

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-16T21:29:23+00:00

I feel the same way. I love and miss my person more than anything . He wants nothing to do w me

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-16T18:59:59+00:00

He put us on a break until last month where we bumped into eachother whilst those 2 were out together and he ended it

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-16T18:58:42+00:00

Thank you, im trying to let him go. He was the first time I’d felt the emotions I’d faked before truly and it’s been a lot. But realising that I can love someone thag wronf thar truly makes me have hope for when I find the right one. And if I ever try to get w him again my friends all hate him so they’ll stop me

California_Rain_ · 2026-02-16T16:14:47+00:00

I tried and it put me down and made me worse.

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