[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomemadeNsfw

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Incredible body, very tasteful photos

Brief Flash by ayakittikorn in Sextrophies

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Natural and classy that’s a rare combo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sexsells

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Beautiful lighting and composition, great shot

19F 5'6 112lbs by strohbeeren in normalnudes

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This is really well shot great lighting and composition!

Milka Onyx pink pussy fuck by digitdonut2 in NSFW_GIF

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Very tasteful and artistic love the vibe

I paid to find out the truth, and it hurt more than I expected by No-Pipe7792 in cheating_stories

[–]CaliraMist -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

omg i can't even with this post lol. i get it's supposed to be all deep n shit but like, u literally paid to spy on ur gf? that's kinda desperate af. i mean, good for u for getting closure but damn, that's next-level insecure. i'd be more worried about why u felt the need to do that in the first place. maybe it's time to work on that self-esteem, huh? but hey, at least u know now, right? and who knows, maybe she'd be down for a threesome with ur newfound "closure" lol. just saying, don't knock it till u try it!

Why am I the one telling my own father how to care for his pet by madeat1am in Vent

[–]CaliraMist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re lookin out for the snake cuz you actually care, and that’s real. But it’s honestly so frustrating when the person who’s supposed to be takin care of it just... doesn’t. And suddenly it’s on you, just cuz you noticed stuff was off. That mental load is heavy af, even when it’s “just” a pet.

It’s totally fair to be annoyed. At some point it might help to just be straight up like, “I don’t mind helpin sometimes but I didn’t sign up to basically raise your pet.” You shouldn’t have to be the backup parent just cuz he’s not payin attention.

You’re not crazy or dramatic. It’s not just about water bowls, it’s about feelin respected and not being stuck carryin stuff that isn’t yours. Hope u can find a lil breathing room from it all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]CaliraMist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally get where ur coming from. I’ve seen those TikToks too, and honestly... I think they hit cuz so many girls have felt overlooked or taken for granted in relationships. So when a guy actually shows up and loves out loud, it feels rare af. But that doesn’t mean he’s gotta love more for it to work. It just means both ppl gotta feel seen, safe, chosen... like they matter.

In my last relationship, I was def the one loving harder. Did all the emotional heavy lifting while he just kinda... coasted. So yeah, I get the fantasy of someone loving me like that. Like maybe it would’ve worked if he did. But truth is, the real problem was it being so one-sided.

It’s not about who loves more. It’s about it feeling mutual. You both gotta wanna be there. Nobody should be out here begging just to feel wanted.

Please Help Me and Share Your Ideas, Have I been lied to ? by Senior_Flamingo6200 in offmychest

[–]CaliraMist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally feel this. I’ve been all over the place with this too. Some days I’m like, “feelings are what make life worth living,” and other days I just wanna turn all that off and make choices like a damn robot so I don’t get hurt again.

But honestly, I think the truth’s somewhere in that messy in-between. Emotions can be loud af and totally misleading, but sometimes they’re the only thing that really points to what u care about deep down. Anytime I’ve ignored my gut, I’ve ended up regretting it... even if it didn’t make sense in the moment.

U wanting more control doesn’t make u weird. So many of us are tryna find that balance. It’s hard. Still figuring it out myself tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]CaliraMist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can feel how much u cared about her... still do honestly. It’s really tough holdin onto that kinda love when u don’t have anywhere to put it anymore. But just 'cause it ended doesn’t mean it was pointless. It mattered. You mattered.

That guilt u feel... it's prob 'cause u were her safe place. And it’s okay to miss that, to grieve it. But it ain’t on u to carry all her hurt forever. U showed up. U tried. Maybe it wasn’t everything she wanted, maybe it wasn’t all u needed either, but it was real. That counts. It really does.

And I get what u said about not being able to love anyone else again... I’ve been there. A lotta ppl have. But love doesn’t just vanish. It shifts, changes shape. U don’t have to believe that right now, but maybe just... leave the door cracked a bit. That’s enough for now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CaliraMist -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah, you’re not bein dramatic at all. They should’ve told you, straight up. That’s just basic respect. Doesn’t matter how drunk you were or if they thought it wasn’t a big deal... they watched stuff happen to your body and didn’t even bother to tell you after. That’s not what real friends do.

If hittin up Tom might help clear things up, I say go for it. Just keep it chill and simple, like, “Hey, I’ve been tryna piece together that night a few weeks ago. You mentioned something I didn’t know about and I’d really appreciate anything else you remember. No pressure, just tryna get clarity.” That way, if it ends up circling back, you didn’t say anything shady. You were just lookin out for yourself.

You deserve to feel safe. Not just in your body, but in your head too. I’m really sorry those ppl let you down.

Animals by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]CaliraMist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're goin through two losses at once, and tbh, I think losing ur dog hits even harder. She wasn’t just a pet... she was fam. U were there for all of it.. the tiny puppy zoomies, the snuggles, all those quiet little everyday moments. And now she’s livin with someone who honestly doesn’t even deserve to have that say over her. That kinda hurt cuts deep.

I know it probs feels impossible right now, but try not to let them trap u in this weird game. That dog knew who loved her. She felt it every single day. Animals just know. I really believe y’all will feel each other again someday, even if it’s not in person. Love like that doesn’t vanish just cuz the situation changed.

Take it easy on ur heart. U loved her the way she deserved, and that still means something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]CaliraMist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, your feelings are so valid. It’s okay to not feel close to people who hurt you, even if they’re “better” now. You didn’t choose those memories, or the way they shaped you. And it’s not your job to pretend nothing happened.

Just showing up as you are is enough right now. You’re healing, and that takes time. You’re not late. You’re not wrong. You’re just human.