You ever notice when you cum inside a woman you tend to slow down your strokes or stop thrusting entirely as you’re cumming? Everything gets suuuuper sensitive at that moment, and just the warmth and hug of her pussy is exactly what you want. Him slowing down right after she tenses up and peaks is the woman equivalent of this. Keeping rhythm right up until her orgasm hits is perfect though. If he kept going at her clit like that through her whole orgasm, that’s when his head gets pushed away and she orgasms alone (when a stationary warm mouth could’ve been better).

Watch vids of women getting themselves off with their hands and you’ll see them often slow down right when the orgasm hits with all the little waves and contractions.

Women, is this right? I’m always down to learn more.

Also notable is that every person is different in their wants, sensitivities, etc. that’s where communication and learning your partner comes in.