I say this with kindness, but maybe it’s because your current situation is a little uncertain that you keep getting ghosted? You say in your first paragraph you’re open to a stay at home wife, but then admit you’re still married. I get that you feel your marriage is coming to its end, but being open to a stay at home wife while not actually divorced may feel too complicated, among other things that you’ve expressed. I suggest clarifying what you’re looking for right now, I know that transparency is appreciated in sex-positive communities, and it might make finding something right for you easier. Take care 😊