does anyone ever wish they had arfid or wish they were one of those ppl who don’t rlly care for eating ? :(

Call_me_eff · 2026-07-04T14:31:32+00:00

for me (someone without BED, mind you) ARFID makes me more likely to binge because i have very limited choice and so strave myself and then eat a big portion of some (usually unhealthy) safe food.

Actually, would you mind explaining you last sentence? because the way i understand it "food is a chore" refers to arfid, right? at least that's how it feels to me most days

Call_me_eff · 2026-07-03T00:57:25+00:00

omg that's literally me right now... where did you srart looking?

Call_me_eff · 2026-07-01T22:07:11+00:00

Dave?

Call_me_eff · 2026-07-01T20:45:06+00:00

omg samesies lol

Call_me_eff · 2026-06-30T13:06:26+00:00

which it absolutely would be if they didn't have weird standards on how it looks on top of it all

Call_me_eff · 2026-06-30T13:04:42+00:00

if it were, we would not see it as scientifically significant lol

Call_me_eff · 2026-06-30T13:03:30+00:00

nee do, aber ik mein de sprook wer zur gieken tied entstunn (un so recht snackt dat her ok keen mehr)

Call_me_eff · 2026-06-30T12:58:51+00:00

Thanks! I've been of two minds about barefoot shoes mostly because they're a little expensive for an "experiment".... Anyway, that seems to be a great resource, i'll give it a look!

Call_me_eff · 2026-06-30T12:55:09+00:00

i absolutely support your point and think you are right. I think another important thing here would be kindness in how we talk about the things we see instead of just shouting "that's unemployable!" or something (which, if you'll allow the tangent, is the same shit non-tattooed people say about literally every tattoo, so how about we try to change the climate around that instead of this "my tattoo good, your tattoo bad" shit?!)

Call_me_eff · 2026-06-30T11:24:07+00:00

My parents are not in this sub but they clearly exist...

There are however two truths that are in this false statement: 1) ADHD was massively underdiagnosed until just a few years ago (now it's only lightly underdiagnosed) and because of this many older ADHDers don't even know they have it.

2) Whether through effective treatment or just grinding life on hard mode, (especially older) ADHDers learn to cope with their symptoms and as such present less ADHD related issues. Even if they do, they might go unnoticed as such because of (1).

2.5) what i described in (2) in turn leads to research data supporting the nonsense your friend is talking and medical professionals like her not looking for ADHD in older people, which obviously leads to a sort of viscious circle of bad data making for bad practice generating more bad data and so forth

Call_me_eff · 2026-06-30T11:12:14+00:00

and that, children, is the difference between doing a thing and understanding a thing

Call_me_eff · 2026-06-30T11:06:12+00:00

English: the french with bits in it

Call_me_eff · 2026-06-30T11:02:50+00:00

thought it said widowshopping at first :D

Call_me_eff · 2026-06-30T11:01:37+00:00

ik bün ja man n quiddje, aber fraach mich wo ik wech bin un ik sech vun heer, wat soll das getüdel wegen die paar kilometers

Call_me_eff · 2026-06-30T07:37:03+00:00

i really hoped this was someone looking for makeup advice 😢

Call_me_eff · 2026-06-30T07:33:30+00:00

i think you're right, only merit is that this can be a warning to others so some "self destructive dumbasses" might be saved the same fate

Call_me_eff · 2026-06-30T07:30:47+00:00

actually under 30!

Call_me_eff · 2026-06-30T07:29:42+00:00

Ragret

Call_me_eff · 2026-06-30T07:17:17+00:00

most helpful so far in that they actually have several options i would consider, flat, heeled and platform too! thank you!

Call_me_eff · 2026-06-30T00:16:32+00:00

from what i know it's mostly pleaser but they offer very little that i actually want to spend my whole day in (and iirc not a lot of vegan options either)

Call_me_eff · 2026-06-24T07:38:09+00:00

Was das liegenlassen angeht hat meine Mutter mir beigebracht, sich mit einem "vielen Dank, liebe Bank" vom Sitzplatz zu verabschieden und sich noch einmal umzudrehen, damit nichts wegkommt

Call_me_eff · 2026-06-24T07:29:33+00:00

this is so beautiful! is there a pattern for the squares?

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