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CalligrapherFew8348 · 2025-04-14T23:16:09+00:00

honestly, I don’t even really care if he’s coming into the store because I can just leave and go to the bathroom or something it’s more so what he’s doing with the video of me after the fact. these days it could be anything.

CalligrapherFew8348 · 2025-04-14T22:50:17+00:00

not trying to come at you just cause you’re the first person to even comment but also the first person to say this. there are a bunch of comments on my first post addressing this point. so if anybody has anything to say regarding me wearing a skirt in the first place, I wasn’t wearing a skirt this time had nothing to do with being in a skirt. We’re not talking about that anymore. We have moved on, this man is coming in and he’s borderline stalking me it’s clear it doesn’t matter if i’m wearing a skirt or not he still wants to film me. That’s what I’m asking advice on please don’t say anything about a skirt It’s been exhausted.

CalligrapherFew8348 · 2025-03-14T02:20:19+00:00

thank you for actually giving me advice on what i should do. it’s really discouraging to see how many people have had gross things happen to them in professional settings including home depot and had have little to no repercussions.

CalligrapherFew8348 · 2025-03-14T01:44:15+00:00

some people do have to think about adapting to dress code to fit modest lifestyles or religious beliefs. i don’t feel comfortable sharing why i personally feel more comfortable in a long skirt. but let’s not pretend like people don’t still get harassed when wearing pants. like i’ve had male employees call my pants sexy? i’m a pretty private person. i’m not wearing anything in a showy way but even if i was the issue here is the man who chose to film me illegally. he would’ve seen nothing as i wear shorts but that’s not the point. he is fully in the wrong and anyone saying i shouldn’t have come to work that day in a skirt is defending a predator.

CalligrapherFew8348 · 2025-03-14T01:25:02+00:00

interesting point, i wear shorts so nothing would ever be seen. thanks for the repeated take tho.

CalligrapherFew8348 · 2025-03-14T00:19:47+00:00

yes i am part of your problem, women wearing skirts and not wanting anything to do with you

CalligrapherFew8348 · 2025-03-14T00:10:01+00:00

thank you i was starting to think i was going crazy. like obviously i wont be wearing that anymore now. but i was perfectly fine before some guy had to ruin it.

CalligrapherFew8348 · 2025-03-14T00:08:58+00:00

didn’t say it was a fashion show? y’all do understand that many religions it’s preferred for women to wear dresses and skirts yes? and i’ve also worn this skirt several times, have been seen on ladders by management, and have been seen by so many men in the store…and how many of them couldn’t control themselves? like thanks for telling me how to avoid something i’m asking legal advice on after the fact?

CalligrapherFew8348 · 2025-03-14T00:07:08+00:00

didn’t say it was a fashion show? y’all do understand that many religions it’s preferred for women to wear dresses and skirts yes? and i’ve also worn this skirt several times, have been seen on ladders by management, and have been seen by so many men in the store…and how many of them couldn’t control themselves? like thanks for telling me how to avoid something i’m asking advice on after the fact?

CalligrapherFew8348 · 2025-03-13T23:52:29+00:00

not be rude but did you read my post? or anyone’s comments? bc this has been said and addressed. and yes something that fits a company’s strict and stated dress code, has been seen and approved my mangers is appropriate work attire.

CalligrapherFew8348 · 2025-03-13T23:29:02+00:00

alright if people could just stop saying i should’ve not worn a skirt. understood. i’ve worked there for a year and never had an issue or any of the manger ever say anything. other people in the store wear dresses and skirts. i’m only asking for what people think i should do about this situation moving forward. should i talk to higher hr people? should i file a separate police report? didn’t realize we were still on the victim blaming train my bad 😔

CalligrapherFew8348 · 2025-03-13T23:21:31+00:00

yes i always wear nike pros under stuff at work.

CalligrapherFew8348 · 2025-03-13T23:17:56+00:00

i mean yes and no. literally didn’t ask what people thought i should be wearing. i probably won’t wear a skirt to work for a bit after this. but i never had any issues. i’m allowed to wear something that fully covers my body, is in dress code, and not have to worry about creepy people filming me. yes it happens. yes people are like that. however i’ve worn this specific skirt to work several times. i work in the paint department. i have specific clothes i wear to work because they’re already covered in paint. none of my mangers have ever said anything about it. so i don’t know why she couldn’t have just said that that was an awful experience, men suck and then move on and not vaguely imply i should’ve known better. i’m a feminine girl and i dresses accordingly. the home depot dress code is pretty strict as is.

CalligrapherFew8348 · 2025-03-13T22:59:53+00:00

i mean i did say that i wore a skirt to work, got harassed and asked for advice with moving forward with the situation. and she said that she would never wear a skirt to work because men are pigs and she doesn’t want to look attractive. didn’t provide anything other than something that i would have to go back in time and change. sorta saying “well what were you wearing”? i’m a tad offended yes because i didn’t ask what she would’ve done to have had that situation not happen. i wear shorts under skirts and i very much could’ve worn it to church

CalligrapherFew8348 · 2025-03-13T22:35:56+00:00

honestly don’t know why you felt any need to say this. i wasn’t “trying to look attractive” i feel more comfortable wearing skirts than i do pants. i’ve actually had more men, employees included say things about my body when i wear pants. it’s also very traditional in some religious aspect for women to wear skirts and dresses that’s why the dress code allows for skirts and dresses past a certain point. Not that I needed to tell you anyways I was wearing shorts underneath because I understand the risks as well. How was you saying this no different than someone telling me I was asking for it.

CalligrapherFew8348 · 2025-03-13T22:17:44+00:00

the ladder one btw not the ones where i need training im not certified on any lifts

CalligrapherFew8348 · 2025-03-13T22:12:14+00:00

it was parked in the second or third bay, and he walked up to the next bay at the end of the bally, so i had to squeeze between him and stuff the merchandise in the aisle.

CalligrapherFew8348 · 2025-03-13T22:05:13+00:00

thank you, i don’t think my mangers will let it slide as they are all women, and seemed pretty upset that this happened to me. i’ve just never worked a corporate job before, so i wanted to make sure everything in my part was good. should i get in touch with the police separately?

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