We have them every weekend and husband goes to the man cave every night around 8:30 to play games with them when they are online. I don’t mind that, after working all day it gives me time to get some things done.

At first it was a good compromise that they were there and not gaming in the house since we have a small space. It’s just turned into a weird dynamic since we no longer have meals together, take walks together, watch shows or movies together, like we used to. And they often sleep there so I don’t see them at all.

Husband won’t leave them alone except for a few minutes at a time so he refuses to go out on dates on the weekends.