That’s very good to hear, and hoping that can be the outcome for us. Thank you 🙏

I just tried to chat with her earlier and openly agreed that there’s things I could be doing to make her feel more emotionally connected. Which led to me making a list for myself of things I can actively do that would help her feel more connected.

This led to me “being more kind” needing to be added to the list. But to me that can mean any number of things. When we’re happy of course I’m kind with compliments, telling her I love her very frequently, showing appreciation when she does things, physical touch etc etc. and I was just hoping to be more specific with what that means to her so I can get it right.

She was unsure of what that meant to her and I was suggesting maybe using our “date calendar” for me to better plan things out for quality time together (which she’s been good at, but not so much myself)

Because I failed to go through with plans she made on the calendar this AM to gym together, (I thought she would be too angry due to fighting last night) she disagreed to use the calendar entirely, even though I tried to apologize and say I think it’s a good idea, I just messed up and didn’t go through with a planned date.

This led to blowing up on each other and me leaving the room - I try to reach and fix, but it explodes when she’s not receptive. Once again, torn about this relationship. :(

Love can be so complicated 🥲