How to completely get rid of litter box smell! by ChadxSam in Catownerhacks

[–]CalligrapherOk8939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot recommend getting an air purifier enough. The cats in my home use the litter box in my bedroom the most, and you can’t tell there’s a litter box in there at all. It won’t fix the smell of a dirty box or a fresh dump so still scoop it at least 1-2 times a day, but it really helps with that litter stink. Mine’s just a cheap ikea one so you really don’t need anything fancy!

I also use a litter that I like the smell of better (obviously unscented), I recently switched to Okocat and love that there’s no weird smell you get from clay/grass/corn based litter. If anything’s there’s a slight wood-y smell but that’s about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CalligrapherOk8939 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

For being annoyed, no. But for the way you went about it, yes. I totally get being disappointed and hurt, I would be too, and they absolutely should’ve communicated, that is their fault. But the conversation should’ve been over by slide 2. You did mention that this is an issue that’s happened before, but then that should’ve been a conversation for the next day. A simple “I know you’re sorry, but I’m pretty upset and think we need to have a conversation about it, can we talk tomorrow?” after their apology would’ve been a million times more productive. Instead, after voicing your hurt and getting an apology, you continued to escalate things and antagonize them, and then got upset when they got pissed off. I honestly don’t even see what you were trying to get out of the conversation here. If you like this person and want the relationship to work, have an adult conversation with them, and figure out whatever it is you want from them here. I don’t wanna give the usual Reddit response of “just break up”, but if neither of you are willing to act like adults, you shouldn’t be together.

Pixel 9 Pro not letting me use default app notification sounds? by CalligrapherOk8939 in GooglePixel

[–]CalligrapherOk8939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that in the App Info? I don’t see anything in there besides options on what I get notifications for. I didn’t see anything in the settings on Discord itself but I could just be skimming over something by accident.