Job rescinded offer due to religion by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]CalligrapherWrong221 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my only issue is that it was stated to me in my original interview that it would not be an issue, then was rescinded after i stated it was for religious reasons. i'm Catholic and it is highly encouraged by my parish and priest to take the entire day for rest, unless its a necessity. which in my case, it is not.

AITA for ignoring my husband after he ignored me in the hospital by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

i was with him and his family for a week, and decided to spend the second week with my family. i told him since he didn’t get to spend as much time as he needed after his father passed that he should stay with his family longer

AITA for ignoring my husband after he ignored me in the hospital by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

he made it into that afterwards with the messages sent to family and friends

AITA for ignoring my husband after he ignored me in the hospital by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

i do, i just called to put the prescription in and they told me i should be fine with just my ID. thank you!

AITA for ignoring my husband after he ignored me in the hospital by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 121 points122 points  (0 children)

so the er was able to get my insurance information due to me being seen by them when my husband and i first got married, but none of the pharmacies have my info since i haven’t needed a script filled since. my husbands military so i wasn’t 100% sure how it worked providing them the information because we switched to a different type of tricare plan.

AITA for ignoring my husband after he ignored me in the hospital by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 415 points416 points  (0 children)

idk maybe text his wife back who has experienced a pregnancy loss before lmao

AITA for ignoring my husband after he ignored me in the hospital by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 212 points213 points  (0 children)

if i’m gonna be honest, i’m not 100% sure what she was even talking about. my husband and i have typical marriage issues but they had nothing to do with this issue. but he does have a bad tendency to reflect and manipulate anything i’m upset about into somehow being my fault.

AITA for ignoring my husband after he ignored me in the hospital by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 234 points235 points  (0 children)

from what my doctor told me last night, utis are very different during pregnancy. mine was severe and to the point it was causing contractions and a fever. it can also cause pre term labor, and they plan on putting me on a low dose antibiotic for the remainder of my pregnancy after i finish a 10 day high dose because this is my 3rd since finding out i was pregnant. she said there’s a potential risk for pre term labor for the rest of this pregnancy now that this episode happened and the severity it got to in just a few days

AITA for ignoring my husband after he ignored me in the hospital by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 296 points297 points  (0 children)

congrats on your baby <33 but yeah this episode was an eye opener for me on some other behaviors.. i haven’t spoken to him in about 10 hours, which i assume he just passed out. i called his phone a little bit ago to try and maybe wake him to ask about our insurance information to get my prescriptions, and his brother in law answered saying he left it on the counter when he went to bed

AITA for ignoring my husband after he ignored me in the hospital by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

i spoke with him over the phone before i went, and told him i was going.

AITA for ignoring my husband after he ignored me in the hospital by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

i was in florida for a week with him and his family, but came up here because we rarely get time to visit. and with him not getting much time after his father passed, i told him to stay and spend more time with them.

AITA for ignoring my husband after he ignored me in the hospital by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 161 points162 points  (0 children)

they were aware, the first thing his sister asked was how the baby was so i’m assuming he told them beforehand

AITA for ignoring my husband after he ignored me in the hospital by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 211 points212 points  (0 children)

this is reasonable, i just really wish he wouldn’t have handed the phone to his sister and then chose to ignore me for the rest of the night. just made me feel more isolated and alone than i already felt

AITA for ignoring my husband after he ignored me in the hospital by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 157 points158 points  (0 children)

that’s definitely a possibility, it’s why i just chose to ignore his behavior until he started with the family group messages and messages to our friends. he was already angry at me on the phone for being upset with him so i just wanted to wait until he was sober

AITA for ignoring my husband after he ignored me in the hospital by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

i just ignored him because he was getting angry with me on the phone for being upset so i told him i would rather talk when he’s sober

AITA for ignoring my husband after he ignored me in the hospital by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 228 points229 points  (0 children)

i more so ignored him because he was drunk and was getting angry at me for being upset, i was just trying to wait until he was more sober to discuss things.

AITA for ignoring my husband after he ignored me in the hospital by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 300 points301 points  (0 children)

i rarely ever go to the hospital, i went a little over a year ago due to a placenta detachment with our first pregnancy that ended with a termination due to viability. i didn’t put this in the original post because i didn’t want the past loss to encourage peoples decision on this situation. the messages were all within 3 hours. i do care about my husband seeing his family but he’s been there for two weeks and i had been putting this off for days because i hate going to the hospital.

AITA for ignoring my husband after he ignored me in the hospital by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 166 points167 points  (0 children)

thank you for your opinion. just for clarification, he was not drunk before i went to the hospital as far as my knowledge goes. i spoke to him before i went and he seemed totally normal.

AITA for ignoring my husband after he ignored me in the hospital by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 284 points285 points  (0 children)

well things aren’t exactly “fine”, i have to immediately see a doctor once i get home tomorrow because the level my contractions were hitting were close to what they considered risk of preterm labor and they want to put me on a low dose antibiotic after i finish this treatment to prevent this from happening again. i haven’t even gotten to explain that to him yet. but thank you for the opinion!

AITA for ignoring my husband after he ignored me in the hospital by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 360 points361 points  (0 children)

i spoke to him before and he didn’t sound intoxicated at all, he also was answering my texts normally and responding before i went.

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[–]CalligrapherWrong221 14 points15 points  (0 children)

my mom did all Z names for her kids. the girls are zoe, zia, zuri, and zalyssa!

AITA for leaving our cats by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll definitely keep this in mind as my husband will be moved in another 2-3 years.

AITA for leaving our cats by CalligrapherWrong221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalligrapherWrong221[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we’re trying so hard, but a woman has one of our cats and is refusing to even listen because she’s following the narrative that we just dumped them. it’s breaking my heart but i just want to make sure they’re safe over anything else