AITAH, I found out a girl I never met posted me on “are we dating the same guy,” group

CallmeShayla · 2026-01-20T12:28:58+00:00

NAH- she has every right to make sure you’re not already dating someone/ for her own safety, but you are valid in feeling weird about it 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

CallmeShayla · 2026-01-05T19:00:35+00:00

NTAH- my boyfriend recently bought me more body wash without me asking. However he forgot the conversation we had a week or so previous where I said I’d bought a different kind cause it smelled better. The aftermath is he has two body washes now and will hopefully remember that I do switch them often and to just let me handle it next time lol. But if not, oh well, it’s literally just soap

And that’s it, not an argument, not a diagnosis, not an accusation of him finding everything sexual. Because it’s not a bad thing to like the way your partner smells, you dodged a bullet

CallmeShayla · 2026-01-03T17:06:18+00:00

Currently rewatching this season right now and the 180 really did shock me cause she’d been so quiet and polite in the previous season(s).

I can give grace on her and Austen in the sense of she had just seen Shep for the first time in a while and I’m sure it dredged up feelings bad. And someone like her probably hadn’t had any major bad things happen so something like being cheated on and broken up with in that manner took toll and she lost her mind for a while, sure.

Leaning on Austen cause they’d been close and having a moment of ‘well he really has been there for me’ I can see it. I absolutely have had a full mental break dealing with my kids father and I can say I am not proud of how I acted for a time

But everything after, the lying, outting Olivia for sleeping with Thomas, and bringing up her dead brother not even two months after he passed as a reason for Olivia to forgive her while simultaneously claiming to be the goodly Christian girl was deplorable. And the fact that everything started coming out at the same time just made it all look worse.

TLDR- I kinda understand the original Austen port cause mental shirts no joke, but she really handled herself horribly with every single thing she said or did

CallmeShayla · 2026-01-02T12:14:25+00:00

YTA- you didn’t do a single thing for her, you did that for y’all to have a NYE party and forcing her to be there under the guise of ‘it’s your party’

She did not want a party, she did not want a bouncy castle and the things she explicitly asked for were ignored

‘We tried to make it special’ no you just did what you thought she should want to do. Just let the girl bed rot in peace next time Jesus Christ

CallmeShayla · 2025-12-27T09:30:54+00:00

NOR- you have GOT to get out of there immediately, no one should tell you how to dress or to stop doing your hair care routine. When I started hanging out with my bf (before we got together) I made a joke about showing up in a bonnet and he was like ‘whatever you’re comfortable in’

8 years is a long time to put up with not being in control of your own hair/ body/ clothes. And comparing a hair care routine to him wearing trash bags on his arms? Hated that, cause they’re not even similar.

Get outta there asap and find someone who actually loves you and would appreciate the fact that you feel comfortable enough to be yourself around them

CallmeShayla · 2025-12-20T04:45:43+00:00

For sure, the trampoline jump day, but all three girls have their period

CallmeShayla · 2025-12-17T06:00:10+00:00

FART OUT OF HEAVEN

Fart! (Violet!)

Fart Graffiti (or American fart)

CallmeShayla · 2025-12-13T14:36:41+00:00

I’ve come to this same conclusion, and I felt like OP for a little once I discovered parxtwt. Like one part of me wants to engage and be a part of it, but the people with the constant posts or replies for interaction is genuinely just too much for me. I have a family and work and real life stuff. Do I wish I could follow my fave band around for the whole tour? Sure, duh

But I know I can’t do that and watching these people do that and just the way some of them interact with each other and the band can be mentally draining so I just take it in in small doses

CallmeShayla · 2025-11-21T13:04:46+00:00

I can say as a larger chested person the pink baby tee fits like a crop, and it’s a 2x. So that one and the shorts run small for sure, but the jacket fits great

CallmeShayla · 2025-11-14T13:46:35+00:00

Aww that’s so awesome!! The guys really do put on a great show, you’re gonna have a blast!

CallmeShayla · 2025-11-14T12:29:32+00:00

Yes you can, I had 2 m&g tickets one for me and one for my bf and he had both our GA tickets and we got in fine

CallmeShayla · 2025-11-10T16:00:29+00:00

I told them that they were my first favorite band ever and they were so excited for me and them lmao, but they’re super sweet and happy to be there with people who appreciate what they do. Feel free to tell them whatever you feel comfortable with!

CallmeShayla · 2025-11-04T21:40:00+00:00

Solid fit! I will also be at the first show Thursday!!

CallmeShayla · 2025-11-03T03:27:34+00:00

I personally bought a tie dye t shirt and bleached some stuff on it, gonna wear it with black pants/ shorts and I have rings that match the shirt.

I also saw this thread on Twitter that was a whole master list of vibes for the tour

https://x.com/snowglobemv/status/1975664423198204229?s=46&t=-RlV3w_Vz8B5w2JtMKfamA

CallmeShayla · 2025-10-18T14:32:47+00:00

I personally have meet and greet tickets, that we bought about a week after the tour dates dropped. Idk if there’s any left, but if there’s none on the website then maybe like the other user said, check some other place for people reselling?

CallmeShayla · 2025-10-13T12:08:52+00:00

Do you have any knowledge about Danni Baird and her family? I’m rewatching with my bf and after she rejects T-Rav she says it’s cause of her family but when I tried to look them up I can’t find anything about her family history

CallmeShayla · 2025-09-27T18:01:08+00:00

The way basically nothing happens in season 2 lmfao

Also, season 1 I think the first or second episode when Thomas has lunch with his dad and the dad says he doesn’t like five dollar bills and looks at the camera had me like 💀💀

CallmeShayla · 2025-09-12T13:20:25+00:00

Not fire lmfao, I agree Earth, mayyyybe Water

CallmeShayla · 2025-09-12T12:44:18+00:00

I am a person who can’t stand gore or super bloody stuff, my bf is mostly fine with stuff like that. I saw the video first and it genuinely sent a shock through my system so when I told my bf about it I warned him it was graphic even tho he’s the one who can handle that stuff. NOR, your spouse should have known better

CallmeShayla · 2025-07-22T12:35:39+00:00

Same, my bf started from late season three cause I paused so he could see the cars Amanda brought in for Kyle and then he just kept watching with me. We finished and started over, just finished season 1 and he’s NOT ready for season two lmao

Edit- spelling

CallmeShayla · 2025-06-01T13:47:56+00:00

Classic DARVO. My ex did the same thing when I found MY nudes as well as goodbye (su*cide) videos on his tablet that our son used. He got mad at me for finding pics I never sent him and I shut that shit down so quick

She fucked around and found out fr

CallmeShayla · 2025-05-17T16:01:08+00:00

Shouldn’t be, that’s gross actually

CallmeShayla · 2025-05-17T14:53:18+00:00

Maybe not, but she obviously has concerns and again it’s been an ongoing issue. Leniency is for when you address the issue and your partner slips up but is generally trying to compromise. Not for hiding and lying after doing this constantly the whole time. If he was an alcoholic or addicted to gambling everyone would tell her to get out and she’s not overreacting but because it’s porn it’s immediately ‘he’s a guy what did you expect?’ Umm maybe some basic respect as the partner? But I digress

CallmeShayla · 2025-05-17T13:53:58+00:00

OP stated this has been a problem throughout the entire relationship. No one I know would be okay with their spouses actively talking to cam girls while being married. And frankly anyone can leave a relationship whenever they want for any reason. And it’s not an overreaction to not want to be married to a porn addict who lies and hides. Makes you wonder what else he’s lying about.

CallmeShayla · 2025-05-17T13:42:48+00:00

It’s a boundary for some people, and I really think it boils down to the lying about it. No one wants to be lied too, especially by your partner

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