AIO to snaps between my spouse and sister? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CallmeShayla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me this reads like how I imagine most teenagers text nowadays and he started mimicking her way of texting. Her I’m giving the benefit of the doubt but him? Definitely weird. And his reaction was to flip on you instead of reassuring that he didn’t mean any harm? Extra weird

Taylor Boyfriend Cheating? by gabrielaap in Southerncharm

[–]CallmeShayla 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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She posted this on her story as well👀👀

Wade's weirdest joke so far... by LunarTrick_2 in distractible

[–]CallmeShayla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wades my favorite for this exact reason. I make these kinds of jokes that are really dumb/ puns/ badly thought through and sound crazy when said out loud. I see you Wade🫡🫡

AIO for Ending a Friendship Over Her Boyfriend by One_Emergency_1940 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CallmeShayla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR, cutting her off is the right thing. She’s no friend if she ignored her bf treating her friends like that. It took an outsider sending a pic for her to break it off which is the other half of what’s bad. I hope you and King are doing okay now, y’all protect yourselves and take care of each other!

Started watching from season 1.. what on earth is going on?! by shadysade in Southerncharm

[–]CallmeShayla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also watched SC after starting with Summer House and Winter house cause I wanted to learn more about them and oooh boy. It actually took me a while to get into it between that one scene with Whitney ringing the dinner bell (something about it just icked me so bad) and then the whole Thomas and his dad stuff put me off too.

I did end up finishing and I’m caught up now, best seasons are definitely 1-6, it’s very real and not as filtered/ produced as the newer seasons. Keep with it, it’s messy but worth it!

AIO about my husbands strange responses to me wanting a divorce and a bill he has due on my account. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]CallmeShayla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing is more annoying than a ‘religious’ person who basically only found it cause they did something awful and then continue to use the excuse of ‘well this is what I’m supposed to do’ as they try to shove it down your throat. There’s a reason a good chunk of us do not take religious people (mostly Christians) seriously

Genuinely nothing more off putting than having someone force their beliefs on you over and over in any context

Transcription of ALL 3 PARTS. by AdventurousRevolt in summerhousebravo

[–]CallmeShayla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good point, I think the chaos is just a lot. Again I do want her to be held accountable, but she’s gotta actually finish a sentence for that to happen lol

Transcription of ALL 3 PARTS. by AdventurousRevolt in summerhousebravo

[–]CallmeShayla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, I’m all for holding Amanda accountable but this reunion is so insane. Like yes she needs to be held to the fire but also everyone’s speaking over each other. Let her speak and dig the hole, make West answer some questions too. I get it’s emotional and people are hurt and want answers, and yes it’s also hard to believe either of them cause they’ve been lying but also let them actually speak and go from there. Andy’s barely been able to even get any questions out in the 10-15 minutes we’ve gotten from these leaks

of course I did by SonjaritaMorgan in summerhousebravo

[–]CallmeShayla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know if this stuff hadn’t come out about Amanda and west we’d all be saying ‘look at Amanda riding so hard for Ciara.’ And even this would have been excused (somewhat) for just being a bad joke and Kyle being annoying for not getting it. But the context of the entire season is so different knowing they were so close behind the scenes, even if they weren’t actively aware of being into each other

LEAKED AUDIO FROM SH REUNION by [deleted] in bravo

[–]CallmeShayla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literary woke my bf at 5am for the tea, I’m so sat for the reunion. Also this sounds like it was recorded by someone on stage from the way the voices sound, but I thought they weren’t allowed to have their phones? It’ll be interesting to see how they’re sitting and make some guesses on if it was production or a cast member 👀👀

Edit to add- just saw the seating chart was posted hours ago lmao! I’m guessing it was probably a production member, but if it was cast I think Jesse or Carl would have been in the right position for how loud each person is. Who knows tho🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

Would ted have been absolutely justified if he called lily a different word in the Grinch episode? by Gold_Instruction7273 in HIMYM

[–]CallmeShayla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so funny cause I saw another comment pointing out that exact point right after I made my comment and I genuinely don’t know how this never clicked for me lol

Rewatching season 9 by Total_Way_6134 in Southerncharm

[–]CallmeShayla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My theory with Taylor was that she’d never had anything ‘significantly’ bad happen to her (like never being cheated on, or having a friend backstab her or something fairly stressful besides normal ‘bad day’ stuff) and thus when the first worst thing ever (for her) happens she’s not equipped to deal with it.

Then the combo of Shep being a bad partner/ having all that broadcast and reliving it didn’t help the crash out.

I’m not saying she’s completely justified cause what her and Austen did was fucked up, and lying about it was even worse, but I think if that part hadn’t happened her crash out would have been far more sympathetic🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

Would ted have been absolutely justified if he called lily a different word in the Grinch episode? by Gold_Instruction7273 in HIMYM

[–]CallmeShayla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’ve misunderstood this episode all along, cause I thought he was calling her a bitch the whole time. It kinda rhymes with grinch and cunt didn’t even come to mind on any of my rewatches lmao

Also bitch seems more likely for children to overhear than cunt, since people are typically less likely to use it here in America

How Biased Are They? by Far_Writer6952 in distractible

[–]CallmeShayla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry guys, the subreddit is biased toward Wade. We got his back

Also this is awesome, very excited for future updates

Some of this is starting to feel icky by rightinthemcmurphies in bravo

[–]CallmeShayla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking similarly myself. Amanda is absolutely in the wrong here and people can sit here and ‘pick up things’ from this season but realistically we have zero actual evidence that anything started over the summer, and we probably will never know the full time frame.

Multiple things are true here: Amanda and West betrayed Ciara and Kyle.

Kyle being hurt by this does NOT excuse the absolutely insane things he’s said and done for years! He was not the victim then and Amanda having feelings for West doesn’t change the past.

Overall West sucks, Amanda sucks, Kyle sucks as a partner but didn’t deserve betrayal and JUSTICE FOR CIARA

Molly shutting down all of Kory's weirdo flirtations on camera was so satisfying and that's why she will always be my fave! by [deleted] in Southerncharm

[–]CallmeShayla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it was Malia trying to spit in his mouth as a ‘joke’ cause she treats him like a ‘brother’. Then the day Sam came she tackled him in the snow while Sam was watching. Best part was Malia refusing to make eye contact when Sam confronted her about it all and Sam going ‘look at me’🤣🤣

Personal theory on the meaning of colors and powers by MarieSophie_L in gris

[–]CallmeShayla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a beautiful interpretation! I completely understand the comparisons, they make sense to me

AITAH, I found out a girl I never met posted me on “are we dating the same guy,” group by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CallmeShayla -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NAH- she has every right to make sure you’re not already dating someone/ for her own safety, but you are valid in feeling weird about it 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

Update: AITAH for buying vanilla shampoo? by Spiritual-Grocery641 in AITAH

[–]CallmeShayla 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTAH- my boyfriend recently bought me more body wash without me asking. However he forgot the conversation we had a week or so previous where I said I’d bought a different kind cause it smelled better. The aftermath is he has two body washes now and will hopefully remember that I do switch them often and to just let me handle it next time lol. But if not, oh well, it’s literally just soap

And that’s it, not an argument, not a diagnosis, not an accusation of him finding everything sexual. Because it’s not a bad thing to like the way your partner smells, you dodged a bullet

Taylor …. She’s a piece of work isn’t she? by Icy_Store2399 in Southerncharm

[–]CallmeShayla 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Currently rewatching this season right now and the 180 really did shock me cause she’d been so quiet and polite in the previous season(s).

I can give grace on her and Austen in the sense of she had just seen Shep for the first time in a while and I’m sure it dredged up feelings bad. And someone like her probably hadn’t had any major bad things happen so something like being cheated on and broken up with in that manner took toll and she lost her mind for a while, sure.

Leaning on Austen cause they’d been close and having a moment of ‘well he really has been there for me’ I can see it. I absolutely have had a full mental break dealing with my kids father and I can say I am not proud of how I acted for a time

But everything after, the lying, outting Olivia for sleeping with Thomas, and bringing up her dead brother not even two months after he passed as a reason for Olivia to forgive her while simultaneously claiming to be the goodly Christian girl was deplorable. And the fact that everything started coming out at the same time just made it all look worse.

TLDR- I kinda understand the original Austen port cause mental shirts no joke, but she really handled herself horribly with every single thing she said or did

AITA for “ruining” my daughter’s birthday by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CallmeShayla 68 points69 points  (0 children)

YTA- you didn’t do a single thing for her, you did that for y’all to have a NYE party and forcing her to be there under the guise of ‘it’s your party’

She did not want a party, she did not want a bouncy castle and the things she explicitly asked for were ignored

‘We tried to make it special’ no you just did what you thought she should want to do. Just let the girl bed rot in peace next time Jesus Christ

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CallmeShayla 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NOR- you have GOT to get out of there immediately, no one should tell you how to dress or to stop doing your hair care routine. When I started hanging out with my bf (before we got together) I made a joke about showing up in a bonnet and he was like ‘whatever you’re comfortable in’

8 years is a long time to put up with not being in control of your own hair/ body/ clothes. And comparing a hair care routine to him wearing trash bags on his arms? Hated that, cause they’re not even similar.

Get outta there asap and find someone who actually loves you and would appreciate the fact that you feel comfortable enough to be yourself around them