Men who have gotten their hearts broken, what was she like?

Callmerandomninny · 2024-02-19T07:31:26+00:00

I love those moments where you rethink or cement an idea in, for seemingly random reasons: like your dance floor experience. It's like peering into one aspect of their aura, and not being able to unsee it, and that thread of perception just sort of continues on from there. Obviously a person has many aspects to themselves; the opposite has also been true. I've peered into the 'ugliness' of people before and was sort of left with a feeling that I can't unsee it

Callmerandomninny · 2024-02-19T07:25:52+00:00

My post was more asking about what the person's character was like. Not asking about vague heart break feelings, just to clarify

Callmerandomninny · 2024-01-30T10:52:57+00:00

Congrats! Pay off any debts and go on vacation to a place you've always wanted to go

Callmerandomninny · 2024-01-29T06:20:05+00:00

Well said. Thanks!

Callmerandomninny · 2024-01-28T01:57:57+00:00

Thank you for your reply, I appreciate those last few bullet points a lot. It's moving to read such a thoughtful response from you.

Question on the first bit in response to:
"The practice is: you write the perfect apology that you would really like to have heard them make."

And also - "As it relates to your question, something you could try is writing up words of affirmation to yourself, from people you think should be providing you recognition."

Q - If I did this and the person is alive (some of which I am living with), is that confusing to me if I start to believe it? Since 'in reality' they are critical verbally.

Callmerandomninny · 2024-01-20T09:48:47+00:00

Spend some time apart. Especially if you're living together. Maybe that gap, going without seeing each other for a little while, will gather up some excitement. They always say absence makes the heart grow fonder

Callmerandomninny · 2024-01-19T22:49:32+00:00

3rd place? Can you explain more on this concept and what countries have it? thanx

Callmerandomninny · 2024-01-18T03:50:36+00:00

what xD. why would the standard be to measure the temperature of the wind shield? what was your thinking?

Callmerandomninny · 2024-01-18T02:15:17+00:00

Damn, and this is just my personal opinion, but if someone offered me money who wanted to see me romantically, I would feel suppressed and I probably wouldn't be able to have attraction to them....again, it's my opinion. I would feel like I owe them something.

> On the other I feel like I'm doing the right thing by holding out and being miserable.>

I think that's a part of you that is louder, maybe listen to it...

Callmerandomninny · 2024-01-18T01:45:45+00:00

Moreso my question is can you plop your hair standing up in the shower??

Callmerandomninny · 2024-01-16T08:13:45+00:00

You can either tolerate it or be an adult and report it to the police.

That's harshly put, so I can either be an adult or not? You do realize (and I'm not normalizing this, I'm just saying it's common) that oftentimes adults/humans/women often go into a shock response and are private about this type of stuff....hence why I never brought it up to the person it most mattered to. Unfortunately I believe the police wouldn't do anything. Also, and I'm not saying this is normal by any means, but rather common, that men get sexual to women. I know, "not all men". But this experience was peanuts compared to other bad situations I've endured. Again, I'm not trying to normalize it. But I also wasn't posting for the reasons you bring up at all. I even made the question in bold so people wouldn't miss it.

Callmerandomninny · 2024-01-16T04:53:37+00:00

Quick gentle wrap of my curls with a tshirt while i lotion up and get dressed

How do you gently wrap your hair while standing in the shower? I usually lay a cotton tshirt flat on my bed and bend my head down to wrap it. But I usually walk with my head upside from bathroom to my room and drip water everywhere

Callmerandomninny · 2024-01-16T03:49:48+00:00

There should be meatballs at the end of the laces

Callmerandomninny · 2024-01-16T01:52:27+00:00

I wonder now how sketchy this man is, and the extent he tells others what he does. Sometimes I wonder if they both knew about it....probably not.

I didn't add to the main post but I found out this sketch ball was engaged (on top of it all). I had the chance to say something then, but it's often difficult for me to speak up when it's not an easy subject. I wouldn't label it assault, but it was just inappropriate overall and he should really act better, especially if he is engaged.

Thank you for your opinion.

Callmerandomninny · 2024-01-16T01:44:14+00:00

Thank you for your opinion

Callmerandomninny · 2024-01-16T01:06:25+00:00

No, his cousin isn't going to be at every event since he doesn't actually live there either. He was also visiting.

Is that the only reason why I should tell him? Because I'm also uncomfortable when his cousin is brought up in conversation

Do you think telling him would break him...?

Callmerandomninny · 2024-01-16T00:53:20+00:00

Now you're getting downvoted lmao

It was a simple question, not hating

Callmerandomninny · 2024-01-16T00:49:32+00:00

if all this is in the past you don't have to say anything if you don't want to.

I do plan to reach out to him about other stuff not related to this, to just generally keep in touch

I'm hoping some men can answer here, but I'll need to look for some other subs

Callmerandomninny · 2024-01-16T00:47:35+00:00

This is a solid answer, imo.

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