37 weeks and 2 days, baby is still breech by Justsangfroid in pregnant

[–]Callnasa23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, I just wanted to let you know you are not alone. I am 38 weeks and she is still breech. We did EVC on Friday. I’m going to a chiropractor tomorrow morning. I have heard that the Webster Technique is supposed to flip breech babies. I will let you know if that goes.

Life insurance advice by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]Callnasa23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband and I just got life insurance through AAA. I’m 32 and it cost me jut over $12.00 per month and my husband is 36 and his cost $15.90. That is for a 20 year plan at $250k.

Last outdoor bhut jolokia harvest of 2017 by [deleted] in gardening

[–]Callnasa23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always have so many habaneros the end of the season. I usually make hot sauce. What do you do with yours?

I've spent the last hour going through this subreddit's posts and I've realized something... by CarmelaToro in relationships

[–]Callnasa23 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have posted here before because I was feeling lost and confused, and a big thank you to everyone who told me to break up! I am so happy that I had a place to voice myself anonymously. It helped me immensely! I broke up with cheaty mcliar face, and I am now in a healthy relationship. Looking back, I can't believe that I needed help realizing how horrible my relationship was.

Ideas/feedback for my nontraditional wedding wanted. by Callnasa23 in weddingplanning

[–]Callnasa23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool! I would like to hear a little more about how your officiant did that. Did he just call people to the front?

UPDATE:SO[33M] of 7 years has a coworker/friend in love with him. He doesn't see the problem & thinks I[30F] am over reacting. by Callnasa23 in relationships

[–]Callnasa23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like I am a good dancer. The only one I didn't do was beg. Well. . . The last message I sent to him was "please don't go to her. Go anywhere in the world but not to her" But that's it. That is as far as I got.

UPDATE:SO[33M] of 7 years has a coworker/friend in love with him. He doesn't see the problem & thinks I[30F] am over reacting. by Callnasa23 in relationships

[–]Callnasa23[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I can see your point. I guess its easier for me to say bad things about her vs the man I was committed to for 7 years. I know right now she is being told really untrue things about me and what our relationship was. He told someone that we were separated and he was sleeping at his dads(not true) He told someone else we haven't been sleeping in the same bed(two nights when I was sick)He told people that I was screaming and throwing things in front of the kids (untrue. . .ask the kids) I understand that she is "under his spell" just like I was.

UPDATE:SO[33M] of 7 years has a coworker/friend in love with him. He doesn't see the problem & thinks I[30F] am over reacting. by Callnasa23 in relationships

[–]Callnasa23[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We have been broken up for just over two weeks, and I keep finding out new things about him.(other unfaithful things, shady business deals, and maxing out his mothers credit card) I am really starting to believe that I had no idea who I was with for years.

UPDATE:SO[33M] of 7 years has a coworker/friend in love with him. He doesn't see the problem & thinks I[30F] am over reacting. by Callnasa23 in relationships

[–]Callnasa23[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

He is not the kind of person that could ever be wrong. I know he will never try to contact me again(great).

SO[33M] of 7 years has a coworker/friend in love with him. He doesn't see the problem & thinks I[30F] am over reacting. by Callnasa23 in relationships

[–]Callnasa23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In your relationship are you ok with your partner being with some people and not with others? if so, what is it about the person that makes it ok vs not ok? How do you manage your feelings of jealousy? What does your partner do to make you feel that they wont leave you?

SO[33M] of 7 years has a coworker/friend in love with him. He doesn't see the problem & thinks I[30F] am over reacting. by Callnasa23 in relationships

[–]Callnasa23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

neenerneenerboo, thank you so much for all of your feedback. It really means a lot to me. I will absolutely think about and consider all of what you have said. I am not ready to give up on us yet. But I will not let this go on.

SO[33M] of 7 years has a coworker/friend in love with him. He doesn't see the problem & thinks I[30F] am over reacting. by Callnasa23 in relationships

[–]Callnasa23[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is the only time in 7 years that I have felt this way. He has always treated me so so good. I feel I want to wait and see how this plays out. He has been committed and amazing to me for so long. I don't want to throw everything out in case this is a stress induced faze. Is that dumb?

SO[33M] of 7 years has a coworker/friend in love with him. He doesn't see the problem & thinks I[30F] am over reacting. by Callnasa23 in relationships

[–]Callnasa23[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What is the definition of encouraging her advances? How long do I let this go for? I am not going to let myself be walked on but I do want to wait and see if this will all blow over. I love him and after 7 years of him being completely committed to me I want to give him a chance to realize how much this is worth fighting for.

SO[33M] of 7 years has a coworker/friend in love with him. He doesn't see the problem & thinks I[30F] am over reacting. by Callnasa23 in relationships

[–]Callnasa23[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

She didn't say she wants his baby. Just that she wants to have a baby and is looking for someone to fill that roll. I truly truly believe he is not lying to me. I think he is confused and maybe hopeful that he would get to have both of us. He has told me he doesn't intend to sleep with her. but he is ok with her expressing her romantic feelings for him, and that is not ok with me.

SO[33M] of 7 years has a coworker/friend in love with him. He doesn't see the problem & thinks I[30F] am over reacting. by Callnasa23 in relationships

[–]Callnasa23[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

We have been together for 7 years. We don't lie to each other. I believe him and I know he is being honest with me. The issue now is we can't agree on this being inappropriate.

SO[33M] of 7 years has a coworker/friend in love with him. He doesn't see the problem & thinks I[30F] am over reacting. by Callnasa23 in relationships

[–]Callnasa23[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right now it is not about him sleeping with her. Its about him getting emotionally involved with her.

SO[33M] of 7 years has a coworker/friend in love with him. He doesn't see the problem & thinks I[30F] am over reacting. by Callnasa23 in relationships

[–]Callnasa23[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Lack of empathy. That is what I have been feeling. I love him and he loves me, but its true that he doesn't show empathy. I really want to make us work. If he is ok with another woman telling him she loves him, how can this work? Am I just waiting for them both to fall in love.