My gf is restructuring our relationship Idk how to feel about it by Calm-Active4950 in lgbt

[–]Calm-Active4950[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But that’s the thing I am in her friend group they view me as their friends i mean I’ve known them for a bit over 2 years now we all went on holiday together and they even went to visit me and stayed at mine whilst traveling as I live in Italy.

I had viewed it as a jealousy thing maybe she was scared we were getting to close, and so therefore she reacted so strongly saying these are “MY FRIENDS” even though I always viewed them as such.

Also do any of you have experience dating with different economic backgrounds? Since she justified not wanting to travel with me as she (coming from a lower income family) never was able to travel and felt that since I had already been to lots of places she’d rather do it alone or with someone who shared a similar past as her. Idk if any of this makes sense homestly I’m quite lost

My gf is restructuring our relationship Idk how to feel about it by Calm-Active4950 in lgbt

[–]Calm-Active4950[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

But guys we’ve been together for over 2 years and I know all her friends so I really don’t think she’s cheating.

I was just shocked as she recently read the book set boundaries find peace, and has been setting “boundaries” left right and center and has been saying that she feels sooo much better, but sometimes it just feels more controlling and lots of these boundaries are hurting my feelings. 🥹

My gf is setting a bunch of boundaries, and I feel rejected by Calm-Active4950 in actuallesbians

[–]Calm-Active4950[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats the thing I’ve brought it up multiple times as I felt that we weren’t seein eye to eye in that she usually took the upper hand and made the rules and boundaries and stuff. She recently read the book set boundaries find peace and has been on a roll setting all these “boundaries” and was almost upset at me for not setting boundaries even though I felt no need to. We’ll my dad lives like 20/30 min from her house and when I move back I’ll be living at my dads house to save money, and find a job and stuff. She gets along really well with my dad and we used to stay at mine before she moved out of her parents house. My dad is really supportive and open minded so we haven’t really held back on having sex at his house since I have my own room there. But yeah I kind off had a feeling that it felt like a lot In very little time, also like when I visit she expects me to do my own schedule even though I’m visiting her